; I'm Having An Amazing Day I Js Don't Know What Happened Today At All

; I'm having an amazing day I js don't know what happened today at all

i love liveblogging my descent into madness on a friday afternoon. so how is everyone else doing

; I'm not including xenogenders in this bc I'd be here for years /lhexg /gen, and also not acespec bc bad day so:

; the main arospec micro labels I use are cupioromantic, reciproplatonic ( not feeling and / or reciprocating platonic attraction unless the person in question feels / shows it first ), anovelaean, and romance-favourable, all compiled into usually using arofluix as a broader term !!

; it's kinda like, I have a desire for a platonic relationship, though don't really feel platonic attraction, but only feel that desire when someone else is interested first / crushes ( what's the word for platonic crushes again sob ?? /genq ) only form if said crush wants a platonic relationship first .. I also collect labels and terms because my aro identity is really complicated and I never feel like it's properly described 100% yk ?? Romance-favourable for like, I enjoy acts usually deemed as romantic but don't actually feel said romance lol. And then I'm fluid between the identities and also my aromantic-ness fluctuates in intensity as a basic description !!

; I also use omnilesbian, omnienbylean, and panaesthetic !! Essentially I am attracted to all genders but have a preference for any non-binary / neutral / xenic ppl, and my attraction to women is different from my attraction to men / enby people ( i.e. I like women romantically and sxually / the equivalent to what romantic and sexual attraction would be if I felt it, but I only ( only ) platonically* like men and enbies !! Also my attraction to women js feels very different ig lol ) But also my gender is fluid so that always complicates things lol. And then I feel aesthetic attraction to every gender seemingly without preference so yh !!

; and I also use a lot of gender micro labels but like .. Transmasc, genderfloren ( and xenofluid ) and autigender are the main ones !!

; this has ended up much longer then I thought it'd be but sigh. Excitement to js explain this all, I could probably talk ab it for hours istg it feels like I'm hyperfixated on my queer identity lmao /hj

; *platonically in the sense I want what is described as a platonic relationship w them and feel supposed platonic attraction to them but not actually, and I also struggle to differentiate platonic from romantic and aesthetic due to neurodivergency lol

Greetings queer folks of tumblr! I would like to hear about your microlabels! The most unique ones you have!

It would be most appreciated if you could inform me of them!

Feel free to go into as little or as much detail as you like!

Autism traits that aren't often talked about (part 2)

Unusual posture when standing or sitting

Mimicking facial expressions of others especially from a TV show

Having to process people's words after they said something so you pause for a few moments

Auditory processing issues

Black and white thinking

Having a hard time understanding people's facial expressions

Walking on your tip toes or sitting on your feet/legs

GI issues (IBS, acid reflux, food allergies)

Thinking in pictures

Inventing your own words or language

Unknowingly asking inappropriate questions

Not understanding the space you occupy/running into things

Making lists and schedules for EVERYTHING

Hard time keeping track of time

Good long term memory, recalling details others can't

Not understanding dry humor or sarcasm

Very high or low pain tolerance

; I need a new word for " picky eater " because it's so stupid like what. I'm not picky and I don't need to " try it 10 times !! " or whatever the fuck I js dont want the food. HSYAVSH

; like. How hard of a concept is it to comprehend I'm not " picky " I just don't want the fucking food ?? I shouldn't have to eat it a certain amount of times, or push myself to enjoy it, or explain my reasonings js to be called difficult. Not liking it IS a reason and I'm sick of being labeled as picky and fussy for that.

is this the final day for me?

; me when someone judges / insults how someone communicates ( irl or online ):

; ID: an image of a shaded blue circle with a disappointed face on it, it has pursed frowning lips and lidded eyes staring directly at the camera. :end ID