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to be read: Q1 2024 bookshelf

his dark reflection - marvellous michael anson

accidental magic - iris beaglehole

broken rules (broken duet #1) - I.A Dice

broken promises (broken duet #2) I.A Dice

den of vipers - k.a knight

the hanging ity - charlie n. holmberg

current state of the union:

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📖 currently reading : the chosen and the beautiful

Jordan Baker grows up in the most rarefied circles of 1920s American society—she has money, education, a killer golf handicap, and invitations to some of the most exclusive parties of the Jazz Age. She's also queer, Asian, adopted, and treated as an exotic attraction by her peers, while the most important doors remain closed to her.

But the world is full of wonders: infernal pacts and dazzling illusions, lost ghosts and elemental mysteries. In all paper is fire, and Jordan can burn the cut paper heart out of a man. She just has to learn how.

📺 currently watching: desperate housewives

Set on Wisteria Lane, a street in the fictional town of Fairview in the fictional Eagle State, Desperate Housewives follows the lives of a group of women as seen through the eyes of their friend and neighbor who took her life by suicide in the pilot episode.

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not studying

self-deprecating jokes

not giving yourself time to rest

Kimmy’s Digital Diary: I owe it to myself to be the best version of me possible

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As we step into the new year of 2024, I think to myself ‘what can I do differently in 2024?’ I’m not one to sit on my hands and wait until a new year started to make changes to my life but I would be lying if I didn't say that the sparkle surrounding the prospect of being an entirely new person in january while reflecting on the year in december didn’t excite me. I’ve been taking my vitamins, getting my ass in the gym, solidifying my beauty routines and trying to become an all around ‘it girl’. BUT it's time to wholeheartedly embrace the essence of the 'it girl era' with even more aggression and tenacity than before. Being mediocre has never been in my cards and I want so much out of this life that I have to do more.

The Enchantment of Your Signature Beauty Routine

The first thing I had to get right was my natural look. My go-to ‘If i have 5 minutes to be outside can I I do it?’ signature makeup look. And this is from someone who just started learning about makeup in 2016…where we did full faces and the thickest eyebrows possible. I had to think about what I wanted my staples to be that would always be in my collection. Now I’m a girl who likes a nice dewy look and whenever I wear makeup people don't even know I’m wearing it!

Think of makeup not merely as a beauty enhancer, but as a canvas for self-expression. Whether you resonate with the 'less is more' philosophy, cherishing a dewy no-makeup makeup look, or you're a glamour enthusiast who wouldn't part with her winged eyeliner for anything, your makeup style is an extension of your identity.

My personal go-tos for my 10 minute routine

FOUNDATION:

Sacha Cosmetics Cream to Powder Foundation- Perfect Spice

e.l.f halow glow liquid filter - 6 tan/deep warm

CONCEALER

e.l.f hydrating camo concealer - medium peach

BLUSH

sacha cosmetics powder blush - claret

SETTING POWDER

sacha cosmetics buttercup setting powder

SETTING SPRAY

urban decay all nighter

Yet, the magic doesn't end there. Scents have an enchanting ability to stir emotions and weave memories. Do you find joy in the freshness of citrus, the elegance of roses, or does the warm, comforting aroma of vanilla speak to your soul? Discovering your signature scent is like leaving traces of your personal brand in every room you enter.

And do not forget to LAYER YOUR FRAGRANCES GIRL.

From the shower gel, to the body lotion to the perfume combinations. Make sure your notes match to create a custom signature scent that will have everybody asking you what fragrance you’re wearing. But we all know, pretty girls don’t share those combinations.

And then, there's your unique style. Whether it aligns with classic chic, boho vibes, or the boldness of street style, your fashion choices should resonate with your personality and instill a sense of empowerment within you.

You don’t have to conform to Tiktok niches but you can mix and match those styles until you get one that feels authentic to YOU. Remember, it’s better to have your own aesthetic than trying to keep up with trends that don't match your personality.

Goal-Getting: Your Moment is Now

Let's shift gears and talk about pursuing your aspirations with unyielding determination. It's the perfect time to outline major goals for the first quarter of the year. Dreaming of launching your own business? Let's sketch out the plan. Eyeing that well-deserved promotion? Let's craft the path towards it. This is undeniably your year, your time to radiate brilliance. Always remember, every achievement begins with the courage to take that first step.

