Loveless Aroace - Tumblr Posts
Sometimes I call myself NBLW and then I remember that I'm aroace
"Love is what makes us human" Wrong, my ability to write poetry about the moon is what makes me human
Everyone who is saying "Isn't that just love, OP?" is absolutely right, I have a stronger relationship with the moon than I do with other human beings
"Love is what makes us human" Wrong, my ability to write poetry about the moon is what makes me human
Being loveless and an oriented aroace at the same time is so weird. One side of me wants to find a queer-platonic version of The One™ to live and die with while the other scuttles away from the slightest mention of love, sex and romance like a terrified beast
[song review- amour by rammstein]
(Before anyone asks, it's the only Rammstein song I know and no, I don't know German- I just read the translated lyrics.)
All I can say is that this song is a dark, haunting gem that I don't think I can get out of my head anytime soon. That guitar melody sends a shiver down my spine every time I hear it. I'm pretty indecisive about which line I love the best but the "Bitte, bitte, gib mir Gift" at the end makes me feel shrimp emotions.
However, it's the theme that made me obsessed with Amour: that love can be painful and destructive rather than being pure and sweet. I'm glad someone's addressed that because it's very easy to ignore the dark side of love. It also shows how even toxic love can still be addictive and cause people to mess themselves up without realising it.
That really hits me hard as a loveless aro because I've experienced this so much when it comes to my family and friends to a degree that now I feel extremely disconnected from it and the word itself has negative connotations for me. Yet, I still find myself torn between trying love and befriend others and isolating myself out of fear of getting hurt or used again.
Plus, Amour is the first song that I know which is about love but isn't a romantic song itself as it 'dissects' what it truly is without much bias.
Shout out to the Romance-Averse/Sex-Averse Demi AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Averse/Sex-Averse AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Neutral/Sex-Neutral AroAces!
Shout out to the Romance-Favorable/Sex-Favorable AroAces!
Shout out to the Hyperrose AroAces!
Shout out to Loveless AroAces!
Shout out to the Sapphic AroAces, the Achillean AroAces!
Shout out to the Lesbian AroAces, the Gay AroAces!
Shout out to the Bi AroAces, Pan AroAces, Poly AroAces!
Shout out to the Polyamorous AroAces!
Shout out to the Apothi AroAces!
Shout out to Aego AroAces!
Shout out to the Grey AroAces!
Shout out to the other AroAce labels I missed!
THIS POST IS ABOUT AROACES, NOT ALL ASPEC IDENTITIES, PLEASE DO NOT DERAIL!
