How About Instead Of Siding With Queerphobes With This 'invalid' Shit We As A Community Actually Start

how about instead of siding with queerphobes with this 'invalid' shit we as a community actually start behaving like a community. Ya know, like uplifting your fellow queer individuals and standing up for them instead of crucifying them for their identity you don't understand. Stop siding with a cishet queerphobe when the target is a 14 year old with nounself pronouns, or an adult lesboy with xenogenders, or, or, or. Stop acting like your identity is the only one worthy of respect.

Hi, thanks for wanting to learn! Honestly, as a man adjacent person who lives as a man, my interest in women has never stopped feeling queer despite my relationship with manhood, and my connection with the lesbian label has not ever really gone away even as I started figuring out the specifics of my sexuality such as my place on the aroace and multi spectrums. I experience the split attraction model too, so I consider myself an aroace m-spec lesboy as well as aroace m-spec gay. Have you ever heard of 'everyone who is into me is gay'? It's like that but more 'it feels gay no matter who I'm talking about'.

I really want some m-spec gays & lesbians and turigirls and lesboys to talk to me about why they use those labels. (if you're comfortable)

I'm freshly out of a friendgroup that was anti "contradictory" labels and am trying to break that thought process.

Also because I may or may not be having a sexuality crisis but that's besides the point

the worst thing about this is that it isn't even a unique experience. this happens to intersex people all the time, even this specific topic, because perisex people hate it when we tell them they aren't entitled to doing shit that erases us and shit I guess. cool intersexism from perisex trans people that's just so normalized that it can go under the radar.

hey can intersex people call out problematic shit perisex people say without someone opposing us like we just advocated for the murder of someone's grandma? A transmasc TikTok compilation on YouTube had a TikTok that advocated for perisex transmascs claiming to have a 'hormone deficiency' in order to pass, and I pointed out that pretending to be intersex to 'avoid' stigma is a super fucking shitty thing to do, and the creator was all like 'not only intersex people have hormone deficiencies uwu' like pal not only is that iffy in terms of factual correctness it's also just further erasure. I pointed out that entitled perisex transmascs shouldn't fucking go around telling people they have hypogonadism and this person's FIRST INSTINCT is to go 'well not just intersex people-' shut up please.

"everyone of any identity can be trans and gender diverse and gnc and genderfluid and genderqueer and bigender and multigender and wo/men and boygirls and girlboys and enbies. except gays and lesbians. gays and lesbians can't be any of these things. men only. women only." do you HEAR yourselves.

why must gays and lesbians specifically be corralled into the tightest, most restrictive boxes logically possible? to keep them "pure"? i wonder where that logic comes from !

one of the most pathetic things you can do is make a cringe compilation. you're really seeing happy individuals existing and celebrating themselves, and your first instinct is that it's 'cringe'? that's truly one of the saddest things I've ever heard. I hope those hollow laughs are worth it.

look at my monster/werewolf oc who has dark skin and is aggressive and basically a brute force but it's ok because they're gay and have a cute partner who's frail and has lighter/white skin and is essentially a Twink/hyper femme.