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So I have the weirdest synastry with this guy I'm obsessed with, like I'm so attracted to him it’s insane (he’s also three years older than me) but I don't know if he feels the same way

My rising sign conjuncts his mars and squares his pluto and eros, my mars squares his Pluto and his mars and sun conjuncts my south node, his lilith conjuncts my venus and his uranus trines my venus. And his mars is also opposite my uranus and my mars trines his venus. Also his mars trines my sun…I don’t know what this means tho.

Does this mean he finds me attractive or am I the one who’s more obsessed???

Mars / Pluto / Lilith Synastry

These are some very powerful planets in some strong aspects lol. The Mars/Pluto ( + Eros ) aspects to the ascendant can feel like chemistry at first sight, like it was inevitable. With his Mars conjuncting your Ascendant, his energy and passion can feel like it's becoming yours too.

The orgins of your obssession may stem from his Mars and Sun being conjunct with your south node (and by extension, opposition with the north node.) The south node is your past life, what you're used to/comfortable with. And with your opposition north node aspects, he can feel like a missing piece of the puzzle for you on your life journey.

And his Lilith conjuncting your Venus will reel him in. The appeal and attraction with this placement is actually insane. Once you got him reeled in, he may feel like leaving or abandoning you is like leaving a piece of himself behind. He'll probably be OBSESSED with you as much as you are to him.

HOWEVER, if things go south between yall, the conflict could be intense, or even life threatening. Strong Mars/Pluto/Lilith aspects in synastry imply a lot of intensity and energy into whatever you guys do together. So while this could mean in bed or devotion to each other, it can also mean fights and arguments.

So I think you guys should just dip your toes in and test the waters before taking a deep dive, so you can feel out each other's energies and intensity.

Hello omg i see the solar return chart of me and my crush and we have the same EXACT chart but we have just different rising sign but the WHOLE chart is the same what do you think about this ?

Solar Return Chart Synastry : Having Many Conjunctions and It's Pros + Cons

Having the exact same chart, I'd expect there to be a lot of conjunctions and stuff, So this year you guys may click on a BUNCH of things, and may feel as though you could talk for ages together and not get bored. You are very resonate with your crush's energy because they're energy will feel at home to you, it's almost like when we talk to ourselves because they mirror you so well. You'll feel very comforted and validated by their presence.

However, with so much connections and stuff, it may feel as though you guys could never disagree on anything and nothing could ever go wrong. This is where you need to watch out because if you guys agree on EVERYTHING together, then when one of you has a disagreement about something, it can feel like a disruption in the connection between you two and it could come crumbling down like a house of cards.

Having many conjunctions with someone can establish a very strong connection between two people, where they feel like two halves of the same whole, but it's also a very delicate energy. Like, ride or die, and if one party isn't feeling that ride the whole way through, it could kill the connection if one or both parties doesn't handle it well.

So what I think is you guys will have a very real connection and definitely some ground to work with, and I would definitely feel up on eachothers energies to get the feeling for one another, but make sure it's not too suffocating to the point where it feels like no return if you or your crush at some point aren't feeling it anymore. Basically, don't go in too strong at first or it'll be like betting all your chips in poker on one game; Not very good.

Mars conjunct Pluto (Synastry)

Now this will somewhat be pulling from my experience as a Sag mars and bruh I swear I know so many people who got my mars conjunct their Pluto. Also not every Sag Pluto will be conjunct my Mars because honestly my mars is at the 22nd degree so the farthest it can go for conjunct (really stretching it) is between 17-27 degrees imo. Sure you could add or subtract a couple of degrees but I’m going to keep it at five degree distance roughly, because the experiences I felt with this aspect in synastry were relatively more intense when the orbs were smaller. Now that I got that out of the way...

LET’S GET STARTED

-I for the most part think it will be so fucking weird to meet a person that you have this aspect with. As the mars person most times I usually get an odd feeling when around people I have this aspect with. For Example: I had met people where the aspect is almost an exact aspect (fucking close orbs bruh) and at first I don’t think much of them...until I decide to talk to them. Then all of the sudden there is this insane connection. We were talking every chance we got and having a great time. Then when we weren’t really talking to each other for the dumbest reason (bruh if I was in a movie you guys would be yelling at the screen cause oof it was so dumb) they would stay on my mind that on the random occasion when we would see each other I would get so antsy (honestly probably angsty as well tbh).

Now being who I am as a person, I will speak up when I disagree with you. For the most part it’s because I in someway trust that you will listen to me and maybe even disagree with me on the topic. For whatever reason people assume I’m mad but really I have an intense way of speaking apparently. But I for the most part don’t mean to be rude, because weirdly enough I will try my hardest to be polite when I argue with someone and somehow it will still be very cutthroat (i guess). I am working on it it just takes time and practice.

I know I rambled a bit but that is just to give context to me as a person, because when it comes to people (where I have Mars conjunct Pluto) they don’t get mad at me like some people usually do but instead they get sad about it. I do wonder if they feel sad about my actions or their own.

People I have this aspect with

-My sister--Some Friends--Probably a fuck ton more people but idk...

Here is another example of when I had this aspect with a coworker of mine. I think me and him had a good amount of aspects and stuff in synastry that attributed to this as well. Anyways we would randomly be close like bruh it was like we had known each other for a long time or even like he was my brother some how. We would play around with each other from play fighting to basic games like rock paper scissors. It’s even funnier considering that when we did talk to each other we would have to stop for a moment because a customer or whatever would come in...like we were still professionals.  Then we would go back to joking around and it’s interesting because I felt like I could understand him even when he didn’t know what he wanted to say. Like he wasn’t fluent in English and I wasn’t fluent in Spanish but we would somehow find a way to understand the other person like girl I will pull out google translate as a last resort sometimes. I’ll have to talk about it more another day...

Question about Synastry Pluto aspects

Honestly I have been stuck on pluto aspects in syanstry for a little while. And It all really started when I looked up me and this one person's synastry chart. Because at the time I coldn't figure out why I was feeling so many intense feelings around them like a sort of need of mine was awakened idk how to really explain it. Anyways I would love to hear anybodies thougths on this so here we go.

My Sun (Aries) trines his pluto (sag) My Moon (Virgo) squares his Pluto My Mars is conjunct his Pluto (very close orb almost exact.) His Mercury conjunct my Pluto (sag) His Jupiter(Libra) sextile my Pluto His Neptune(Aquarius) sextile my Pluto I figured I would include the signs in case that helps in any way. Oh if it helps I can include our placements as well if anybody feels like that helps. Also I only inlcuded planets like Neptune and Jupiter just in case. I don't think they have too much significance in the grand scheme of things since they are further away planets wise.