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Keith Haring è stato uno dei più grandi artisti del Novecento, e assieme a Basquiat padre dell'arte del murales
“Art is different for every individual, and is definable only by the given individual.” – Keith Haring
by the way i will never stop talking about how hard get z fell for and is now peddling purity culture propaganda.
unironically a good portion of gen z supports purity culture/sex negative ideals a lot harder than millennials or gen x ever did. its the constant messaging that wearing anything that could be interpreted as sexual is bad (showing any skin, etc), that having anything inappropriate happen in a movie or book is unspeakably scandalous, that speaking about sex in and of itself (especially if were talking about non-normative forms of sexual expression) is wrong and a conversation that should only happen between two adults in private and should never become a wider more open conversation and should never ever ever ever be something minors speak about god forbid.
its all of these ideas that are deeply embedded in right wing fascist propaganda that gen z so adamantly supports and repeats, but repackages it by swearing its progressive this time. sex negativity is not and never has been progressive. btw.
Deep Throat: It's Not All In Your Head
Girls, giving head can be great fun for both you and your partner but deep throating can lead to a whole other not so pleasant experience. You see, the wall of the esophagus, essentially your throat, is exceptionally thin and extremely fragile. It can puncture or rupture very easily causing a hemorrhage and possible bleed out. Repair to the esophagus is not that simple and requires very difficult and exacting surgery. The healing process is not the pleasant either. Am I saying that deep throating is wrong? Not at all. But take the information I have given you and make an informed and rational decision before you let a guy cram his shlong down your throat. Things to consider before making this decision: If the guy's dick is too long you might want to pass. If it's too thick you might want to pass on that too. The most important thing to consider is that your throat is not built to take a pounding like your vagina is for the reasons that I have already explained. So, be fucking careful. A good rule of thumb: Definitely do not let a guy cum in your throat unless you want to take the serious risk of suffocating to death. Also, don't let a guy ram rod your throat like a steam engine piston. That may be the most dangerous thing involved w deep throating and It's just not worth the risk. Also, not all girls throats are designed the same. You may not physically be able to deep throat. If you find it difficult then you probably shouldn't try to force it. Remember, this is your body. Don't let a guy do something to it that could potentially cause you serious harm or, at the very least, simple discomfort just because you want to please him. And if' he's insistent on it then he's probably not the guy you want to impress. Sex should be fun and mutually enjoyable. If he's having fun and you're not then maybe you shouldn't be doing it. ~ Trabue Gentry .
I’ve seen a few posts going around with advice on how to persuade a guy to use a condom if he doesn’t want to, or saying things like “if the choice is a condom or no sex, he’ll pick the sex”. Well, I’m here to tell you all that if a guy is that indifferent towards your physical safety and comfort, you should absolutely not have sex with him at all. I’m tired of always being asked to cajole and wheedle men into treating women decently. I don’t want advice that tells me that if I don’t want to have sex with a guy, I should try to bargain him down to a less invasive sex act. I don’t want advice that tells me I need to find ways to deal with men who don’t care. I want advice that tells me how to say no to these kinds of guys, because no matter how much you beg and negotiate, they’ll still be trash. I should have my boundaries respected.
THINGS NO ONE TELLS YOU ABOUT SEX
in my experience 😭
1.) hickeys HURT LIKE WHY
2.) boys get weird when ur nips aren't hard 😅 once again WHY
3.) if it feels like ur gonna pee but not like a burning type situation keep having fun kido
4.) FOR THE LOVE OF WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE DONT DO IT FROM BACK THE FIRST TIME ( or atleast wait till ur “situated” to try it lol )
5.) if ur not comfortable with what's happening in the moment say OMG MY TUMMY I THINK MY PERIOD IS GONNA START and run to the bathroom. they immediately won't be horny anymore but they get over the ”ew” because although they are stupid most of em have an idea of what a period is and they know it won't last forever lol
That's all for now if anyone even reads this I hope it helps or made you laugh 😭
pls yell at me about having unprotected sex pls i’ve been slacking sm and it doesn’t feel important to me anymore oops
LET ME FUCKING TELL YALL. ABOUT SAFE SEX.
