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I didn't stop talking to him immediately after that message he sent me. Truth be told, he’d ‘cut me off’ a number of times prior to that. We actually had a set of boundaries and expectations in place for just these sorts of occasions.
The last time he'd insisted we cease speaking, after the initial shock and flood of texts I sent him, I stopped texting him altogether. He messaged me after a few days of silence and accused me of getting over him.
So for the next 6 weeks or so, I texted him every day. Here’s some highlights of my shame:
About this time three years ago our his basement flooded which led to us gutting and reframing the basement.
The day it happened, my parents' basement, with whome I was living, also flooded. I had to call into work to help them keep the water at bay.
Then he called and he snapped his fingers and I left my parents and went running over to help him. Only one other person stopped by during the whole process - his dad to drop off a shop vac. No one else came, no one else helped.
When I arrived I walked down the stairs. I could tell he was upset, and I was already anxious but I wanted to try to comfort him.
I opened my mouth to say hello, but didn't get the word out of my mouth before he had punched me in the chest so hard that it knocked me back against the stairs and the wind out of me. He also told me that if I did one thing to upset him, he'd give me a few to the head.
I spent the next 16 hours removing water from his basement along with carpet, flooring, heavy furniture and drywall.
I don't think I spoke.
I wake up to 31 tumblr notifications and suddenly it’s 2021 and I just got mass quote retweeted by a fandom