So I Have The Weirdest Synastry With This Guy I'm Obsessed With, Like I'm So Attracted To Him Its Insane

So I have the weirdest synastry with this guy I'm obsessed with, like I'm so attracted to him it’s insane (he’s also three years older than me) but I don't know if he feels the same way

My rising sign conjuncts his mars and squares his pluto and eros, my mars squares his Pluto and his mars and sun conjuncts my south node, his lilith conjuncts my venus and his uranus trines my venus. And his mars is also opposite my uranus and my mars trines his venus. Also his mars trines my sun…I don’t know what this means tho.

Does this mean he finds me attractive or am I the one who’s more obsessed???

Mars / Pluto / Lilith Synastry

These are some very powerful planets in some strong aspects lol. The Mars/Pluto ( + Eros ) aspects to the ascendant can feel like chemistry at first sight, like it was inevitable. With his Mars conjuncting your Ascendant, his energy and passion can feel like it's becoming yours too.

The orgins of your obssession may stem from his Mars and Sun being conjunct with your south node (and by extension, opposition with the north node.) The south node is your past life, what you're used to/comfortable with. And with your opposition north node aspects, he can feel like a missing piece of the puzzle for you on your life journey.

And his Lilith conjuncting your Venus will reel him in. The appeal and attraction with this placement is actually insane. Once you got him reeled in, he may feel like leaving or abandoning you is like leaving a piece of himself behind. He'll probably be OBSESSED with you as much as you are to him.

HOWEVER, if things go south between yall, the conflict could be intense, or even life threatening. Strong Mars/Pluto/Lilith aspects in synastry imply a lot of intensity and energy into whatever you guys do together. So while this could mean in bed or devotion to each other, it can also mean fights and arguments.

So I think you guys should just dip your toes in and test the waters before taking a deep dive, so you can feel out each other's energies and intensity.

Astrology Observations and Theories : Honorary Exalted Signs

Exalt in Astrology is when a planet is at it's best in a sign that it doesn't rule. For Example, the Moon is exalted in Taurus because, outside of Cancer ( The Moon rules Cancer ), Taurus is the biggest home body in the Zodiac. They are all about comfortability and being stable, which the Moon likes and is all about.

So almost all the planets' are exalted in a sign, except Uranus, Neptune and Pluto ( Mercury is up for debate ). Here are the planets that have an exalt sign.

The Sun is exalted in Aries

The Moon is exalted in Taurus

Mercury is exalted in Virgo (Idk why and idk if it is, cuz they rule it already)

Venus is exalted in Pisces

Mars is exalted in Capricorn

Jupiter is exalted in Cancer

Saturn is exalted in Libra

These are all the planets with exalts that everyone knows. But I feel like all the planets can be exalted and do very well in other signs too. which I'm going to give a sign for each planet then a reason for why I think it does so well in that planet.

The Sun Co Exalted in Taurus

While Taurus can be all about luxury and being secure, have you ever really met an insecure Taurus before? Lol. The Sun has to do with ego, the self, and our goals. All of which I feel Sun in Taurus people will almoat always have. Usually it's 'my way or the highway' with these people, but to a less agressive and in-your-face degree than their exalt Martian counterpart, Aries. And more of in a charming, Venusian way. They KNOW their worth and aren't willing to stoop to anything less. But they can be unmovable in opinion and belief sometimes, and but are still willing to hear you out SOMETIMES. Prone to indulging themselves a lot.

Moon Co Exalted in Aries

The Moon is our emotions, how we feel, what we're comfortable with, and our inner needs. Here, Aries isn't trying to hide or supress their emotions. They're usually very open about how they feel. How they say they feel is likely how they feel, no hidden meanings. I feel like people don't give this placement enough credit. Aries here won't focus as much of their energy on others needs and emotions to the point it exhausts them, however they can still relate to you. With them being so honest and open, if they've ever felt what you're feeling about something, they will validate your feeling and emotions by explaining a similar thing they experienced. They can be blunt with others, but more importantly, with themselves. They won't sugercoat anything if there's an issue they have and will probably try to solve it.

Mercury Co Exalted in Libra

Mercury is all about communication, the mindset we have, and what are reoccuring topics when conversing with you. Libra is a peoples' person kind of sign. Libra Mercury natives love to share and hear peoples stories and they love to share other peoples stories too. The words just flow from them naturally, silky smooth like honey. They can be very charming with their words and they always think before they speak because they know how words can affect people. Libra, the sign of partner ships, negotiation and sharing does very well in the planet of communication, thinking, and how we express ourselves.

