So I Have The Weirdest Synastry With This Guy I'm Obsessed With, Like I'm So Attracted To Him Its Insane

So I have the weirdest synastry with this guy I'm obsessed with, like I'm so attracted to him it’s insane (he’s also three years older than me) but I don't know if he feels the same way

My rising sign conjuncts his mars and squares his pluto and eros, my mars squares his Pluto and his mars and sun conjuncts my south node, his lilith conjuncts my venus and his uranus trines my venus. And his mars is also opposite my uranus and my mars trines his venus. Also his mars trines my sun…I don’t know what this means tho.

Does this mean he finds me attractive or am I the one who’s more obsessed???

Mars / Pluto / Lilith Synastry

These are some very powerful planets in some strong aspects lol. The Mars/Pluto ( + Eros ) aspects to the ascendant can feel like chemistry at first sight, like it was inevitable. With his Mars conjuncting your Ascendant, his energy and passion can feel like it's becoming yours too.

The orgins of your obssession may stem from his Mars and Sun being conjunct with your south node (and by extension, opposition with the north node.) The south node is your past life, what you're used to/comfortable with. And with your opposition north node aspects, he can feel like a missing piece of the puzzle for you on your life journey.

And his Lilith conjuncting your Venus will reel him in. The appeal and attraction with this placement is actually insane. Once you got him reeled in, he may feel like leaving or abandoning you is like leaving a piece of himself behind. He'll probably be OBSESSED with you as much as you are to him.

HOWEVER, if things go south between yall, the conflict could be intense, or even life threatening. Strong Mars/Pluto/Lilith aspects in synastry imply a lot of intensity and energy into whatever you guys do together. So while this could mean in bed or devotion to each other, it can also mean fights and arguments.

So I think you guys should just dip your toes in and test the waters before taking a deep dive, so you can feel out each other's energies and intensity.

Astrology Observations and Theories : Honorary Exalted Signs

Exalt in Astrology is when a planet is at it's best in a sign that it doesn't rule. For Example, the Moon is exalted in Taurus because, outside of Cancer ( The Moon rules Cancer ), Taurus is the biggest home body in the Zodiac. They are all about comfortability and being stable, which the Moon likes and is all about.

So almost all the planets' are exalted in a sign, except Uranus, Neptune and Pluto ( Mercury is up for debate ). Here are the planets that have an exalt sign.

The Sun is exalted in Aries

The Moon is exalted in Taurus

Mercury is exalted in Virgo (Idk why and idk if it is, cuz they rule it already)

Venus is exalted in Pisces

Mars is exalted in Capricorn

Jupiter is exalted in Cancer

Saturn is exalted in Libra

These are all the planets with exalts that everyone knows. But I feel like all the planets can be exalted and do very well in other signs too. which I'm going to give a sign for each planet then a reason for why I think it does so well in that planet.

The Sun Co Exalted in Taurus

While Taurus can be all about luxury and being secure, have you ever really met an insecure Taurus before? Lol. The Sun has to do with ego, the self, and our goals. All of which I feel Sun in Taurus people will almoat always have. Usually it's 'my way or the highway' with these people, but to a less agressive and in-your-face degree than their exalt Martian counterpart, Aries. And more of in a charming, Venusian way. They KNOW their worth and aren't willing to stoop to anything less. But they can be unmovable in opinion and belief sometimes, and but are still willing to hear you out SOMETIMES. Prone to indulging themselves a lot.

Moon Co Exalted in Aries

The Moon is our emotions, how we feel, what we're comfortable with, and our inner needs. Here, Aries isn't trying to hide or supress their emotions. They're usually very open about how they feel. How they say they feel is likely how they feel, no hidden meanings. I feel like people don't give this placement enough credit. Aries here won't focus as much of their energy on others needs and emotions to the point it exhausts them, however they can still relate to you. With them being so honest and open, if they've ever felt what you're feeling about something, they will validate your feeling and emotions by explaining a similar thing they experienced. They can be blunt with others, but more importantly, with themselves. They won't sugercoat anything if there's an issue they have and will probably try to solve it.

Mercury Co Exalted in Libra

Mercury is all about communication, the mindset we have, and what are reoccuring topics when conversing with you. Libra is a peoples' person kind of sign. Libra Mercury natives love to share and hear peoples stories and they love to share other peoples stories too. The words just flow from them naturally, silky smooth like honey. They can be very charming with their words and they always think before they speak because they know how words can affect people. Libra, the sign of partner ships, negotiation and sharing does very well in the planet of communication, thinking, and how we express ourselves.

