Youre Losing Me T.s

you’re losing me — t.s

ABC PLEASE

Use this guide to help you develop emotional resilience and decrease suffering from difficult emotions.

A - Accumulate Positive Emotions:

- Short Term: Be mindful of pleasant events such as listening to music, watching tv, drawing knitting, etc.

-Long Term: Avoid avoiding, identify values, take steps toward goals.

B - Build Mastery:

-Plan on doing something to build a sense of accomplishment.

-Plan for success rather than failure.

-Look for a challenge and gradually increase difficulty over time.

C - Cope Ahead:

-Describe possibly triggering situations.

-Plan coping or problem solving strategies.

-Practice coping effectively.

-Practice relaxation after coping practice.

P - Treat Physical Illness:

-Take care of your body.

-See a doctor when necessary

-Take prescribed medications as directed.

L - List Resources and Barriers:

-List tools and practices that will help with vulnerabilities.

-List issues and situations that will hinder healthy practices.

E - Balanced Eating:

-Don’t eat too much or too little.

-Eat regularly and mindfully throughout the day.

-Stay away from food that makes you feel overly emotional.

A - Avoid Mood-Altering Substances: Stay off drugs and alcohol.

S - Balanced Sleep:

-Try to get 8-9 hours of sleep daily.

-Keep a consistent bedtime and wake time.

E - Regular Exercise:

-Do some sort of exercise daily.

-Aim for 20-30 minutes of physical activity.

-Build flexibility and love your body.

*More DBT guides here*

Made this a while ago, wanted a Swiftie phone background that made me feel hopeful and reminded me to breathe💗

“Happiness is like a butterfly, the more you chase it, the more it will evade you, but if you notice the other things around you, it will gently come and sit on your shoulder.” HENRY DAVID THOREAU

Trigger warning: su1cidal thoughts

I want to love myself. I want to love my life. I want to enjoy things. I want to be able to let go of what doesn’t serve me. I want to be happy, or at the very least be content. But currently the best I can do is hold onto enough mindfulness to follow my crisis plan when I’m holding a pill bottle in my hand.

As my therapist always says, therapy and treatment can only work if you’re alive, and the skills are there to help you stay that way.

Better buried in self-loathing and shame than in the ground, I guess.