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Parasitogender/Parasitegender

Parasitogender, or Parasitegender: A xenogender that is described more like gender affirming against cisnormativity than a gender metaphor, like classic xenogenders. Is based off of a scientifical fact that recognizes that the pregnant body doesn't primarily sees the fetus as a baby or as something good, but as a parasite, it being the reason why so many couples have difficulties and struggle while getting a baby or why miscarriages are pretty common (noting that is also the reason why miscarriages are also called “spontaneous abortion”).

This xenogender can also be described with a form of resistance against patriarchy and it's cisnormativity, by finally accepting the duty/mission of destroying it completely; by being a threat, a menace or a parasite to the system and it's structure.

Okay, so, do y'all remember that one post where I said I was thinking about creating a xenogender, but I was unsure about it because it was not like the classic xenogenders? If you're seeing this now, it's because I finally got courage to post it adagrhdjtvsjrv XP

But, anyway, what is this xenogender in specific? Well, it's pretty complicated, but like in the first description is a identity reaffirming xenogender and/or a anti patriarchy and anti cisnormativity xenogender.

“Angel, how did you got this idea?” The first moment I heard the fact that we are basically parasites on our mother's (or father's/parent's, if you were generated in a non girly uterus) body, I instantly created an inside joke of mine:

“Well, if it's like this, than I'm nobody is biologically a man nor a woman, were biologically parasites, lmao”

And this tiny inside joke turned into something more: Like something that could be totally used against transphobes, in a way of mockery or pirraça (in english: tantrum in a annoying manner). I mean that could be perfect.

And getting this together with the fact that society doesn't even see us as humans, but as some kind of mental illness or a verminosis, we could be easily use this label and be like:

“You know what? Yeah, I am a mental illness. And my first symptom is burning your fat ass bigotry in hell. Say goodbye, bitch. *Insert gunshots.*"

And, stopping to think, it makes sense for this to be a completely valid xenogender, even if it's not a gender metaphor. Because it kind of shows that transphobes are actually pretty stupid and only use biology when it's convenient for them and for this oppressive system. So, what is better than being a parasite with the objective of ruining this hierarchy to make the world a better place for everyone?

Transphobia, cisnormativity and gender binary: The racism behind the anti-transness, specially nonbinary transness.

If you think for a second, the idea of the cisnormative gender binary are completely eurocentric: Not only because of the many amerindigenous communities who have Two-Spirits as a third gender, because there are many non white/non european ethnic groups who have, not only three, but more than three gender identities. Ethnic groups that existed for centuries, if not for millennias!

This means that gender binary, transphobia and cisnormativity are completely eurocentric. Oh, wait! Even better yet: transphobia, cisnormativity and gender binary are completely racist.

Observe how transphobes commonly mock and demonize trans people. How do you think these mfs would react to cultures and ethnic groups who don't have, nor accept the cisnormative gender binary? It's obvious that they'd react just like their colonizer ancestors; by demonizing and demoralizing these cultures to a whole.

Gender binary and cisnormativity have an important role on treating non white cultures as inferior. Rejecting gender as a social phenomenon = rejecting gender as a cultural phenomenon.

If you think that trans people are mentally ill, delusional or disgusting, you are obviously going to think these cultures are inferior for having more than 2 genders.

That is the reason why being anti-trans and a person of colour at the same time is such a shot on your own feet. You are a descendant of these people, in the end, you are going to get demonized altogether. So don't try to assimilate to think you are accepted.

Long story short: Accepting the gender binary, cisnormativity and/or being a transphobe in general is racism. Because you're not only demonizing random people, you are going to be demonizing cultures also.