Here are a few tips to staying on top of your studies in 2024:

Use the pomodoro method - its much easier to break things down into smaller chunks than sitting down for hours studying

Invest in cute study supplies (trust me it makes a difference)

Set a study schedule and stick to it

Practice ‘recall’

Have a study scent - to help with recall. Memories are triggered by scent!

Mind and Body Wellness: Embrace Strength Training and Pilates

Exercise is more than sculpting the perfect physique; it's about decluttering your mind and discovering the incredible strength within. Introducing workouts like strength training and Pilates into your routine can be truly transformative.

Strength training empowers you, fostering a sense of strength and capability, and guess what? It contributes to maintaining a harmonious metabolism. On the other hand, Pilates transcends physical fitness; it's an intricate dance between mind and body. Improving flexibility, posture, and even mental wellness, Pilates is a holistic embrace of your well-being.

Let's get into it, The Action Steps

Here's your glow-up game plan:

Curate a beauty regimen that is an authentic reflection of YOU. Remember, it's not about following trends; it's about celebrating what makes YOU feel stunning.

Chart out ambitious goals for Q1. Break them down into manageable tasks and start the journey towards realizing them. Your dreams are deserving of your pursuit.

Infuse strength training and Pilates into your fitness routine. Your body and mind will express gratitude for the nurturing care.

Remember, the path to becoming the best version of yourself is a steady journey, not a hurried sprint. Take each step with intention, celebrate every small victory, and, most importantly, embrace your unique beauty and strength. Here's to a luminous and confident 2024 ✨

Kimmy's Digital Diary: things are better than they seem because i'm in control of my reality.

i think it's easy to start spiralling after one thing goes wrong in life.

"I didn't start this habit on this day, therefore I'm a failure"

"I haven't accomplished this yet so I'm never gonna get there"

"I don't know what to do"

And then the decision paralysis comes in and I freeze.

tick tock tick tock - time is ticking and I know I need to make a decision or do something but I'm so scared of my next move I don't do anything at all.

But then I remember - I'm in control of my reality. I choose what and how everything will play out. If I want to be that girl, I can become that girl by believing I am and showing up as her.

So I needed to get in the habit of tracking my habits because we all know that knowing what you want makes it that much easier to manifest

Becoming 'THAT' GIRL

Haircare Regimen

monthly hair dates – because a fresh braid set can fix anything✨

maintaining my braids using hot oil treatments and hair masks at home

finding hair products that vibe with my texture, not just the viral stuff.

Fitness Regimen

gym time at least 3x a week – gotta keep this ass I've worked hard for

move for at least 10 minutes daily, even if it's not a full-on workout.

Skincare Regimen

doing morning and nighttime routines everyday

finding products that work for my skin concerns (if you guys want i'll share my skincare routine i have combination/oily skin)

getting a facial once a month

Study Regimen

finding new courses to study every quarter.

setting aside 1hr every day to study something new

And a little reminder: Next time you're feeling down for not being where you want to be, just remember – as long as you're showing up and striving to be better than yesterday, you're doing just fine. 💖

goals for january:

1. exercise daily

2. bible time daily

3. finish my current book

4. self care day once a week

5. get settled into semester study plan

KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

Sometimes I forget I'm still young and have a whole life ahead of me. I can slow down, I don't have to worry as much as I do.

If I change my state and just decide that I'm exactly where I want to be the opportunities will find their ways to me.

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affirmations of the week:

my dreams are valid, and I have the power to make them a reality.

my intelligence and creativity are assets that I use to achieve my goals.

I deserve respect and kindness in all aspects of my life.

I am worthy of love and surround myself with positive relationships.

I trust the journey of my life and believe in my own path.

I treat myself with love and compassion, nurturing my well-being.

CURRENTLY READING:

Broken Promises (Broken Duet #2)

Tormented by recent events, Dante struggles to choose a path. Betrayal cuts deep, no matter the circumstances, hatred keeps his mind busy but it’s no match for the heart. Going up against love is futile.

connect with me on goodreads!

february watch list ˚ ༘♡ ·˚ ₊˚ˑ༄ؘ

10 things i hate about you

clueless

crazy rich asians

how to lose a guy in 10 days

the proposal

maid in manhattan

hitch

KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

Life got so much better once I stopped caring so much what other people think of me. The only person I have to impress is myself, and everything else will fall into place.

I'm not worried on anybody else's success, I'm focused on mine.