Venus Co Exalted in Leo

Venus is a planet all about relationships, luxury, how we indulge, and how we spend our money. Like Taurus, Leos like to indulge; in themselves and in others. Leo's passion, creativity and pride seeps out and into others, making them a joy to be around. Like a typical Venusian, they can be generous and vain at the same time. There's never a dull moment with people like these and by the end the day they know how to settle down and chill too. Leos are lions, and like lions, they have their pride of people they always hang out with. Which coincides with Venus's relationship nature. Plus, Venus Leo natives are the ones to go big or go home, they like indulge on luxurious things too like a Venusian would.

Mars Co Exalted in Gemini

Mars is a planet energy, action and passion, so for some it may come as a suprise that Gemini actually does very well in this planet but it makes sense because Gemini, while not as fiery as an Aries or Leo, is still a highly energetic ans bubbly sign. Gemini can jump from topic to topic, person to person and interest to interest at a very fast rate because of their constant need for stimuli. And here, Mars is supplying energy to a sign that uses a lot of energy, so it's a symbiotic relationship between planet and sign. This is a placement that is tireless and always on the move, just how Mars likes it.

Jupiter Co Exalted in Aquarius

Jupiter is the planet of travel, philosophy, and beliefs. Which is why I think it does well in Aquarius, because this sign is well known for it's humanitarian views and constantly pushing to revolutionize society. Like Sagittarius ( and by extension Jupiter ), Aquarius are more susceptible to being open minded. They're always trying to understand the world, and most importantly, the people around them. They can do this by travel and connecting with people. Which will satiate the questions they have about people, cultures, and life in general. They attract luck by connecting communities and trying to see both sides of the same coin in anything, much like a typical Jupitarian.

Saturn Co Exalted in Virgo

The main themes for Saturn are Discipline, Life Lessons, and Reputation. And Virgo, Like Capricorn (Domicile) and Libra (Exalt), this placement will always try to be nothing short of perfect. This placement cares a lot about how they present themselves to others, and more importantly, themselves. Virgo is a sign notorious for being judgemental and perfection, but how they judge others is 10 times worse when judging themselves. This is a very disciplined placement. This placement indicates being VERY self aware of your flaws and problems, and having the power to develop into a better version of over time if you're always honest with yourself, about yourself.

Possible Planetary Exalts

I'm not sure why Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto don't have an official exalt. But I'm here to do them justice. These aren't the official ones, but my own speculation and theories 💕

Uranus Exalted in Scorpio

Uranus represents how our generation rebels against previous traditions and societal expectations, what boundaries of the previous generations we push. Which is why Scorpio, the sign literally known for the taboo and being misunderstood would work so well in this planet. During times with this placement, Society may go through many huge changes in the political and social world. A point in time where we break many societal stereotypes, barriers and push to make the taboo the status quo. A highly transformative period, will likely be filled with many controversies and issues, but in the end, will help better our society. After all, theres no rainbow without rain.

Neptune Exalted in Sagittarius

Known as the planet of dreams, hopes, the unconscious, how our generation thinks, and how we're delusional, Neptune surprisingly does very well in Sagittarius. This placement is about a generation that makes their dreams come true. These are people with vivid and abstract thoughts, and know how to put them into action. A placement that isn't afraid of trial and error until they achieve their dreams, and can also indicate being a trendsetter. Because of Sagittarius' constant exploration and truth seeking nature, it can kind of negate Neptune's delusional, cloudy nature, making this a generation that is very self aware and good at disecting others and themselves.

Pluto Exalted in Pisces

Pluto represents a generation's power, how we transform society in our era, what legacy we leave behind as a generation. And Pluto in Pisces represents a generation that pours it's power into making our society into a more empathetic and connected place. Here in this placement, Pisces' many hopes and dreams give Pluto an outlet to pour their power into. Marking an era where many people pursue their visions for the world, become more accepting of others and put their creativity to use.

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Chiron in The Houses : And How it Affects The Opposite House

I've noticed that when it comes to the astroid Chiron, there are similarities to problems from the house it's initially in and the house it's opposite from it. Like, many problems Chiron brings to a house can stem from the opposite house's properties and characteristics.

Chiron in The 1st House

Chiron 1st natives could feel like people predominantly judge them from the people they associate with. ( 7th house rules partners, associates, and other people connecting to us ) Like they don't have their own identity and live in the shadow of those around them. These people may rely on their partner/others to shape their identity. And they probably don't feel like their own person, and just an extension of others. These natives probably hate when people point out similarities between them and other people, which will add to their belief that they feel like an extension of others. Some might do absurd or outrageous things to stand out and be different from other people.

