; I Think Something Really Important That Is Often Overlooked Is That When People Say " Pronouns Don't

; I think something really important that is often overlooked is that when people say " Pronouns don't equal gender " or anything along those lines, this goes for people who are cis as well.

; because I see or hear of so many instances where a cishet person will come out as wanting to use different pronouns then what you'd expect ( i.e. Cis woman wants to use he / him or they / them ) and people are either negative or confused. ESPECIALLY if they want to use neopronouns.

; it irritates me because those same people will be all " use whatever pronouns make you comfortable !! xx " then immediately shame a cis person for wanting to use what pronouns make them comfortable, or they start saying they must be trans or whatever the fuck !! You don't have to be non-binary to use they / them, you don't have to be a man to use he / him and you don't have to be a woman to use she / her. You can be cis and use whatever pronouns make you comfortable.

; so to all the lovely allies ( allys ?? ) who want to use different pronouns but are worried they're not allowed to, sincerely from a very queer person, go ahead !! Wether that's using multiple sets or the " opposite of your gender " or even neo pronouns, go ahead !! You being comfortable is so important. Ignore the people who reject you, or ridicule you or whatever, they're not worth it.

; keep doing what you're doing and being your most authentic self. Gender and all that jazz is a personal journey, and it's your journey, you get to decide what happens. So if using different pronouns is what you want to do, then good on you !! :]

; ( on this topic, if anyone needs help w gender related stuff or pronouns then feel free to either message me or send an ask !! /nf /gen )

; I didn't even notice but yayyy !! 25 reblogs tysm everyone :]

; they call me a AAAA battery because that's what I also am but in a different flavour: Autism, ADHD, Anxiety and After effects of my ever growing guilt that keeps me up at night. ✨

they call me an AAA battery because I have Autism, ADHD, and Asthma!

; ID: a rectangular flag with equal-width stripes, colours going in the top-to-bottom order: light purple, blue, soft white, dusty pink, mint green. :ID end

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★◝ ; Attractioflux ( at-trackt-tio-flux )

; derived from " Attractio " meaning Attraction in Latin, and " Flux " meaning to shift or change.

coined by Marz or Tumblr user @thatonegaybrit

on May 26th, 2024

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; Attractioflux ,, is an orientation characterized by a change in attraction that corresponds with changes in one's own gender identity. Unlike other labels such as abrosexual or novosexual, individuals who identify as attractioflux experience shifts in their preferences primarily when their gender identity changes. ( sometimes it just changes without ones gender changing, other times ones gender changes and their orientation doesn't ) This orientation is especially relevant for genderfluid individuals or those with otherwise fluid and/or fluctuating gender identities.

; for example, when an individual feels more masculine, they might be more attracted to men or prefer non-binary individuals, etc. Whereas when they're feeling more feminine, they may feel attraction only to demiboys or even experiencing little to no attraction to anyone .. ! Or they might feel attraction to people regardless of gender when they're feeling more neutral / non-binary in some way ! While some Attractioflux individuals attraction to other genders can still be present despite shifts, there is still always a noticeable change in preference !

; ( or whatever combinations, as it varies person-to-person and change-to-change ... This can also include differences in sexual, romantic and platonic attraction !! )

; image description begin: the trans masculine flag with the words " trans men & mascs are queer. We belong, let us speak. " in white text with a black outline. :image description end

; you ever just stare at yourself in the mirror a little too long and suddenly your transmasc ??? lh/srs