Venus Co Exalted in Leo

Venus is a planet all about relationships, luxury, how we indulge, and how we spend our money. Like Taurus, Leos like to indulge; in themselves and in others. Leo's passion, creativity and pride seeps out and into others, making them a joy to be around. Like a typical Venusian, they can be generous and vain at the same time. There's never a dull moment with people like these and by the end the day they know how to settle down and chill too. Leos are lions, and like lions, they have their pride of people they always hang out with. Which coincides with Venus's relationship nature. Plus, Venus Leo natives are the ones to go big or go home, they like indulge on luxurious things too like a Venusian would.

Mars Co Exalted in Gemini

Mars is a planet energy, action and passion, so for some it may come as a suprise that Gemini actually does very well in this planet but it makes sense because Gemini, while not as fiery as an Aries or Leo, is still a highly energetic ans bubbly sign. Gemini can jump from topic to topic, person to person and interest to interest at a very fast rate because of their constant need for stimuli. And here, Mars is supplying energy to a sign that uses a lot of energy, so it's a symbiotic relationship between planet and sign. This is a placement that is tireless and always on the move, just how Mars likes it.

Jupiter Co Exalted in Aquarius

Jupiter is the planet of travel, philosophy, and beliefs. Which is why I think it does well in Aquarius, because this sign is well known for it's humanitarian views and constantly pushing to revolutionize society. Like Sagittarius ( and by extension Jupiter ), Aquarius are more susceptible to being open minded. They're always trying to understand the world, and most importantly, the people around them. They can do this by travel and connecting with people. Which will satiate the questions they have about people, cultures, and life in general. They attract luck by connecting communities and trying to see both sides of the same coin in anything, much like a typical Jupitarian.

Saturn Co Exalted in Virgo

The main themes for Saturn are Discipline, Life Lessons, and Reputation. And Virgo, Like Capricorn (Domicile) and Libra (Exalt), this placement will always try to be nothing short of perfect. This placement cares a lot about how they present themselves to others, and more importantly, themselves. Virgo is a sign notorious for being judgemental and perfection, but how they judge others is 10 times worse when judging themselves. This is a very disciplined placement. This placement indicates being VERY self aware of your flaws and problems, and having the power to develop into a better version of over time if you're always honest with yourself, about yourself.

Possible Planetary Exalts

I'm not sure why Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto don't have an official exalt. But I'm here to do them justice. These aren't the official ones, but my own speculation and theories 💕

Uranus Exalted in Scorpio

Uranus represents how our generation rebels against previous traditions and societal expectations, what boundaries of the previous generations we push. Which is why Scorpio, the sign literally known for the taboo and being misunderstood would work so well in this planet. During times with this placement, Society may go through many huge changes in the political and social world. A point in time where we break many societal stereotypes, barriers and push to make the taboo the status quo. A highly transformative period, will likely be filled with many controversies and issues, but in the end, will help better our society. After all, theres no rainbow without rain.

Neptune Exalted in Sagittarius

Known as the planet of dreams, hopes, the unconscious, how our generation thinks, and how we're delusional, Neptune surprisingly does very well in Sagittarius. This placement is about a generation that makes their dreams come true. These are people with vivid and abstract thoughts, and know how to put them into action. A placement that isn't afraid of trial and error until they achieve their dreams, and can also indicate being a trendsetter. Because of Sagittarius' constant exploration and truth seeking nature, it can kind of negate Neptune's delusional, cloudy nature, making this a generation that is very self aware and good at disecting others and themselves.

Pluto Exalted in Pisces

Pluto represents a generation's power, how we transform society in our era, what legacy we leave behind as a generation. And Pluto in Pisces represents a generation that pours it's power into making our society into a more empathetic and connected place. Here in this placement, Pisces' many hopes and dreams give Pluto an outlet to pour their power into. Marking an era where many people pursue their visions for the world, become more accepting of others and put their creativity to use.

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As someone with a very prominent, tight lilith-ascendant placement, I don't want the attention of men and I also don't really get their attention thankfully. I am however obsessed with myself and my looks. I want to like what I see in the mirror more than anything.