- IF YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH ONE PERSON YOU’RE HAVING SEX WITH ALL THEIR PARTNERS. which doesn’t sound bad bc you know they have good taste (obviously if they’re sleeping with you duh) but if you’re the upgrade what the FUCK were they coming from yk??? “If you play with trash, you’re gonna get dirty.” - Kie’s dad.
- STDs AND STIs ARE FUCKING UNCOMFY. LIKE, ITCHY EVERYWHERE. BURNING CROTCH. IT BURNS TO PEE. PUS. FROM YOUR COCK OR VAGINA. DISGUSTING. SWELLING UGH EW. YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW YOU HAVE STDs FOR UP TO TWO WEEKS. and it’d be kinda mean if you gave someone an STD so please don’t
- LITERALLY IT’S SO EASY TO GET FREE CONDOMS GUYS. TYPE YOUR ZIPCODE INTO THIS WEBSITE AND IT’LL SHOW YOU THE CLOSEST PLACE TO GET FREE CONDOMS NEAR YOU. for guys and gals and nonbinary pals who have vaginas and like others with vaginas, dental dams are also a thing.
- P R E G N A N C Y. THE BIGGEST FUCKING BIRTH CONTROL EVER. CHILDREN ARE LOUD. AND MESSY. AND SO EXPENSIVE. THEY NEED CONSTANT ATTENTION. THEY WONT EAT WHEN YOU WANT THEM TO. YOU’LL CHANGE THOUSANDS OF DIAPERS. YOU’LL HAVE TO GET UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO BRING THEM TO THE HOSPITAL WHEN THEY HAVE A FEVER OF 103 AND THEN PAY FOR THE HOSPITAL BILLS. PREGNANCY IS PAINFUL. CHILDREN ARE ALSO ASSHOLES.
- PULLING OUT DOESNT WORK. PRECUM CAN CONTAINS TRACES OF SEMEN WHICH CAN MAKE ITS WAY INTO THE EGGS.
- PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO ANYONE WITH A PENIS WHO COMPLAINS ABOUT BEING TOO BIG FOR A CONDOM. THEY ARE LIARS. OR HAVE DANGEROUSLY HUMONGOUS DICKS THAT SHOULD REALLY GET IT CHECKED OUT BECAUSE AT THAT RATE IT SHOULD BE IMPOSSIBLE TO WALK. IT’LL BE LIKE A THIRD FUCKING LEG DUDE HONESTLY.
- FOR YALL ON BIRTH CONTROL, MISSING A PILL CAN SET YOU BACK THREE DAYS
- GUYS. PORN IS FREE. PORNHUB IS FREE. XHAMSTER IS FREE. SMUT IS FREE. EVEN YOUTUBE HAS SOME SUGGESTIVE AUDIOS THAT MIGHT RUFFLE YOUR FEATHERS. i mean during quarantine you shouldn’t be fuckin anyway. why not get to know yourself a little better. you’re home all day with nothing to do. why not have some fun.
so, in short... be safe. have fun. do the do. but don’t do it at the cost of your health or the next eighteen years of your life. children never go away. like, ever. just jack off. mutual masturbation. phone sex. zoom sex. skype sex. anyway, big love, guys.
pitaparka, out.
Men quite literally have 0 respect for women as human beings. This is an article about a type of rape, and Shaun thinks it’s a good idea to spread tips on how have unprotected sex without your partner’s permission, in a way that you’re even less likely to face any consequences (you’re already incredibly unlikely to face consequences for rape, esp rape by deceit). Men get mad that women don’t trust them, but it’s proven time and time again we have no reason to.
I have read so much gay fanfiction that now when I've been reading straight stuff my mind keeps being like "why are they making such a big deal about a condom"
Oops