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The thing is, Stella was raised in such a way that her self-worth is entirely dependent on approval from the Ars Goetia.

Being a wife and mother were effectively her jobs, jobs that represented the total value of her life to her.

The marriage was something where both her and Stolas shared relatively minimal responsibilities, and Stolas couldn't even uphold those.

When you couple all of this with Stella being a naturally temperamental person raised in a world where violent and extreme solutions to interpersonal conflict are commonplace, it's honestly impressive she managed to hold out for as long as she did.

Fuck it imma be the one to say it Vivi you can use as many excuses as you want try and justify it as much as you like but it wont change the fact Stolas still cheated !!!

HOLY FUCK!!! I never thought about how awful that would be for her. Poor Stella... :(

I think the root of Stella's more toxic behaviors is that, with the possible exceptions of Andre and Octavia, literally no one has ever valued Stella as an actual person. I'm pretty sure if Octavia ever hugged her and told her she loved her, Stella would just started bawling.

And if Stella really was a fussy kid, it's possible she's so bratty because her parents were so emotionally detached and neglectful that they just gave her whatever she wanted to avoid provoking her temper instead of teaching her to manage it and channel it into something positive.

Fuck it imma be the one to say it Vivi you can use as many excuses as you want try and justify it as much as you like but it wont change the fact Stolas still cheated !!!