Transmasc Positivity - Tumblr Posts
Feminine trans men are men.
"Girly" trans men are men.
Feminine nonbinary people are nonbinary.
"Girly" nonbinary people are nonbinary.
Being feminine or girly does not make you any less of a man
Being feminine or girly does not make you any less nonbinary
Some people might try to tell you otherwise but you know yourself best.
stay strong
love y'all
have a wonderful day
To my fellow transguys and afab-no-longer-"f"s who feel like they can't be hot guys because of big tits remember that Marvus Xoloto is a hot guy with the BIGGEST tits
I agree with this 100% !!!!!
@ transmasc people who like girls
there seems to be a lot of positivity about trans mlm and mlm in general which is really great of course but:
it’s completely okay to like girls
it’s okay to be straight/bi/pan/etc.
it’s okay to want to kiss girls
it’s okay to want to sleep with girls
you aren’t faking your gender to get girls
you aren’t “a lesbian preying on straight girls” or whatever else the cishets are saying these days
it’s okay to still be a part of the lgbt+ community even if you and your girlfriend/significant other look like a chishet couple bc you are still trans
it’s okay to be stealth and allow the assumption of you and your significant other being a cishet couple if that makes you feel safer
it’s okay if the two of you DON’T look like a cishet couple
you will find a great girl (or girls!) who accepts your gender and loves your gender and loves you
you deserve positivity too as your sexuality is valid and is not shameful or inherently wrong in any way
I love u tboys I love u trans men I love u transmasc nb ppl I love u transmascs who can't or don't want to take HRT I love u ass hair I love u hairy arms and legs I love u wispy mustaches and beards I love u fat transmasc bodies I love u "tboy voices" I love u receding hairlines I love u transmascs who pass for cis I love u transmascs who won't ever pass I love u top surgery scars I love u transmasc chests I love u no-op, pre-op, and post-op transmascs I love u transmascs!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To any trans man who needs to hear this: When they say they “hate all men” or want to “kill all men,” you don’t have to just accept that. It’s okay to feel hurt, it’s okay to feel unsafe. It’s okay to recognize that they are either othering your manhood or demonizing you for it, and to call them out for it if you’re in a position to. If they have trauma around men, they can work on that in private instead of expressing harmful sentiments around their marginalized male friends. You deserve love and safety. I love you and I hope I can help you feel safe.
I must say I am resentful of my body sometimes, because my post op chest doesn't look like what I see online. I see people with perfectly flat chests, no side fat, even scars, and I don't have any of that. It makes me think my results were half assed and I feel ashamed of that.
...and then I have to remember that results are different for everyone and everyone looks different. My results are good in their own way, even if they aren't conventionally attractive and I look like I have man boobs at certain angles now. I am a bigger being, I am not a skinny white transmasc so naturally I am not gonna get the same results that everyone seems to prioritize and place on a pedestal, all while erasing results like mine.
every transmasc chest is beautiful, whether you're pre or post op. Whether you end up with results like mine or like what we see online.
Gonna try binding with KT tape for the first time tmrw, any tips?
this is for all the gay trans men: there are gay/bi/pan/queer men who will be attracted to you. there are probably queer men who are attracted to you right now. i know the gay community might feel hostile towards us, but there are those who will see you as a real man and find you attractive. trans AND cis. and those who are kind of in between. you are wonderful, you are beautiful, you are attractive and you're infinitely worthy of love. don't give up on yourself.
TRANS DOG says: bite the hand that doesnt feed you, a starving dog will fight to survive.