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Here’s a quick little first part of YT channels that had helped me be apart of my dream girl journey! Inspo for this is from @dreamgrlarchive
1.SheraSeven
The infamous “sprinkle sprinkle” lady recently but her tips really is tough yet make sense depending on your goal. I like her for her real person and keep in mind she is not a relationship gru but more of a financial advisor to clear things up. Her vids on confidence and how you ARE the prize, I agree with the most.
2. Dear Peachie
This channel is quite popular and for a good reason! It helps with beauty tips to enhance your features and bring the best out of them.it’s like a fairy Godmother on the tip of your finger although their content may seem geared to mainly East Asians, it helps everyone!
3. Wildheart waves
This channel is not so popular but nonetheless it gives gems.This content is focus on trending figures within black pop culture and what we can learn whether good or bad from the situation. She gives a pretty good insight on things that might not be so easily spotted. She’s a bit more dating/marriage based however take what applies and leave the rest out.
4. Free지아
Love her or hate her, she is undeniably an it girl with the rise to mainstream with the hit Korean dating show “singles inferno”. She appear on the show like a femme fatale and self confident in herself. However her page,especially in Q&A’s she helps her fans with confidence,image and overall how to be you and feel happy about it.
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That’s all I have for today but I hope these channel can help!
How to Become an It Girl
“Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.” - Audrey Hepburn
Manners and Body Language! Legs are together, arms close to body, head high. Of course, I can’t forget good posture. No matter your body language, always make sure your posture is good. Manners are just as equally important. A simple, excuse me, please, thank you, pardon me, makes such a big difference!
Signature everything! Signature jewelry, perfume, color, bag, hairstyle, EVERYTHING you can think of. Make your own iconic look. When people see you, they know that you own that look. Everything, about it says ME!
Take care of your health and focus on you! Health is wealth!! Take care of your body, mind, soul, heart, skin, hair, nails, teeth, etc. Focusing on yourself will change your life, I PROMISE. I recommend you watch self development videos/youtubers. Just like, TheWizardLiz, Tam Kaur, Simonesquared, Persephonesmind, etc.
4. Look presentable/make a strong first impression! I will never forget when Song Jia first walked in on the island in Singles Inferno. Her hair was done, nails, outfit looked fresh, makeup was done. Not to mention, she walked in with confidence, a smile, good posture and stayed to herself. She carried herself so well. She greeted everyone with a beautiful smile and graceful bow.
“Happy girls are the prettiest” - Audrey Hepburn
5. Stay true to yourself! Treat yourself with love. If you’re looking for someone to feel your void, fill it yourself. Learn to love everything about you, even your imperfections. Appreciate the little things in life, like dancing in your room alone, your grwms, picking out your outfit, the trees, sky, laying in your bed, living life. Celebrate your life everyday.
Should I do a “How to be an It Girl” pt2 🤭
Let me know!
edit: ITS POSTED DOLLS!!
How to be an It Girl (pt 2)
“I don’t care much about what others think. My life revolves around me and only me.” - Song Jia
Learn the importance of having a private life. One of my favorite pieces of advice I can give is to be private. Never share too much, share little by little. Some of our most popular it girls we still don’t know much about. (Ex: Wonyoung, Marilyn Monroe, Song Jia, etc)
2. Dress nicely and have your own personal style. Dressing nicely 24/7 will change your whole appearance. Make sure your clothes are ironed, clean and colors match. Overall try to make your clothes look neat. Nevertheless, having your own personal style includes your own accessory. That is….your confidence! Therefore find a style that makes you feel confident and good!
3. Expanding your vocabulary! Expanding your vocabulary will not only make sound more efficient but also may help you in the future. Simple words like, wanton, vitriol, pernicious will make a big difference.
4. Proper hygiene care! I swear that proper hygiene care is SOOOO important. I’m gonna be brutally honest, who wants to be next to someone with bad hygiene? I’m genuinely not trying to be rude, just honest. The importance of hygiene is HUGE. Simply brushing your teeth three times a day, showering, exfoliating your skin, oil pulling, putting deodorant on DAILY, changing your underwear DAILY, flossing, etc. Whatever you can do for your hygiene DO IT!
5. Be nice to everyone! This is another HUGE tip, being nice to people. Yes, even your haters/enemies. Do you see your favorite it girls being rude to people, no. Exactly, so always be nice to everyone around you.
