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Look I know everyone is getting the porn bot follows but like .. what's are they even for? What's the point of them? What are they trying to accomplish?
Alright, I need to have a chat with the teenagers that follow me, specifically regarding lying about your age and nsfw content. This isn’t directed at anyone, but I think it’s a convo that needs to be had in general.
I was a teenager once. I get it. Everyone lies about their age online. Maybe not to other people, but I’m sure every minor has clicked a ‘yeah, sure, I’m 18+” button at some point in their lives. I’m not here to shame you for that.
What I am here to say is it is vital that teenagers understand the difference between engaging in sexual content independently (ie, entering a fake birthday to access 18+ content), and lying about your age to engage in sexual activities with others online (joining discord servers/using nsfw channels intended for adults only/lying about your age to talk to nsfw content creators/commissioning nsfw art/etc).
Lying about your age to a website so you can look at porn is one thing. It’s an entirely independent experience, where the only consent that really matters is yours. Nobody has any power over you in this situation, and there’s about no chance of legal consequences.
However, lying about your age to other human beings is extremely different. If you’re engaging in nsfw roleplay with a friend about the same age as you, talking about sex with other teenagers, sharing nsfw fics among friends, that’s one thing. But do not lie about your age to engage in sexual activities/discussions. Not only is something that could have actual legal ramifications, and very serious ones depending on what’ going on, but it’s a violation of the other people’s consent. The moment other real people are involved, you need to be respectful of their boundaries & what is and isn’t appropriate for you to be engaging with. If they say no minors, I don’t care if you’re 17.5, you stay out until you are 18 years old.
Examples of situations where it is never okay to lie or mislead anyone about your age online include:
Joining/accessing nsfw channels or servers on discord.
Yes, I know it’s very easy to just click that little red button on discord that lets you access the channel you’re so curious about. It looks just like the one you see on adult websites that you click without thinking.
Don’t do it.
If channels are 18+ then you stay out of them. There are other real life human beings involved who did not give consent to have a minor in an adult orientated space.
Engaging with nsfw creators/content directly
ie, commissioning nsfw artwork, following or talking to nsfw creators who’ve asked for no interactions from minors/flagged their accounts as 18+ only, subscribing to nsfw creators on patron, nsfw roleplay, etc.
Joining/engaging with adult only communities, like Fetlife or cam sites.
Engaging in romantic and/or sexual online relationships
Any time you are talking with one or more other real human beings, particularly any adults, in a sexual context.
I know that adult websites have basically trained teenagers to just say they’re 18 and move on, but it is vital that teenagers understand that it is never okay to lie about your age when directly engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Knowing people’s age is a vital part of consent, and if an adult is found to have been engaging in sexual activity with a minor, they could face life long legal consequences. Not only that, but a basic facet of consent is clear, honest communication. If you are lying to a partner, then you do not have consent. Lying about your age is a huge violation of consent.
That’s not to say you can never mention sex around adults online. There are times and places where you may be asking for advice, or even just making jokes about sex or whatever. That’s all well and good, so long as everyone is on the same page. It’s on adults to make sure that we are behaving appropriately around minors online, and make sure that we’re setting boundaries in those relationships. But it’s on minors to communicate that they are minors, and respect those boundaries that are set.
So, tl;dr,
Lying about your age to access a porn site is fine. Lying about your age to engage in sexual situations/adult-only spaces where other real human beings are involved is not.
Stay Safe .....
#PrayForParis (Shooting & explosions happening around Paris) & #PrayForJapan (Earthquake & Tsunami warning)
PLEASE EVERYBODY STAY SAFE !!
HAPPY PRIDE MOOOOONNNTHHHH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I LOVE THE GAYS, TRAINS AND OTHER VARIANTS OF THE LGBT COMMUNITY LOVE Y'ALL KEEP BEING THE PERSON YOU LOVE!!!!
For those in Florida who are about to get hit with Irma ( like me): Make mad and cheese while your water is still safe and you still have electricity
Excuse me while I go and hibernate until June 2025
Get well soon Yoongi, Jin and Namjoon
Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Batman - All Media Types Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Tim Drake & Dick Grayson, Tim Drake & Jason Todd Characters: Tim Drake, Bruce Wayne, Dick Grayson, Jason Todd Additional Tags: Suicide Attempt, Hurt/Comfort, Angst, Mental Health Issues Summary:
While on patrol, Nightwing and Robin spot a person standing on the edge of a roof.
