; FISH !???

; FISH !??? 😟

homoeroticism

; since @genderfluid-info-blog asked if I could tag cie in my post if I ended up coining a term for myself !! ( it was an anon post but hopefully moon knows what post this correlates to !! I'm the genderflir person who has a " ; " typing quirk for context <3 ) Novosexual was close and I appreciate cier for mentioning it, but it wasn't quite me .. So I did end up coining my first ever term !! I hope it enjoys adding this to zir microlabel hoard hsbshsv <3 :D

; PS. also /ot but, if you (( the blog I tagged )) are reading this, i really appreciate everything you're doing w your blog, it's really helped me and I'm sure many others !! /gen )

; PPS. stealing some of these neos because wow. Sorry not sorry >:] /lh

★◝ ; Attractioflux ( at-trackt-tio-flux )

; derived from " Attractio " meaning Attraction in Latin, and " Flux " meaning to shift or change.

coined by Marzceline or Tumblr user @thatonegaybrit

on May 26th, 2024

⌒⌒✶⏖ >_<

; Attractioflux ,, is an orientation characterized by a change in attraction that corresponds with changes in one's own gender identity. Unlike other labels such as abrosexual or novosexual, individuals who identify as attractioflux experience shifts in their preferences primarily when their gender identity changes. ( sometimes it just changes without ones gender changing, other times ones gender changes and their orientation doesn't ) This orientation is especially relevant for genderfluid individuals or those with otherwise fluid and/or fluctuating gender identities.

; for example, when an individual feels more masculine, they might be more attracted to men ( mlm ) or prefer non-binary individuals, etc. Whereas when they're feeling more feminine, they may feel attraction only to demiboys or even experiencing little to no attraction to anyone .. ! Or they might feel attraction to people regardless of gender when they're feeling more neutral / non-binary in some way ! While some Attractioflux individuals attraction to other genders can still be present despite shifts, there is still always a noticeable change in preference !

; ( or whatever combinations, as it varies person-to-person and change-to-change ... This can also include differences in sexual, romantic and platonic attraction !! )

; good job fish, glad you've been happy irl !!

sorry I haven't been posting on tumblr for a few days. I've been really happy irl

https://www.tumblr.com/kyra45/751853921133297664/hi-can-you-help-me-i-received-an-ask-from-an

; thank you so much ! I'll remove that post from my reblogs now, hopefully no one has donated. I appreciate it ! /gen

RESPECT ALL ASPEC IDENTITIES EVEN IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THEM

Get this message onto everyone’s dash rn

; as it's nearly pride month I js wanted to make a quick post ( I'm going to make a larger one + loads more on pride .. Plus some other things that are celebrated / honoured in June !! ) .. The most common thing I see when ppl are asking for help regarding their identity / anything LGBTQIA+ related is stuff like

; " can I use x and x ?? " or " is it okay to be x and use x ?? " etc ..

; and while it's lovely to see ppl being considerate of terms and not wanting to use conflicting terms that could misrepresent .. It's also important for me to js say:

; you don't need permission to be you.

; it's okay !! I promise !! There is no need to force yourself into boxes of what can be and what cannot, the whole point of exploring your gender identity and expression and your orientation is being yourself, not sticking with the " norm " of cishetallo !! So please, it's so important you don't make boxes for ppl who are trying to get out of other boxes. ( We aren't actually cats .. Not physically at least )

; this is no hate to microlabels, I use them myself even, they're useful and can make ppl be seen !! Totally okay to use those. But you also shouldn't stress yourself out trying to find the perfect ones that don't " conflict " and that " make sense " to outsiders, etc !! You're meant to be discovering things about yourself, not trying to squeeze and pull yourself into what will be digestible for others. It's fine to be considerate and it's great to see, but don't pull yourself apart js because you can't find labels that are common enough, work together, feel right, aren't too " obscure ", don't have bad origins, etc !! It's okay if your identity doesn't make 100% sense to others, it's your identity, it's okay to be " confusing " to others. You aren't responsible for educating the entire human population.

; and whether confusing means using lots of microlabels and xenogenders and neopronouns and being a neogirl who identifies with transmasc and is bigenderflux depending on who your with and your sexual interest is described as demisexual and graysexual but you also have a hard time distinguishing romantic and platonic attraction. Or it could be that you identify as a demiboy and a lesbian.

; however your identity is described or not described, it's okay !! Your okay !! You don't need to apologize or pull your hair out trying to understand everything in a digestible way for others to understand. It's okay to be yourself. I promise.

; so happy early pride everyone !! Now go, be proud of yourself and who you are !!