I'm not focusing on what I lack, I'm focusing on gratitude for what I have and what's to come

I'm practicing discipline and staying on track with my glow up non-negotiables

what's in?

reading for 15 minutes a day

going to the gym & staying fit

comfort soups

being grateful for future you

what's out?

self deprecating jokes

not making smart goals

making excuses

CURRENTLY LISTENING TO:

KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

after a good gym sesh, sticking to my morning/evening routines, and taking time to ground myself through journaling, I feel like I've unlocked a new level inner peace and happiness i didn't think was possible.

but that happens a lot when you're consistent with yourself and stay on track of your goals. there are no excuses to behave any other way because the woman i want to be wouldn't act that way.

i make time to stay educated, and stay connected to my spirituality. this keeps me grounded and inspires my journey.

affirmations for this week

i am a forever student, dedicated to expanding my knowledge.

i am a powerhouse, and with every move, i affirm my strength, resilience, and commitment to my well-being.

i affirm that my dreams are becoming my reality.

i align myself with the universe's abundant energy.

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i'm obsessed with becoming better and this isn't in a completely selfish way (although it 90% is). i wanted to becoming a better community member. i wanted to show up even more than i knew i could for my loved ones.

i'm becoming more disciplined and sticking to my routines no matter the mood. i'm more diligent with my work. i'm more intentional when reaching out and reaching out more often. i feel so connected and calm and supported.

it's a nice feeling, being able to feel so much love at once. i consider myself very lucky.

subliminal of the week

what’s in?

gratitude journals

creative breaks during the day

visualization techniques

morning affirmations

what's out?

mindless scrolling

skipping stretching

breaking promises to yourself

KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

not everyday is going to be perfect. there are weeks where i struggle to show up as the best version of myself. sometimes i don't stick to my routine as much as i should have, but i don't beat myself up about it.

why?

beating myself up does nothing. if i didn't do it i already feel bad so why not use positive self redirection to help me show up better tomorrow? i can reflect at the end of the ay to identify my pain points and try again the next day.

in the chapters of my journey, mistakes are not closures but verses, helping me compose new skills to conquer the world.

🕊 habits to adopt this week (pick one!):

daily gratitude

7-9 cups of water a day

daily movement for 15 minutes

make up your bed daily

read for 15 minutes a day

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🗝️ affirmations for the week:

i affirm my ability to cultivate habits that serve my highest good, knowing that small, consistent actions lead to lasting transformation

i embrace imperfection as a natural part of life's journey, knowing that every setback is an opportunity for growth.

i release self-judgment for not always sticking to routines, focusing instead on positive self-redirection.

current skincare faves:

midha rice toner

midha rice tone up cream

currently listening to:

With love, Kimmy

girl therapy

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first week of march

As the sun sticks around a little longer each day, and the birds serenade the world, there's a sense of awakening. The ice is melting, both literally and metaphorically, bringing in a season of renewal. It just feels like the perfect time to plant seeds for success. 🌼🌸☀️

february was hectic. it was exhausting, and it took extra strength and belief in myself to stay on track.

there was tooons of low energy days but i made workarounds. i altered my schedules on my low energy days to activities that wouldn't further exhaust me and invigorate me instead.

the one thing that kept me grounded was daily prayer, and gratitude. on the hardest days, find one thing that went right and hold onto that as your hope for the day.

it might be a terrible day but it's not a terrible life, if i have these things to be grateful for.

subliminal of the week

what's in?

subliminals for success

spontaneous acts of kindness

exploring new hobbies for joy, not perfection

setting realistic and achievable goals

surrounding yourself with uplifting people

mindful breathing exercises

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what's out?

seeking validation from others

overcommitting and feeling overwhelmed

dwelling on past mistakes

negative self-talk and self-criticism

engaging in toxic relationships

affirmations for the week

I am a source of positivity and kindness, spreading joy through spontaneous acts of kindness each day.

My goals are realistic and achievable, and I celebrate progress over perfection. I embrace the joy of exploring new hobbies for personal fulfillment, not external validation.

I surround myself with uplifting people who support my journey, and I release toxic relationships that hinder my growth. I am a beacon of positivity and choose mindful breathing to center myself in moments of stress.

