; Don't You Just Hate It When You're Overstimulated And Everything Is Far Too Bright And Reading Images

; don't you just hate it when you're overstimulated and everything is far too bright and reading images is suddenly like looking at the sun while chewing on grass, and also oh my god you have hair. But also you're stuck in this weird state of doom scrolling but you're also really bored and tired so you have to keep scrolling and overstimulating yourself because yes. /neg

; no ?? Just me ?? K.

; I think something really important that is often overlooked is that when people say " Pronouns don't equal gender " or anything along those lines, this goes for people who are cis as well.

; because I see or hear of so many instances where a cishet person will come out as wanting to use different pronouns then what you'd expect ( i.e. Cis woman wants to use he / him or they / them ) and people are either negative or confused. ESPECIALLY if they want to use neopronouns.

; it irritates me because those same people will be all " use whatever pronouns make you comfortable !! xx " then immediately shame a cis person for wanting to use what pronouns make them comfortable, or they start saying they must be trans or whatever the fuck !! You don't have to be non-binary to use they / them, you don't have to be a man to use he / him and you don't have to be a woman to use she / her. You can be cis and use whatever pronouns make you comfortable.

; so to all the lovely allies ( allys ?? ) who want to use different pronouns but are worried they're not allowed to, sincerely from a very queer person, go ahead !! Wether that's using multiple sets or the " opposite of your gender " or even neo pronouns, go ahead !! You being comfortable is so important. Ignore the people who reject you, or ridicule you or whatever, they're not worth it.

; keep doing what you're doing and being your most authentic self. Gender and all that jazz is a personal journey, and it's your journey, you get to decide what happens. So if using different pronouns is what you want to do, then good on you !! :]

; ( on this topic, if anyone needs help w gender related stuff or pronouns then feel free to either message me or send an ask !! /nf /gen )

Hello please reblog this if you’re okay with people sending you random asks to get to know you better

; they call me a AAAA battery because that's what I also am but in a different flavour: Autism, ADHD, Anxiety and After effects of my ever growing guilt that keeps me up at night. ✨

they call me an AAA battery because I have Autism, ADHD, and Asthma!

; I know assuming someone is queer based on their appearances is bad and promotes stereotypes that are harmful and I'd never genuinely judge someone based on their apperance but ... You ever just see someone and think " if that mf is cishetallo then my gaydar has been destroyed by a target shopping cart of straightness and barbecues because holy friend of mara they're gay. " like is it just me or do some people just ?? Fruit ??

; ID: a rectangular flag with equal-width stripes, colours going in the top-to-bottom order: light purple, blue, soft white, dusty pink, mint green. :ID end

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★◝ ; Attractioflux ( at-trackt-tio-flux )

; derived from " Attractio " meaning Attraction in Latin, and " Flux " meaning to shift or change.

coined by Marz or Tumblr user @thatonegaybrit

on May 26th, 2024

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; Attractioflux ,, is an orientation characterized by a change in attraction that corresponds with changes in one's own gender identity. Unlike other labels such as abrosexual or novosexual, individuals who identify as attractioflux experience shifts in their preferences primarily when their gender identity changes. ( sometimes it just changes without ones gender changing, other times ones gender changes and their orientation doesn't ) This orientation is especially relevant for genderfluid individuals or those with otherwise fluid and/or fluctuating gender identities.

; for example, when an individual feels more masculine, they might be more attracted to men or prefer non-binary individuals, etc. Whereas when they're feeling more feminine, they may feel attraction only to demiboys or even experiencing little to no attraction to anyone .. ! Or they might feel attraction to people regardless of gender when they're feeling more neutral / non-binary in some way ! While some Attractioflux individuals attraction to other genders can still be present despite shifts, there is still always a noticeable change in preference !

; ( or whatever combinations, as it varies person-to-person and change-to-change ... This can also include differences in sexual, romantic and platonic attraction !! )