21+, cassgender // cassgirl, coralqueer, emotionless // loveless aplaroace, taken, infp, sylph of heart

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Hey! I Mean No Disrespect By This At All I'm Just Genuinely Curious, In Your Bio It Says You're An Emotionless

Hey! I mean no disrespect by this at all I'm just genuinely curious, in your bio it says you're an emotionless / loveless aplaroace, but you're taken? How does that work?

Oh hey, you're fine. So, I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume you know that aromantics can still date, and aces can still participate in intercourse or other. You don't need attraction to do these things, though I'm sure it certainly helps! There identities that are on the aromantic/asexual spectrums where they can experience attraction as well or want to participate in these sorts of relationships(ex: romo or sexual positive aro/aces). Now apply this to the broader aspec/anattractional spectrums.

I will say that emotions can be similar. You don't need to have emotions to be in different kinds of relationships.

Emotionless/loveless are terms I go by to describe my overall experience and/or identity. It does not specify how much emotion or love I can experience, it's just easier to go by the terms instead of describing it all, as like with my aplaroace label which does not specify which identities I go by under that.

I also find it matters little to certain people and they treat me like others who experience even less than I do.

Now with all of that out of the way, I am on the aroace spectrums so I do experience attraction to an extent, and I experience it only with my two partners. All three of us have varying and different types of attraction. I also experience some other non-rose attractions to my partners and even for people outside of them, such as communal or community based attraction, impersonal attraction, solaic, et cetera.

You can really have any type of relationship, as long as it's consensual and in good faith, it's really limitless. Maybe you don't care about that and that's totally fine. Labels, identities, relationship styles/dynamics are for us to use or enjoy but it doesn't mean we have to. But I do and it makes me happy. My partners know I support them and wouldn't want either to be in a relationship with me where they are unhappy or discontent.

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1 year ago

'from the river to the sea' 🤝🏿'blm' 🤝🏾'land back'

phrases + chants that terrify white supremacists, so we should definitely keep saying them


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1 year ago

Happy November 29th, everybody! If you didn't know, today is International Day of Solidarity with the Palestinian People!

Please, for those of you who have been protesting and fighting for the freedom of Palestine and the justice of their people, continue to do so! And if haven't, well it's not too late to join. There are a ton of ways to help and show your support!

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1 year ago
Good Morning People! The World Unpaused Their Favorite Genocide Today.
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Good Morning People! The World Unpaused Their Favorite Genocide Today.

Good morning people! The world unpaused their favorite genocide today.

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