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You mean I should keep my resting bitch face? Yay!
Russian girl secrets: don’t smile on your first date. Be serious at first. Don’t play hard to get. Only smile if he brings you flowers or a gift. Smile when he pays the bill and say “thank you, you are such a gentleman.” He has to earn your smile or he won’t chase you and expect you to chase him. Instead show interest intellectually, ”what do you do for fun, what drives you or you are passionate about?” “Wow how interesting” “that is quite fascinating.”
If he makes a genuinely funny joke, then laugh. If he says you are beautiful, smile briefly and politely and say thank you. Smile at the server if they serve you excellent food with a beautiful presentation “how beautifully presented! Wonderful plating!” If the food is good smile from ear to ear like a child eating candy “mmmm oh my goodness it’s so delicious. You must try some and order this next time! It’s too good!”
Don’t be happy to see a stranger: it’s dishonest unless you are a pick me. If the food is good be happy to eat it and even exaggerate a little but not theatrical. Just geniunely soak anything in. If the place is beautiful smile and point out the beautiful detail that made you smile.
NO FREE SMILES.
You don’t know him. Why are you even smiling at him. Imagine him old and fat and he enticed you to listen to his boring speech for a free meal. Maybe he has something interesting to say, maybe the food is good.
Also don’t over explain yourself, that’s low self esteem. The queen said don’t complain don’t explain.
If you are late: thank you for your patience. Don’t volunteer why you are later. He asks, “stuck in traffic. it’s unfortunate. So how did your day go?”
The Russian ice queen is a power move. Smiles are earned. Good food? Smile! Flowers? Smile! Beautiful place? Smile. For his existence he has to prove his worth for you to smile. Do cats 🐈⬛ Stand up and meow at random strangers? No they meow and great the people who feed and care for them after they are back from work or school. Be like a cat.
At work smile if you are doing customer service but don’t be smiley to coworkers or you are not taken seriously. Smile when there is something to smile about but be serious at first.
Russian gentlemen bring flowers on a first date so they are not met with a scowl. Russian women train them by not smiling for free. Of course they give hope by smiling at food presentation or delicious food.
Make him earn it and not feel he has it in the bag
#dating #relationshipadvice
Credit Maria Al Massani
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originally made this plan for myself but all the Q&A sessions on instagram made me want to share it with you.
everyone, let's do our best and have fun. no pressure and don't take it too seriously. Come on ig if you want more action, details and examples.
beauty tips?
Beauty Tips.
.... new habits, current go-tos, recent additions.
✿ gradual face tan and 1-2 drops carotene oil = 💋 from the sun
✿ sexy stomach = tightening transverse abdominus + stomach vacuums + gua sha.
✿ increasing my hip as well as my shoulder mobility for an attractive gait.
✿ eliminating sweat: AHA regularly, antiperspirant (at night!), and drinking sage tea.
✿ targeted weightlifting and protein heavy diet and protein shakes for hot curves!
✿ starting hot yoga = it's body weight training + cardio + meditation all in one!
✿ socks in the evenings after applying my heavy cream for silky smooth skin.
✿ golden jewelry on bronzed skin is an absolutely stunning combination, no silver.
✿ adorning my body ♡ stacked rings + bracelets + a delicate anklet on my right foot.
✿ lots of PA+++ sunscreen, citrus perfume, my summertime drinks and snacks.
✿ french on the nails and french on the toes is an absolute necessity!
✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨
Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies.
DATING
- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan
- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles
FEMININITY
- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SEDUCTION
- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin
- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green
- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SOCIAL CLIMBING
- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles
- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully
- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier
- The Social Climbers Bible, Dirk Wittenborn