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april is here and it finally feels like the real new year. the sun is finally out for longer, the birds are chirping (and waking me up every morning too)

the tulips and hyacinth bulbs are awaking from their slumbers and blessing us with sweet aromas and the sun is sneaking out a little later and giving us hints of summer freedom.

march was filled with lots of campaign planning, good food, and good memories. but, it was also filled with stress, frustration, late nights, and coffee.

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psalms 91:7

A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you.

subliminal of the week

what's in?

Self-care Sundays: Taking time to pamper yourself and recharge.

Mindful eating: Savoring your meals and listening to your body's hunger cues.

Setting boundaries: Saying no to things that don't serve you and prioritizing your well-being.

Supporting other women: Empowering and uplifting your fellow girls in their endeavors.

Confidence: Embracing your uniqueness and owning who you are.

what's out?

Procrastination: Putting off tasks and responsibilities until the last minute.

Negative self-talk: Criticizing yourself and focusing on flaws rather than strengths.

Comparing yourself to others: Measuring your worth based on others' achievements or appearances.

Overworking: Sacrificing your well-being and work-life balance for the sake of productivity.

Self-doubt: Letting fear and insecurity hold you back from pursuing your goals and dreams.

affirmations of the week

My Sundays are sacred, and I honor them by nurturing my mind, body, and soul.

Every bite I take is an opportunity to show love and respect for my body.

I embrace opportunities for growth and welcome challenges as stepping stones to success.

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ahh, i finally feel inspired to write again but does anyone else feel like something shifted after that eclipse? like the real new year just started for me. i feel so, renewed! but also fed up with so many things in my life. it's finally time to shed my skin (old habits and behaviours) and welcome new opportunities. in the same way the Persephone is rejoining her mother and awakening and beautifying the earth, i need to beautify my life after a period of stagnancy.

i'm making a lot of pacts to myself for the next couple of months regarding my health, and financial wellbeing. i'm in my mid twenties and i need to start focusing on being a baddie in every area of my life.

i also got this cute app called finch to help with self care tasks and keep me on track. the more self-care i do the bigger my penguin grows!! taking care of me takes care of her and i love it.

(not an ad! seriously try it)

kimmy's skincare diaries

morning routine

wash face with salicylic acid cleanser (for acne prone skin)

rice water toner (to even it out and cool my skin)

ice roller (helps wake me up in the morning)

hydration (hyaluronic acid)

moisturizer (ricer serum)

gua sha (5 mins)

night routine

wash face with salicylic acid cleanser (for acne prone skin)

rice water toner (to even it out and cool my skin)

lactic acid (exfoliator 2x a week)

treatment (for dark spots and hyperpigmentation)

hydration (hyaluronic acid)

moisturizer (ricer serum)

gua sha (5 mins)

kimmy's music diaries:

i am seriously OBSESSED with espresso, it plays in my head all day. my bf is probably fed up with me singing it.

okay love you bye!!

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July is here, and it’s like the summer just gave us a big, warm hug! The days are longer, the sunsets are more stunning, and every evening feels like a celebration of light and colour.

The roses and daisies are showing off their best selves, filling the air with sweet scents, and the sun is treating us to those golden-hour vibes that make everything look like a dream. 💭

June was a whirlwind of beach trips, ice cream dates, and unforgettable moments. New jobs, new opportunities, and new money are rolling in, which is super exciting! But if i'm being 100% honest —it also had its share of meltdowns, frantic deadlines, and new routines. I've learned that now more than ever, i need to get my sh*t together and stay on track with my goals.

Psalm 121:7-8

The Lord will keep you from all harm— he will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.

what’s in?

summer picnics: Grabbing the besties and a basket full of goodies for some sunshine and laughter in the sun ☀️

fresh fruit smoothies: Blending up nature’s candy for a refreshing and healthy treat!!! my current fave is a mango, strawberry, pineapple and orange juice blend 🍓🥭🍍

spontaneous road trips: Hitting the road with no plans, just the open road and endless possibilities., i looooove driving by the water and exploring the cities nearby. i always find a cute antique shop or new food truck.

what’s out?

burnout: Pushing yourself to the limit and forgetting to relax. you need to promise yourself that you'll schedule at least 20 minutes for self care

overthinking: Letting worries steal the joy from your sunny days. if you stress about it before it happens you're putting yourself through it twice. and that doesn't make sense!

clutter: Holding onto things (and thoughts) that no longer serve you.

FOMO: Stressing about what everyone else is doing instead of enjoying your own journey.

until next time,

mwah!

XOXO