I feel like this is also another attribute to lilith. Even when you're not trying to seem appealing or magnetizing to others, and only for self satisfaction, you can't help it and other people will still try to obsess over you and might get drawn in. Some people might even try to control or shame you because they're intimidated by you, So be careful 💕

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🌺 Planets and Astroids 🌺

🌸 Chiron in The Houses ( And How it Relates To The opposite House 🌸

🌺 Astrology Observations 🌺

🌸 Astrology Observations 1 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 2 🌸

🌸 Astrology Observations 3 🌸

🌺 Placements that . . . 🌺

🌸 Placements That Show Your Strengths and Weaknesses 🌸

🌸 Placements That Empower Your Lilith 🌸

🌺 Astrology Theories 🌺

🌸 Honorary Exalted Signs in Planets 🌸

💕 Miscellaneous / Q/A 💕

🌸 Sun Opposition Lilith Aspect 🌸

🌸 Lilith in Aquarius in The 10th House 🌸

🌸 My Experience With Libra Rising 🌸

🌸 Lilith / Mars / Pluto Synastry 🌸

🌸 What's it Like Having Ascendant/Lilith Aspects? 🌸

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Astrology Observations and Theories : Honorary Exalted Signs

Exalt in Astrology is when a planet is at it's best in a sign that it doesn't rule. For Example, the Moon is exalted in Taurus because, outside of Cancer ( The Moon rules Cancer ), Taurus is the biggest home body in the Zodiac. They are all about comfortability and being stable, which the Moon likes and is all about.

So almost all the planets' are exalted in a sign, except Uranus, Neptune and Pluto ( Mercury is up for debate ). Here are the planets that have an exalt sign.

The Sun is exalted in Aries

The Moon is exalted in Taurus

Mercury is exalted in Virgo (Idk why and idk if it is, cuz they rule it already)

Venus is exalted in Pisces

Mars is exalted in Capricorn

Jupiter is exalted in Cancer

Saturn is exalted in Libra

These are all the planets with exalts that everyone knows. But I feel like all the planets can be exalted and do very well in other signs too. which I'm going to give a sign for each planet then a reason for why I think it does so well in that planet.

The Sun Co Exalted in Taurus

While Taurus can be all about luxury and being secure, have you ever really met an insecure Taurus before? Lol. The Sun has to do with ego, the self, and our goals. All of which I feel Sun in Taurus people will almoat always have. Usually it's 'my way or the highway' with these people, but to a less agressive and in-your-face degree than their exalt Martian counterpart, Aries. And more of in a charming, Venusian way. They KNOW their worth and aren't willing to stoop to anything less. But they can be unmovable in opinion and belief sometimes, and but are still willing to hear you out SOMETIMES. Prone to indulging themselves a lot.

Moon Co Exalted in Aries

The Moon is our emotions, how we feel, what we're comfortable with, and our inner needs. Here, Aries isn't trying to hide or supress their emotions. They're usually very open about how they feel. How they say they feel is likely how they feel, no hidden meanings. I feel like people don't give this placement enough credit. Aries here won't focus as much of their energy on others needs and emotions to the point it exhausts them, however they can still relate to you. With them being so honest and open, if they've ever felt what you're feeling about something, they will validate your feeling and emotions by explaining a similar thing they experienced. They can be blunt with others, but more importantly, with themselves. They won't sugercoat anything if there's an issue they have and will probably try to solve it.

Mercury Co Exalted in Libra

Mercury is all about communication, the mindset we have, and what are reoccuring topics when conversing with you. Libra is a peoples' person kind of sign. Libra Mercury natives love to share and hear peoples stories and they love to share other peoples stories too. The words just flow from them naturally, silky smooth like honey. They can be very charming with their words and they always think before they speak because they know how words can affect people. Libra, the sign of partner ships, negotiation and sharing does very well in the planet of communication, thinking, and how we express ourselves.

Venus Co Exalted in Leo

Venus is a planet all about relationships, luxury, how we indulge, and how we spend our money. Like Taurus, Leos like to indulge; in themselves and in others. Leo's passion, creativity and pride seeps out and into others, making them a joy to be around. Like a typical Venusian, they can be generous and vain at the same time. There's never a dull moment with people like these and by the end the day they know how to settle down and chill too. Leos are lions, and like lions, they have their pride of people they always hang out with. Which coincides with Venus's relationship nature. Plus, Venus Leo natives are the ones to go big or go home, they like indulge on luxurious things too like a Venusian would.

Mars Co Exalted in Gemini

Mars is a planet energy, action and passion, so for some it may come as a suprise that Gemini actually does very well in this planet but it makes sense because Gemini, while not as fiery as an Aries or Leo, is still a highly energetic ans bubbly sign. Gemini can jump from topic to topic, person to person and interest to interest at a very fast rate because of their constant need for stimuli. And here, Mars is supplying energy to a sign that uses a lot of energy, so it's a symbiotic relationship between planet and sign. This is a placement that is tireless and always on the move, just how Mars likes it.

