Me Being Fine After Talking About Traumatising Stuff:

Me being fine after talking about traumatising stuff:

Therapist: oh cool! It seems talking things out works for you

Me being fine after rediscovering trauma:

Therapist: okay this is a bit weird

Me continuing to be fine during every therapy session since the beginning with no large shifts in mood:

Therapist: goddammit you're dissociating aren't you

Do you ever have that longing when all you want is to go home and be hugged by the person who makes it all feel better but then your stomach drops because you realise that you can’t picture where you want to go or who you want to be hugged by??

No? Just me?

I think the reason why people want to know what's "wrong" with disabled people is because they want to reassure themselves.

They want you to say you were in a horrific accident or that you have a well known and treatable disease because they think they can stop it happening to them.

They think their health is a given because they aren't a dangerous driver/ an alcoholic/a drug user/obese/an unhealthy eater etc. Obviously this isn't true but it's easier for them to think of it like that.

Until one day they meet someone who did nothing. They're not really asking "what's wrong with you". They're asking "what went wrong" because they think they can avoid it.

So when they meet someone who made all the right choices, who was healthy, who was safe and one day woke up sick and never got better, it scares them because some part of them realises that it could happen to them.

They can exercise and eat a balanced diet and be as careful as possible and it doesn't do a thing and they can't do a thing about it. That terrifies able bodied people.

People like to look for something or someone to blame and they hate it when there's nothing there.

C: "-not to mention snexism."

A: "Sorry what was that?"

C: "Snake sexism. Snexism. Women don't have it easy in the snake world either."

That didn't sound like a real thing, Aziraphale thought, but he did not voice his concern. Claiming that snexism wasn't real sounded exactly like something a snexist would say.

So hi! I'm a lesbian, agender, BIPOC, disabled mentally and physically, AFAB and polyamorous.

incredibly cringe and embarrassing that you unironically ‘identify’ as all these things lmao

I am lesbian, agender, polyamorous, BIPOC, disabled mentally and physically and AFAB.

Even if you're anti-LGBTQ, you cannot possibly argue against me 'identifying' BIPOC, disabled mentally and physically and AFAB because I am biologically all of those things so I don't really understand what point you're trying to prove.

Am I cringe for being of Asian heritage? Am I cringe for being born with female anatomy? Am I cringe for being disabled? Am I cringe for being queer? Cos if so it sounds like you're saying I'm cringe for existing and there's not a lot I can do about that dude.

A group of people loving each other (men, women or neither) is queer.

Three women loving each other is queer.

Five men loving each other is queer.

Four gender neutral people loving each other is queer.

A woman, another woman and a man loving each other is queer

Polyamory doesn't immediately mean one man with many wives.

Polyamory is consensual, loving and all about healthy and supportive relationships.

I didn’t realise this was a debated issue until recently so can I just say that polyamorous folks are queer.

They are people living in an unconventional relationship that deviates from the societal expectation of one man and one woman loving each other and each other only.

Polyam folks are the queerest motherfuckers. Sending y’all some love!