Honestly, On The Topic Of Slurs I Think We Have Mixed Opinions, We Don't Mind If Someone Uses Slurs To

Honestly, on the topic of slurs I think we have mixed opinions, we don't mind if someone uses slurs to describe themselves or their friends playfully, but when it comes to describing complete strangers (even if playfully) we feel a bit uncomfortable with it. Like personally we'd rather not be called a slur, because we just don't like it, but we understand others don't really mind, so we like to keep a sort of "ask first" type opinion on it, you know?

-zim

Yeah, we're a bit scared to try get diagnosed (not like we can right now, but in the future when we think about it, it's scary.) Especially since we don't know all the cons or pros that might come with it, finding information on it is hard and we don't know if we want to risk it :(

-cutievee

Shout out to systems who cant get diagnosed. Shout out to systems who split easily. Shout out to systems with high introject counts. Shout out to complex systems. Shout out to systems with mostly littles. Shout out to systems with small alter counts. Shout out to systems who dont want to get diagnosed cause they dont want it on their record. Shout out to systems with nonhuman alters. Shout out to systems

Here's the link that no one asked for lmao /lh

https://archiveofourown.org/works/52235287

-zim

Is it just me or is invader zim & CoD a really good crossover??

Maybe it's just me because invader zim is my source and I'm very hyperfixated on ghost from CoD specifically— lol

But I'm currently writing a fanfic about dib and zim meeting task force 141, except I'm not very good at writing the rest of the task force, so they probably wont appear much 😭 but yea

I'd anyone is interested I'll drop the link, I've only done the first chapter so far

- zim

This. We are tired of people asking for a different alter, just let us speak -zim

We didn't form a system for other people's entertainment. We are not a system for people's entertainment. We are people operating one body, respecting each other, doing what we want, and letting others do what they want, all within reason. We are not going to switch for other people's pleasure anymore. We are not going to dehumanize ourselves anymore. We are allowed to exist as we are, flaws and everything.

(Typed out because of a small memory/comparison to nowadays I got from our past abusive relationships/friendships)

-co-host & persecutor-caretaker

Ah we made a mistake today!

A friend messaged with us to let us know that my "fwb" (friend with benefits) had started dating someone and hadn't told me (we had agreed not to date people, at least not without letting the other one know, for comfort reasons) and I got upset so I said "k" and my friend got upset because they thought I was being rude :(

Then when they tried to confront me on it, it triggered out nightmare and nightmare stated an argument with them, I feel so bad. I feel like I should've done something to stop the argument but I couldn't, and I don't know why

I don't like arguments and now I've lost my fwb and idk I feel so lonely now

-zim / wally

I wish we were closer as a system,

Or I wish I was closer to my headmates.

I feel like all my headmates have relationships and friendships with one another, they hang out all the time, but I'm left out. We have P-DID and I'm the dominant alter, I can't leave this front, and so I've never been to headspace and its frustrating.

I wish I could just go join them, I don't want to stay out here alone until someone decides to join me, I want to join them. I find it unfair that they have the choice to leave while I struggle with all this, I hate it so much.

I love my headmates (platonically) but at the same time I feel jealous, jealous of how close they all are with eachother, of how much they might get to see eachother, of the fact that they often remember eachother easier when I struggle to remember all their names.

I feel guilty, I don't know why, I'm just guilty. Maybe it's because I can hardly remember their names, maybe I feel guilty because I feel like I'm being selfish.. I don't know

It just hurts. I want a closer relationship with them, yet the only headmates I've had a close relationship with are chara and Aries / kaz. Hell, I hardly talk with my own subsystem, I want to, but I hardly ever feel them, I can't even go into that headspace, if that one even exists

-zim / wally