Tertiary Attraction - Tumblr Posts

bro i'm an alloromantic and allosexual(i'm pan and polyam btw) but even though i feel romantic attraction and sexual attraction pretty often and i also feel other types of attraction intertwined with these, sometimes i also just feel tertiary attractions alone(hope this makes sense) and i hate when other allos don't understand what i mean when i say that for example i only feel queerplatonic attraction for someone or when i say that i feel sensual and aesthetic attraction for someone or even when i say that i want other types of relationships rather than romantic relationships with people. like bro wtf just educate your-fucking-self! (a lil edit cause i forgot to add this) I FUCKING HATE HOW AMATONORMATIVITY AND MONONORMATIVITY AFFECT ME LIKE BRUH LEAVE ME ALONE!!

i'm resposting this because i think it can be really helpful in case you're questioniong rather or not you're aspec or if you're questioning what type of attraction you're feeling :)

(this can also be helpful if you just want to learn more about different types of attraction)

Types of Tertiary Attraction Infographic

src: www.lgbta.wikia.org

There are more than just romantic and sexual love/attraction, the others should be acknowledged more often

platonic kissing.

platonic cuddling.

platonic love and affection.

petting, head scratches.

biting your friends?

open conversations about physical affection, talking about what you do and don't like

you agree