Cishet Aspecs Are Queer.

Cishet aspecs are queer.

Cishet aromantics are queer. Cishet asexuals are queer. Cishet aplatonics are queer. Cishet afamilials are queer. Cishet anattractionals are queer.

Aspecs are queer as hell and excluding them only isolates queer people from their community.

for people who don't understand why someone would identify as a bi lesbian here is a list of why they'd do it:

• individuals who use the sam(split attraction model), for example, someone who is a biromantic lesbian or someone who is a lesbiromantic bisexual or even someone who is an aro bi lesbian(they don't feel romantic attraction but feel sexual attraction towards women and feel tertiary attraction towards more than one gender for example).

• individuals who are both bi and lesbian due to being abro or a system.

• people who prioritize their attraction to women.

• questioning between both or being in the gray area between both.

• being duosexual or otherwise amplusic.

• being mspec but not being attracted to men so you still use the "non-men attracted to non-men" definition.

• attraction to multigender people causing one to consider their attraction to both lesbian and mspec.

• lesbians who are attracted to nonbinary people who aren't comfortable being included in lesbian attraction so they fall in the bi part instead.

• being lesbiflexible.

however the reason behind why someone uses a certain label is none of your business and it doesn't harm you cause how tf does someone's happiness harm you?

So what makes a bi-lesbian? Why not just be bi?

what makes a bi lesbian is being both bi and lesbian. the reason not to "just be bi" is that we're also lesbian.

this is your daily reminder that if you're in a relationship with someone and you're both polyam and both of you wanna add people to the relationship, then it is a polyam relationship even though for society you are in a monogamous relationship.

like no matter how monogamous the relationship may seem to society, if you're both polyam then your relationship is polyam too!

fuck amatonormativity and fuck mononormativity!

as an allo i feel genuinely confused about society's obsession with romance and sex.

Why are you tagging aspec tags on posts where you talk about your attractions..

hey! how you doing? the post i made wasn't even about an attraction i was feeling, it was just my curiosity. however i tagged it with aspec tags cause typically most of allos feel tertiary attraction but don't care about it cause they're too focused on romantic and sexual attraction. i'm an allo myself but i treat every attraction and relationship the same. so as i had that doubt and google didn't gimme any answers, i decided to ask it here and i tagged aspec folks cause y'all typically pay attention to tertiary attraction. i'm sorry if it made some people uncomfortable, it wasn't my purpose. have a great day!

this is your daily reminder that aspec people who are also cishet are queer because they're aspec. like do y'all have a brain?

saw that one “are cishet aro men queer” poll that’s going around and like. I’m not gonna reblog it bc the results are frankly disappointing and the discourse going on in the tags is really dumb but, unfriendly reminder, if you’re aro/acephobic you’re a loser lmao…. bye. anyway hi aro men you are very valid and I think you’re super awesome and cool ‼️