TW: Detailed suicidal ideation, near attempted suicide
Be careful and be save
Hey I may be on hiatus right now but I gotta say...
Happy pride month everybody! I hope everything and everyone are doing okay and hope this month will be filled with nothing but happiness and acceptance!
But also.. Everyone, please be careful online. By morning, some users from 4 and 8 chan have been planning on attacking Reddit, Twitter, and possibly other social media platforms for hate-filled posts directing the LGBTQ+ community
National State of Emergency for LGBTQ+ Americans
We have officially declared a state of emergency for LGBTQ+ people in the United States for the first time following an unprecedented and dangerous spike in anti-LGBTQ+ legislative assaults sweeping state houses this year. More than 75 anti-LGBTQ+ bills have been signed into law this year alone, more than doubling last year’s number, which was previously the worst year on record.
Our community is in danger, but we won't stop fighting back — not now, not ever.
Human Rights Campaign is saying Know Your Rights and Be Safe!!
any time i would do or say something he didnt like i was punished for it. say the wrong word? incoming lecture of how either shaitaan has a hold on me, how im a terrible human being who isnt good at all. i dont "listen" to him aka i dnt submit to him and his emotions, then im selfish and terrible. i stood up for myself? now the punishment is to be ghosted right before my period started and when i had an assignment due (that he knew about)
and whats crazy is that i know hes using this as a form of punishment because i had told him of my past and how much it had affected me. i told him that ome ofnmy ex partners ghosted me and how it sent me suicidal, i told him how another ex (the rapist) would stalk me and then vague post about me and call me a narcissist.
and its so disappointing to see that this is what hes subjecting me to. this whole thing is a complete abusive and personal attack. hes still trying to control me. at the end of our argument on my birthday, i said "sorry. i'll change i'll be a better person" but i still could not believe i was that person at all. so i went to my therapist, went to my friends, went to my mother, and they all disagreed with what he said. and he hated that. he hated that he now wasnt in control of how i see myself. he wanted to change me for his liking so he could marry me and fuck 12 kids outta me.
its so scary witnessing someone be so calculated in their abuse that it almost seems surreal. the way he speaks about my friends is crazy, because he doesnt even know them. he praises himself for being a good person yet speaks about them in such a negative way. who, with a good heart, would ever speak like that about someone? no matter how angry i get i never use someones self harm, suicidal urges, or past against them (unless its to call them out for doing the same to someone else) and its like. how sadistic are you?
i hope this man seeks psychiatric care. this is the problem with society that a woman stands up to her abuser and it subjects her to even more abuse and slander. its so isolating being a woman in a man's world.
but yeah. i hope he seeks psychiatric care. therapy too but he probably wont because clearly hes in denial about everything. hes so delusional its disorienting. hes so good at gaslighting and punishing that i find it insane. a shame to see such an intelligent person use their intelligence for selfish and inhumane behavior.
i pray Allah guides you M. i pray that u stop hurting and whatever abandonment wound it is that you shut yourself off from feeling (we spoke about this in the car when u said ur emotions get so intense u shut them off and u dont want to feel them) i hope u can feel that feeling and move past it. so u can stop abusing women. so u can finally have the life and future that u want. bc ur not gonna have it at this rate. youre almost 30, this isnt what a 30 year old who wants a family should spend his time doing. he should be going to therapy, admitting to how hes hurt people, no matter how guilty u may feel (if u even feel guilt), and move on. not spending ur time stalking my accounts and friends accounts, talking shit about us and me by vague posting. and then convincing urself that im a narcissist and tryna do a smear campaign.
im not. i wanted this thing between us to die and i wanted us to move on. i even posted about how i forgave you for what u did and i moved on. like an adult i moved on. but you didnt. u still wanted that control over me. u still wanted me to change who i was. but if i stayed with you and allowed you to change me, M, i would be dead. i would genuinely have been dead by the end of it. and we both know that.
