The Fact That An Adult Whom I Saw As Progressive And Trustworthy For Once Has Such Toxic And Conservative Beliefs When It Comes To Marriage - Tumblr Posts
1 year ago
Things I want people to know and accept:
Marriage is not for everyone
Children are human beings and not resources to be used
Not all children are biological
Assuming that all the people who don't want to get married are only doing it bc they love their phones is dumb
Romance and sex are not necessary for a happy life
No one has the right to force anyone to marry
Pregnancy and raising children are not easy choices to make and have severe consequences if not taken seriously
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having flashbacks to the time my 11th grade sociology teacher called our generation selfish for not liking marriage
bc we're depleting the future workforce i.e. children just bc we want to 'get married to our phones and social media'
and implied how everyone gets married someday as everyone desires romance and sex
the fact that an adult whom i saw as progressive and trustworthy for once has such toxic and conservative beliefs when it comes to marriage
really hurt me to the point where i thought of myself as selfish for a second
what hurts even more is the fact that she was most likely quite respectful of lgbtq+ people (at least in public)
and her values and beliefs related to society align more with our generation than her own e.g. religion and gender
it felt extremely personal too as she has been my one of my favourite teachers that i actually look up too
atp no one i know is respectful or even tolerant of people who don't like romance or sex. let alone know what aros and aces are
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