Jupiter Co Exalted in Aquarius

Jupiter is the planet of travel, philosophy, and beliefs. Which is why I think it does well in Aquarius, because this sign is well known for it's humanitarian views and constantly pushing to revolutionize society. Like Sagittarius ( and by extension Jupiter ), Aquarius are more susceptible to being open minded. They're always trying to understand the world, and most importantly, the people around them. They can do this by travel and connecting with people. Which will satiate the questions they have about people, cultures, and life in general. They attract luck by connecting communities and trying to see both sides of the same coin in anything, much like a typical Jupitarian.

Saturn Co Exalted in Virgo

The main themes for Saturn are Discipline, Life Lessons, and Reputation. And Virgo, Like Capricorn (Domicile) and Libra (Exalt), this placement will always try to be nothing short of perfect. This placement cares a lot about how they present themselves to others, and more importantly, themselves. Virgo is a sign notorious for being judgemental and perfection, but how they judge others is 10 times worse when judging themselves. This is a very disciplined placement. This placement indicates being VERY self aware of your flaws and problems, and having the power to develop into a better version of over time if you're always honest with yourself, about yourself.

Possible Planetary Exalts

I'm not sure why Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto don't have an official exalt. But I'm here to do them justice. These aren't the official ones, but my own speculation and theories 💕

Uranus Exalted in Scorpio

Uranus represents how our generation rebels against previous traditions and societal expectations, what boundaries of the previous generations we push. Which is why Scorpio, the sign literally known for the taboo and being misunderstood would work so well in this planet. During times with this placement, Society may go through many huge changes in the political and social world. A point in time where we break many societal stereotypes, barriers and push to make the taboo the status quo. A highly transformative period, will likely be filled with many controversies and issues, but in the end, will help better our society. After all, theres no rainbow without rain.

Neptune Exalted in Sagittarius

Known as the planet of dreams, hopes, the unconscious, how our generation thinks, and how we're delusional, Neptune surprisingly does very well in Sagittarius. This placement is about a generation that makes their dreams come true. These are people with vivid and abstract thoughts, and know how to put them into action. A placement that isn't afraid of trial and error until they achieve their dreams, and can also indicate being a trendsetter. Because of Sagittarius' constant exploration and truth seeking nature, it can kind of negate Neptune's delusional, cloudy nature, making this a generation that is very self aware and good at disecting others and themselves.

Pluto Exalted in Pisces

Pluto represents a generation's power, how we transform society in our era, what legacy we leave behind as a generation. And Pluto in Pisces represents a generation that pours it's power into making our society into a more empathetic and connected place. Here in this placement, Pisces' many hopes and dreams give Pluto an outlet to pour their power into. Marking an era where many people pursue their visions for the world, become more accepting of others and put their creativity to use.

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Hi! I read your Astrology Observation #3.

Could you please elaborate more on Lilith aspecting the Moon?

I have Lilith Pisces opposite Moon Leo.

So I was wondering how that might affect my chart. I hope my question made sense.

Thank You for your help, and have a great day.

Lilith - Moon Aspects and their Significance

Hii!! Elaborating off my one observation, I feel like people highly underestimate Moon/Lilith aspects. After all, Black Moon Lilith is the point along the Moon's orbit when it is furthest from the Earth, so you can't even have Black Moon Lilith without the Moon, which is why this placement / aspect is such a powerful one.

With this aspect, it's combining different but very similar feminine energy together into something that not only comes full circle, but is essentially a more powerful version of the two placements alone. Think of when hot and cold wind come together to make a tornado. And all I can say on a generalization of all aspects for this placement is it can be VERY intense, good or bad, even the more minor aspects like trine or sextile.

As for the natives who have this placement, I can definitely say this is probably a more difficult aspect to have in one's chart, and like I said, even for the more easy going aspects. The root of these issues may have a lot to do with emotions and difficultys drawing the line between certain intense ones. Natives may feel heavily ashamed for expressing some, if not most emotions that display weakness or vulnerability, this can be emotions like grief, anger, sadness, jealousy, ect. Natives may scared of people using their strong emotions to control them and make them submit, which may in turn, lead to them expressing these feelings involuntarily as a defense mechanism and ultimately fail at what they try to prevent.

If I'm being honest, All Moon - Lilith aspect issues can manifest in different ways for everyone, but they almost all have a core theme of being related to emotions, control over them, fear of their own emotions and/or being shunned for them. Some natives may feel like they're in a never ending loop of emotional transformation. Fear and control are big themes here with these natives.