Chiron in The 2nd House

Chiron 2nd house natives might always have to worry about themselves or other people ( 8th house rules other peoples possesions ) losing and/or breaking their possesions. People may prefer to use the natives stuff instead of their own. At the same time people may not like sharing their valubles or stuff with the native. Or people may flaunt their possessions to the latter. These natives might feel like they always have to compare what they have to what others have, leaving them never feeling satisfied with what they have. And they may feel like their worth is dependent on other people and what they have.

Chiron in The 3rd House

Chiron 3rd house natives will always look for the deeper meaning in whatever people say to them. And always try to pick apart what people say. It can be exhausting talking to some of them as it may feel like they're trying to force their opinions and beliefs ( 9th house rules opinions, beliefs, philosophy and higher meanings ) onto someone when communicating. This native's childhood however could indicate that this happened a lot to them, with siblings, classmates, and people close to them shoving opinions and beliefs on them when they were young. So this is where they likely got it from.

Chiron in The 4th House

Chiron 4th house natives may feel like they won't amount to anything in life, that their family hasn't already achieved. They might feel like they live in their family's shadow. Could have a very popular, famous, and/or important family member, to where the native lives in their shadow, and the public always associates this native with someone from their family ( 10th house rules reputation, what you're known for, and how the public views you )  Might have been the lesser child and not held in as high hopes as their other siblings by the other family members. And family members could pressure these natives by reminding them of their family's feats.

Chiron in The 5th House

Chiron 5th house natives might seek out groups of people with the same interest, feeling most emotionally satisfied when they find their "flock" ( 11th house rules the groups we hang with, our hopes and dreams for society/our impact on it, and our societal views ) However they could feel like society makes fun of or doesn't accept this native's hobbies and what they do for pleasure because it isn't the "norm". Many people might shame this native for the things they enjoy and make them feel guilty, making them think about how their hobbies and things they enjoy affect society and the people around them.

Chiron in The 6th House

Chiron 6th natives probably feel like they're trapped in their day to day lives. Like life doesn't get more interesting or won't be any greater than what they have. These people likely hard workers, sticking to their vigorous routine, in the hopes that the universe or some higher being will bless them with good karma ( 12th house rules higher powers, the unconscious, dreams, isolation, and karma ). And these natives may actually not know what they want in life or in themselves, except that they don't want to be nothing. Which can lead them down a path of monotony and not doing anything great or dreaming big. Can feel like they can't fantasize or dream big because they have to focus on the now and everyday life tasks.

Chiron in The 7th House

Chiron 7th natives probably surround themselves with people like them; They are the company they keep. ( 1st house rules identity, the self, and how people perceive you ) However when other people come for the native's partner, spouse or associates they're likely get very defensive, as people who come at them can feel like a direct attack at the native. And when in a relationship, they can be hypocritics because they probably share some attributes with their partners that they have ill feelings towards, because as before, these natives surround themselves with people like them, which can make them narrow minded.

Chiron in The 8th House

Chiron 8th natives can feel be abrasive with other peoples values and stuff ( 2nd house rules one's values and possessions ). They might see other peoples possessions or values as their own. And might share the same sentiment that their stuff is for others, or not. But these natives might feel like people overstep their boundaries a lot and might even do this themselves to others. But this can make some natives very possessive of what they own and build up walls to prevent people overstepping their boundaries. Making the natives do a lot of stuff themselves for them self instead of with others for this reason. May hold a lot of taboo values, but keeps this to themselves.

Chiron in The 9th House

Chiron 9th natives may feel all their values come heavily from siblings, classmates, and peers from their childhood ( 3rd house rules childhood, siblings, and communication ), and that it molded many of their present day beliefs, good and negative. Unlike Chiron 3rd house natives, they may not like to or might be scared to communicate their beliefs. These natives may feel like, despite their journey through life and discovering things about the world and themselves, that it's ultimately their past that represents who they are, which might not be good if they were bullied a lot in their childhood. So they might hold some sentiment to things said to them during childhood and the native's view on themselves could be very low, and they could still hold resentment for some people from thier younger years, this is another that placement can indicate being narrow minded.

Chiron in The 10th House

Chiron 10th natives will always have to worry about something and/or someone damaging the publics view on them and their overall reputation. Likely home issues or things from childhood ( 4th house rules home, roots, and foundations ) resurfacing and altering the public's view on them. And/Or they're trying to bury and run away from their roots to appeal to the public. These natives don't want to be defined by their childhood or family roots. Some may even leave behind and/or betray their family for greater things in life like reputation and fame. However this is probably because they will have envious relatives who seek to destroy what name this native made for themselves out of jealousy and/or old family drama resurfacing.

