What Annoys Me About Debates About Hazbin Hotel And Heartstopper Is How People Conveniently Forget To

What annoys me about debates about Hazbin Hotel and Heartstopper is how people conveniently forget to mention that the creators are lgbt when they claim they are fetichizing gay men.

I get it, fujoshis can be lgbt, but being part of the community actually adds a lot of context to their narrative decisions.

Why does Hazbin Hotel have so many lgbt characters? Maybe that’s because the creators wants to represent herself and her community, not because she finds them hot or whatever.

Why do the characters from Heartstopper seem so sexless? Maybe it’s because the creator doesn’t feel sexual attraction and her experiences reflect in the work, not because she wants to write uwu fluff perfect gays.

If you wanna argue about whether or not it’s good representation, fine, but not acknowledging the creator’s orientation feels like a really scummy tactic in these kinds of debates.

Edit: Note how both Vivzie and Alice have orientations that are very often ignored and deemed as “not queer enough” in the lgbt community (bisexual and aroace respectively).

Beware guys, stay safe.

The tags are everything I know. I am sharing this with every single one to try and spread the word.

Idk, sketches of my Monster High oc (click for better quality)

I ditched my “friends” for ignoring and excluding me for over a year and now I’m sharing a room in my last school trip with a group of girls I barely know.

Although stressing due to autism, it’s always interesting to meet other people, because their world vision can be way different from yours.

Basically these girls were talking about first kisses, personally I don’t care a lot about that (and never kissed anyone), but they were talking about it as if it was the most important thing in the world.

One of them started to get sad because she never kissed anyone and then asked if she can even find another wlw girl in our school.

I was there thinking like, you already found one I’m here, but I think I’m too far into the asexual spectrum for you to find me interesting.

It seriously bothers me when people make a fuss about labels. If someone wants to use a lot of labels to describe themselves that is their personal, inoffensive choice and you shouldn’t get mad over it.

“Oh but you aren’t a product on a shelf, you shouldn’t let that define you, labels aren’t that important”

For you! And your experience isn’t universal! There are various reasons for one to use labels, including having a better understanding of themselves. I literally lived in a limbo of not understanding and pushing myself way too hard, to the point where I would hurt myself before I was labeled as autistic and discovered the label asexual.

Labels are quite useful and important to some. If they not for you, that’s valid! But don’t disregard their importance to others or shame people who use them.

People are like safari animals to me.

I observe them, I study their behaviors, I take notes, but I don’t come close or else they’ll eat me alive.