I Don't Get How Systems Can Accept Themselves So Easy

I don't get how systems can accept themselves so easy

When we got our medical recognition when we were like 14 years old I enter in a horrible denial and it took me like 2 years to finally accept I had DID

In those 2 years my amnesiac barriers got worst thanks to the panic and denial of the psychiatrist telling us the most probable thing is that we have DID but he needed more time to get the final diagnosis, we search a lot of CDD in those times and was a horrible process

I genuinely don't get how some self diagnose systems accept it so easy, for us was a horrible 2 years denial and investigation, and we don't finish accepting the complete idea now, damn

Mixed Origins/disordered endos & pro-endos

Before someone comes here and say now I'm talking about endos when this blog isn't about that, I just want to clarify this is a boundary post, more like an extent of the intro to clarify some things for our personal comfort

When talking about mixed origins systems, or how we feel more comfortable calling them, endos who are also disordered, we have mixed opinions (Get the joke?)

But jokes aside we're a bit mixed about that, it's like they're in a fragile line between us being ok with them interacting and don't wanting them to interact, so we decided to make this post to make it more clear and, if you're a system like this, read this to understand and follow our boundaries before interacting, if you're not comfortable with this or think is dumb or something like that I recommend you to not interacting with me and leave me alone, mayba block me if that's better for you

When I talk about disordered endos I'm talking about those systems that besides they're OSDDID or disordered plurality have another kind of plurality, this being spiritual, alterhuman, cultural, etc. it's irrelevant for this topic. So if you're under this description and you may think about interacting with this blog I found helpful to read this first to prevent problems

As we already established by our intro we're not comfortable with endos interacting for past experiences and more current ones, so it's hard to us to feel 100% comfortable with OSDDID systems who also have another kind of plurality because of on how most of endos act and behave (The principal reason why we don't want them to interact with us and the blog), but we're aware they're also disordered, and telling them our blog is 100% prohibited seems... Wrong in my opinion, so that's why we're making this for clarifying

(Also clarifying this boundaries applies to pro-endos, just don't want to make more text just about them cause it will be repetitive lol)

We don't have a problem with this systems interacting if they're:

Gonna talk about experiences regarding they're disorder

Gonna ask questions/make submissions regarding disordered plurality

Abstain to talk about their endos experiences, comments and all of that from this blog (Clarifying this blog because outside of our blog we don't care about that)

In the same line that the last one, abstain to talk about non-disordered plurality at all (Again, clarifying this blog, we don't care outside of it )

Gonna assume a respectful, calm, not passive-agressive nor mad role in this blog, good and kind interactions are welcomed

Don't gonna get mad, harass, attack or get a bad attitude if we say something you disagree with regarding plural/system community, because if you do we'll block

Gonna be open minded, we're not perfect and we're gonna say some things that you may not agree with. We're open to debate, corrections and things like that, but understand that some points or thoughts of us won't be changed so you need to be open minded

I know for some people this may see ridiculous, immature, childish or something like that, I just want to say if you have this kind of mentality and think that please block us because we don't want people like that neer us

But if you understand this boundaries and follow them, then welcome to our blog, I sure hope you like it, or at least don't find it annoying :)

Thank you for taking your time into reading this and I hope we'll get along if you're a good pro-endo or a disordered endo

I'm curious, do you have a "verse" in your system?

Explanation: A verse is when you have multiple alters from the same source and/or are classified as similar or the same; it's not always about introjects cause we have brainmades who are a verse

We have like 10 verses lol

Brain doesn't have budget to make original ideas /j

Good reminder that if someone can't accept and understand trans people the chances for them to understanding and accepting you as a system are low to nothing at all

If they can't understand and accept a consistent and simple change in one's identity, they won't understand constant changes, aka switches

Believe, we know for experience

The frequent fronters and host have more difficulty visualizing our inner world, I don't know why

But when we're able to see it it's so fun cause we peek a look and we see like 30 new alters we never seen before but they have been existing for a long time and we're like ?????

It's just so random that I felt like sharing it lol

Stop treating Simply Plural as a system social media app, it's not

And worst if you put a lot and detail information about you, your system and alters, that can be very dangerous for your integrity

Is ok wanting to have more friends and see other's people systems and alters, but you really have to be careful to who you give your simply plural, people online can be shitty some times and you don't know what will they do with your information

So please, don't use Simply Plural as a social media app, and also don't ask for a chat between systems function, that could be very dangerous for systems

If you're gonna pass your Simply Plural make sure you know the person you're giving it