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Would anyone care what I post? What I wish to say? I'm too afraid to spark outrage into an already tainted beyond saving website with people constantly bitchin about what's right
I need attention, but I hate how asking for help means your an attention whore this days
So, personal thoughts on this. I hate that comment. So much.
Yeah, others have it worse. Does that mean my feelings shouldn’t be there? Turn that around and say “hey, you’re happy? Why? Others have it way better than you.” No one says that. Because it’s ridiculous.
And it’s just as ridiculous in the original form, except people don’t want to deal with bad feelings. They want happy feelings. They want the world to be perfect and shiny. And trust me, so do I. When I’m feeling terrible is when I most want the world to be perfect and shiny, because I need that. But telling me that my feelings aren’t allowed is not helping with that. I know others have it worse. I know others have it better, too.
And I know what I have. I have feelings. And they’re allowed to be there. Whether they’re good, or bad, or anything in-between. Because they’re mine.
Please, don’t believe it when people tell you that “others have it worse” like that means your feelings aren’t allowed to be there. They are. And if you ever need to talk to someone about it, or even just vent, feel free. I want to help.
“Other people have it worse” is really a terrible and possibly insulting response to someone who is venting to you
I don't think people get that issues are issues Issue = I'm too happy Issue = I'm too sad Issue = I'm not happy or sad Issue = I'm happy and sad Issue = I have a plumbing problem Issue = I have a physical problem Issue = I have a mental problem Issue = I don't have a problem Issue = I'm afraid of being abandoned Issue = I hate everyone and it's better off if I'm abandoned Issue = I get angry easily Issue = I don't get angry easily Issue = I can't get angry easily Issue = I love people too much and get attached easily Issue = I'm afraid of loving people because I've been hurt now I push people away and deny attachment an issue is something that bothers someone. anger issues. abandonment issues. it doesn't matter an issue is an issue. EVERYONE has an issue.
🛑BOUNDARIES🛑
Just some things you should keep in mind when talking to me.
Don't assume you can flirt with me, I do have a partner of nearly 12 months now and we would both appreciate things being completely platonic <3
Don't take my kindness as trying to get with you, I may be kind towards you but that does not mean I want a relationship with you.
Don't assume our gender, if you want to talk about us please use our preferred pronouns (it/they)
Please refrain from peer pressuring other anons/commenters/moots
No sexual talk towards me, again I am taken and would prefer not to have to block you! you only get 2 chances to fix your actions before being blocked!
Maybe it's the worst in me that's bringing out the worst in you // I know we can fix these kinks, but the worst in me doesn't want to work on things
This is probably my favorite Julia Michaels song. This song has such an honesty to it, and that emotion comes through in this live version even more than in the recorded version. The quirks in her voice really stand out, and her voice highlights the emotion behind the lyrics perfectly.
R.I.P. The 2976 American people that lost their lives on 9/11 and R.I.P. the 48,644 Afghan and 1,690,903 Iraqi and 35,000 Pakistani people that paid the ultimate price for a crime they did not commit
my mom does this really cool thing where she walks into the room and I instantly feel inadequate and sad
Val, stop emailing Gray about the economy and Dunks, he is at 4-H and is not okay right now. He is going to die
she’s a 10 but she has anxiety and over thinks about everything ,has anger issues, attachment issues, daddy issues, loves being alone but not feeling alone and she’s in her room 24/7
Fuck Me
Fuck me,
I'm so hard,
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Your pussy tastes great,
Fuck me,
Being in your mouth feels amazing,
Fuck me,
Cum from my licks,
Fuck me,
I love your tits,
Fuck me,
You're such a good girl for daddy,
Fuck me,
I'll slide in your pussy,
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Bend over now,
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Thumb in your bum,
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Let's both of us cum,
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...
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You're my world.
It’s not just kids that form surprising bonds with these bundles of wires and circuits. Some people give names to their Roomba vacuum cleaners, says Darling. And soldiers honour their robots with “medals” or hold funerals for them. She cites one particularly striking example of a military robot that was designed to defuse landmines by stepping on them. In a test, the explosions ripped off most of the robot’s legs, and yet the crippled machine continued to limp along. Watching the robot struggle, the colonel in charge called off the test because it was “inhumane”, according to the Washington Post.
Is it OK to torture or murder a robot?
(via maskandmachete)
kinda long rant below
tw for people that are extremely underweight ig. oh! also venting (maybe? not sure what to call this.)
I feel like most people don't understand that being really skinny isn't a good thing. Like yeah people associate skinny people with being fit but still. So many things suck ass because of being severely underweight. Sitting down? That gets painful after a while, yes even if its a comfy chair. Laying down on anything that isn't padded/carpeted? Yeowch, your spine is gonna hurt for a while. ANY cold weather? Fucking shivering, yes even if you have on multiple layers. The weather stuff really sucks because even if it ISN'T cold you still feel like you're freezing in any air conditioned room. Like bro wtf.
And that's just the physical stuff, other people make it so much worse. Constant comments about anything to do with weight/size. You're eating a lot? "Oh good, I know you need it". You're eating too little? "Oh no honey, you need to eat more." You eat a regular amount? "Hey now, we need to fill that plate up, get some meat on your bones!". You wear short sleeves? You'll get a comment about being stick thin, being told to work out, etc. You wear anything revealing any part of your torso? EVERYONE will comment on your extremely visible ribs/spin. God forbid you wear a belt, now your asking for someone to make a comment on how tight it is, or if you got it from the children's section. All your clothes will be ill-fitting, especially if you're above or below average height.
And it's not just the people you expect, either; your parents or aunts or other family members, it's also your teachers, coaches, friends, random people on the street, hell even your fucking dentist. People who claim to be accepting of people not like them? Many of them do it too! And many times it's not even big things like when someone asks you, "Where is all that food going?", it's often people making a comment about your baggy clothes that don't fit, or you having stick arms.
I get that most of the time it's unintentional or not meant to be rude, but it still fucking hurts.
Yes I am desensitized to most of it. Yes it fucking sucks. but guess what? it still fucking hurts.
バケタン2号 アイボリー (baketan)
I can relate
“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.”
—
Franz Kafka
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