i dont hate u. im not tryna do some smear campaign against u bc frankly i dont care to. i barely knew u for long enough, its not something i do. if ur upset that i post about my emotions on here, and u think thats a smear campaign, then like an adult u couldve reached out and spoken to me about it. i had Y reach out to me for that and i didnt speak on the emotions so intensely anymore. if its privacy u wwnt then u have to also be willing to give it. and clearly ur not giving privacy because u still stalk my account. u still care about what i and others think of you. (that post abt shitty men, how would u know if its about you? ive dated other men before, its possible it may not have even been about you. why are u applying yourself into my life where u dont even exist?)
you know how i think of you. i think youre an unfortunate soul who had to raise themselves in a world u felt hated u in a world where u were abandoned. i know that and i still believe the way u treated me was abusive. this isnt to slander u or give a smear campaign. i wouldve spoken about this with u in private but uve left me with no choice. i say this because u told me to tell u if u act that way.
u told me to tell u if ur acting abusive towards me. youd always tell me that u know that ur bad for me and my health. u always said that and u told me i had every right to leave if u were hurting me. i was planning to, i was planning on sitting u down, u and i, and telling u its not working out, that you act abusively towards me; and that i owe it not only to myself but to you to have space and become the people who we truly believe we are.
but youre not gonna achieve love being like this M. im genuinely a very tolerant person, im a very loving person. yes i make mistakes, im human, but it doesnt make me some monster like u always picked me out to be. i know u try ur best to care. i know u try ur best to be perfect to people but stop tryna be perfect and then u wont expect it out of your relationships. u wanted me to be perfect for you, and im not. and its not my responsibility to change fundamental aspects of my identity to cater to your emotions.
theres been so many countless times where u get angry at me even when im speaking to you just as gently as i am now. M, theres nothing more i can say or do to help u. i tried talking to u about your emotions, i tried abandoning myself as much as i could so the conversation could be about you, and i cant do that anymore. being with you was the most mentally unstable i had been in such a long long time. and u got that side of me, the mentally unstable, always crying, because of how you treated me. no, this isnt escaping accountability for my own emotions, thats not true. you even said it for yourself that ever since meeting u, it seems that ive been worse mentally and physically.
my body rejected u and u knew that. acne for the first time in a year, skipped periods, body aches id feel when i was dating my rapist. you know you were bad for me. just because it ended doesnt mean there has to be another competition (which u always started these even over the smallest things) where ur wrong im right etc etc.
idk M. for the sake of your akhira please be introspective. im not saying this to be a bitch, im not saying this in any way. go to therapy, figure out who you really are. wake up, because u deserve to live a happy life and have a connection between your true Self and Soul so that ur soul doesnt suffer this hell your putting it through for an infinite.
Creepy men are the things I fear most in this world next to insects
THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)
An Article from
Neena Susan Thomas
“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.
If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”
My heart goes out to everyone in Orlando and everyone effected by this tragedy. Stay strong.
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Hey guys this is VERY important you guys have to pass this post on to the world
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There’s a weird notification on WhatsApp that someone complimented you. There’s actually a link to it but something bad…
Don’t press the link it’s a s*x trafficking tracker that is luring Girls & identifies where they live & where they are!!! IT’S TRUE! ITS TRUE!
REBLOG RIGHT NOW!!! TAG EVERYONE AND YOUR FRIENDS!!!
Reblogging because I cannot afford to donate, but I have the time to reblog. To anyone reading this, donate if you can.
What is-not-real is doing is horrific. No child should be deprived of food to this extent. Or any for that matter. Be safe. Free Palestine 🍉🇵🇸
Dear,
Please share and support my family campaign in Gaza
My nephew Kareem Almadhoon, is slowly dying due to lack of medicine, food & drinkable water
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This is very important for both the younger and the older girls... please reblog
WARNING!!!!
People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.
Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.
Just putting that out there.
So I just got this message literally few minutes ago
And if YOU get this message in the future DON’T YOU FUCKING DARE CLINK ON THE LINK I FUCKING SWEAR TO GOD I WILL CUT YOUR HANDS OFF
A warning to all of my followers there no such a thing as @exposingthoselosers I just thought any form of information is good and can protect my followers from getting their phone or any other devices hacked if you’re connect to the wifi they might hack all of the devices connected.
DO NOT FUCKING CLICK ON ANU LINK YOU GET NOT EVEN FROM UR FRIENDS ON TUMBLR BECAUSE THEY COULD GET HACKED 👀
Pls share this awareness ⚠