Chiron in The 11th House

Chiron 11th natives probably feel like they can't enjoy their hobbies or anything they like without thinking about how it affects others, and it's impact on society ( 5th house rules pleasure, hobbies, and indulgence ). They probably don't want to or don't like indulging themselves too much, feeling like there are greater things to worry about more than their own pleasures. Or some might have big dreams and visions for changing their society/community, but are too caught up in their own pleasures and indulgence to actually act on them. However some natives could get treated poorly by their group, peers, or overall community, causing them to not care about bettering society or helping people. And in the end, make them only seek out their own pleasure and well being, because if society doesn't care about the native's needs, why should they care about societys'?

Chiron in The 12th House

Chiron 12th natives have very cloudy and active minds. They're big dreamers and probably mostly live life in the clouds of their mind. These natives can feel trapped by the claws of everyday, boring life ( 6th house rules everyday life, routine, and service ). They could have many dreams and goals but probably won't act on many of them, because the fantasy in their heads is good enough for them instead of the real thing. These natives may not get the tasks they need to do everyday done, and probably procrastinate A LOT. They may feel isolated and/or not mentally present at their workplace, and would rather daydream and keep to themselves than interact with peers. These are the people that could fall off the face of the earth and not many people would notice, because they're so private and keep to themselves.

What are yalls thoughts? Did any of this resonate with you? If not, check your Chiron sign and use it's sign's ruling house. ( Ex. if you have Chiron in Aquarius, read Chiron in the 11th house )

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Random question. Which persona charts (or any other Astro placements) highlights a persons strengths, weaknesses, personal development, and path to self improvement?? Thank you

Placements That Show Your Strengths and Your Weaknesses

Now I wanna start this off with these are my personal observations and what I think makes sense. So some things may not apply to everyone, and always keep in mind you may have aspects to certain planets and other contributing factors to negate some of the stuff I list!

Placements That Can Show Your Strengths

Your Sun sign shows your traits that shine when you are doing your best, the traits of your sun sign will show how you are in a leader/power position. And what traits you may have or will need to display to be a leader and have people follow in your footsteps.

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Your Mars Sign and the house it's in will show you the reason for your goals (Sun sign), what you channel your energy into, and how you'll project it onto the world. The house your Mars is in will be the 'Why?' for your life choices, and the sign in your Mars will be the 'How?'

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Planets aspecting Chiron will give you the powers to and show you how you cope with your deepest internal wounds. For example, if you have Venus/Chiron aspects, then you might be the kind of person to enjoy the finer things in life and getting other people to enjoy it too. You probably love spending money on luxury items ( When either it's your or someone elses money ), food, and with/on people close to you, because it makes you feel good about yourself and others when you do it, probably feels like putting on an emotionally healing bandaid on a deep psychic wound when you do this.

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Your Jupiter sign will show you how you gain wealth and luck. Your Jupiter sign will be HOW you need to do things in life to succeed. Things you need to abide by to have luck by your side. Which Jupiter sign's agenda you need to flavor your agenda with to have their power by your side.

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The Sign of your chart ruler's planet. ( Example is if you're Rising is in Taurus and if your venus is in Aquarius ). Like Jupiter, abiding by your ruling planet's sign should bring you much luck and success in your life in whatever you do. With the example above, the way you should go about life if you had that placement is to connect with your community, cherish society's achievements and push to revolutionize your generation, break social norms so the outcasted and shunned feel like they have a community they can feel apart of, ect. But also using Venusian traits to achieve this too, like charming, showing people that everyone is similar, showing what the finer things in life could be if everyone worked together, ect.

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Your Venus Persona Chart can show you how you'll appeal to others, and what you can do to boost this appeal. What assets you can use to further yourself in life. Venus rules relationships, money and indulgence, so take a look at this PC to get more insight about this.

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Your Chiron Sign and House it's in will show how you'll be able to heal others, while this astroid is mainly known for your deepest uncurable wound, it can also show how you heal this same wound in others.

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Your 2nd house sign can show what you are persistent and consistent about. What values you will stick to and live by, what motivates you in life. What are your reasons for wanting money. What are the little and simple things that keep you motived.

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Your 5th house sign can show why you may have these values, what are your hobbies and entertainment that you strive to experience and how it keeps you motivated. What your natural talents are and how you can use them in life. This house represents what you like and what your a natural in.

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Placements That Can Show Your Weaknesses

Your Moon Sign is your emotional needs and what makes you emotionally satisfied, the Moon is everything emotions. However, this can also show how people can manipulate you, and what they might threaten you with to hurt you emotionally. And any emotional baggage and/or attacks will feel amplified if the Moon is in debilitation or fall ( Capricorn or Scorpio ), or if the moon is aspecting Saturn or/and Neptune. Also while your Sun sign are what traits you display at your best, you may display the negative traits of your Moon sign at your worst.

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Your Venus sign can show what/how you may fall victim to indulging in too much and forfeiting many important responsibilities. And the house your Venus is in can show where it's worst at. For example, Venus in Gemini may have problems with never finishing what they start and are too quick to jump to the next thing, and may spend too much time socializing, and not getting what they need to do done. And Venus in the 6th house could mean the area of their life most affected my all of this is at work and daily routines. Your Venus can also show what you do when your procrastinating.

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Your Saturn Sign can show road blocks you will frequently encounter during your life until you learn to discipline yourself in that area of life and over come it's challenges. For example, a Saturn in Scorpio will have to learn to see the signs, listen to their gut feeling, and trust very few people. Or they'll constantly be hit with blows in life they didn't see coming and aren't prepared for, and will likely be betrayed more than once.

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The sign and house your Neptune is in will show what you are delusional about and what you might over idealize. Neptune is a generational planet, so the sign it's in is more for our generation as a whole and the house it's in is more related to us as a person.

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Your Mars sign in the Moon PC, in addition to your Moon sign, can show what you get emotional and defensive over with very little push. Your Moon PC Mars can show what you need to be emotionally satisfied. But when these needs aren't met, just like your Moon sign, it can show what you're like when you're emotionally unhappy.

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Your Mercury and Mars combination in the Mercury PC can show how you lash out at others verbally when angry. And what you might say to hurt others in the heat of the moment.

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The house opposite from the one your Jupiter is in can show an area of life you feel unlucky and have to work harder for success in. Not saying it's gonna be complete hardship, but you may feel like you have to go the extra mile in that house to make ends meet. This will ring especially true if you have planets in opposition with your Jupiter.

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Your 12th house sign can show things you feel like you lack, and subconsciously wish you had more of, even if you already have things and traits related to this house, it can still feel like it isn't enough and it can make you envious of things related to your 12th house sign.

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Your 8th house sign can show how people overstep your boundaries, where your most vulnerable at, and how people take avdantage of that. Things that you can't help but people may shun or belittle you for, so you keep it private and close to your heart.

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What do you guys think of this? I know there can be other Strength and Weakness placements but I wanted to list some of the general ones I've seen. What other indicators do you think there are of these? Do any of these placements resonate with you? Let me know in the comments.

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Hello. I just wanted to ask you what’s your experience like having Lilith square Ascendant?

Not very fun I can say, While I feel like this affected my earlier childhood more than it is now at the moment, I felt like people were always rude to me for no reason or had something against me, despite me literally trying my hardest to be kind to everyone.

I feel like people with this placement will get heavily bullied or disliked for no reason at least at some point in their lives, if not, all throughout it. Certain people just don't like us or our energy for some reason.

Especially when we try to stand out or put our selves out there. A lot of people don't like when we do that. It's that or you have the creepily obsessed people who think they're entitled to us and how we portray ourselves despite us only trying to express ourselves FOR ourselves.

I feel like some us natives either use Lilith's intimidating and taboo energy to their full advantage and can make use of it, or ( and in most cases unfortunately ) we suffer the pitfalls and detriments of having this placement.

Like Pluto aspects/placements, this placement takes a lot of energy and self will to harness and harvest the fruits of it's power.

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🌺 Planets and Astroids 🌺

🌸 Chiron in The Houses ( And How it Relates To The opposite House 🌸

🌺 Astrology Observations 🌺

🌸 Astrology Observations 1 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 2 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 3 🌸

🌺 Placements that . . . 🌺

🌸 Placements That Show Your Strengths and Weaknesses 🌸

🌸 Placements That Empower Your Lilith 🌸

🌺 Astrology Theories 🌺

🌸 Honorary Exalted Signs in Planets 🌸

💕 Miscellaneous / Q/A 💕

🌸 Sun Opposition Lilith Aspect 🌸

🌸 Lilith in Aquarius in The 10th House 🌸

🌸 My Experience With Libra Rising 🌸

🌸 Lilith / Mars / Pluto Synastry 🌸

🌸 What's it Like Having Ascendant/Lilith Aspects? 🌸

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