Remember, “Never pass a mirror without looking at yourself.” - Paris Hilton! Love you, dolls! 💋
xoxo, Arielleslipgloss🎀
How to Genuinely Enjoy Being Alone!
(none of these photos are mine)
“You can’t be afraid of what people are gonna say, because you’re never going to make everyone happy.” - Selena Gomez
Be nice to yourself! Nobody likes being around someone rude. Therefore, you should be kind to yourself, treat yourself well, compliment yourself, etc. Plus, you can’t enjoy hanging out with yourself if you’re talking badly about yourself!
2. Romanticizing being with yourself! Buy yourself flowers, have a picnic, make a fort, watch a movie, etc. Think of yourself as a main character spending alone time. Maybe your character journals/draws in their bed. Maybe they read outside and enjoy nature! Whatever it is, romanticize your WHOLE life.
3. Stop planning, start acting! You’re gonna have to get out of your comfort zone for this one. Start to do little solo dates WHENEVER! If you have free time, spend it with yourself. A lot of people plan and never do it. So, just start hanging out with yourself at random times without planning. Like right now you could make yourself a little drink and watch a movie. That is if you have time, of course!
4. Go on solo dates!! Solo dates are one of the best things to do for enjoying alone time. You don’t even need to go out anywhere if you don’t want to. Which makes them also super easy to do. All you need to do is pick a fun activity you love and enjoy. Then, make a little setup wherever and lastly enjoy! As for solo dates being AMAZING they really help with lonelinesses. It does take time, but doing something you love with yourself is so beautiful. The whole concept of a solo date is mind blowing and breathtaking. I will always recommend to go on solo dates. They’re life changing, and I say this from experience.
5. Trust, never lie, and take care of yourself! Trusting yourself, never lying to yourself, and taking care of yourself. You see how these three things all include you? Well, you need to commit to these things….for yourself. It’s all for you and your well-being!! Now think about it this way, should you trust, tell the truth, and take care of someone you love? Yes, you should! So, be there for yourself and you will find peace in being alone.
“I’m smart, I’m capable, I’m a fast learner, and resourceful.” - Georgia Miller
I love you sm dolls! Remember to take care of yourself and stay pretty 🎀
xoxo, Arielle 💋
Can you make a guide for Song Jia ??
How to Become Magnetic like Song Jia!!
(none of these pictures are mine)
“It’s hard for me to have a crush on anybody. My standards are as high as Mt. Everest.” - Song Jia
Confidence!! Jia has a lot of confidence. She knows who she is and what she’s worth. She doesn’t see anyone as competition. This is because she knows that the only competition, is herself. Jia is constantly working harder to improve herself. Some ways she takes care of herself are, exercise, skincare, haircare, affirmations, etc. She does self-care with love and care for herself. Which helps her feel good about herself. This just goes to show, that taking time for yourself helps with confidence a lot.
Femininity!! Jia acts in her light feminine energy. She is very soft, feminine, flirty, mysterious, and kind. Her femininity makes her very appealing and magnetic. She moves and talks slow, making her look secure in herself. She is quite private, which makes her mysterious. She knows to stay laid back and let a man be in his masculine energy. Lastly, she always dresses nicely and looks well-groomed. All these qualities are very feminine. It makes her very alluring to people. Making them want to know more about her.
Mystery!! What makes Jia mysterious? Well, Jia is an extremely good listener. She talks less and listens to others more. I’m sure we all can agree that someone who listens well to us is very attractive. We automatically become pulled to them. This is because all humans love attention. We all want to be validated and valued. My point is, a good listener gives us exactly that. They validate us by just listening. All they do is maintain eye contact and listen. Which is insane how powerful those two things can be. Something else about Jia, is that she only reveals a little at a time. Even when she reveals stuff, she still says very little. This makes the person she is interacting with more curious about her. They want to know more and more about her. Yet, she doesn’t let them. Even in interviews, she keeps her answers to a certain amount.
4. Be Your True Self!! All the things I have listed already come naturally to Jia. That is because she worked hard on improving herself. Therefore, also work on making yourself better and better. Especially work hard on confidence because your confidence will radiate. If you have confidence that is strong and radiates, you will instantly be more magnetic. Although, why can being your true and authentic self make you magnetic? Well, because it’s rare to see people being their true selves. It also makes a person feel more comfortable and at ease around you. Almost as if they can trust you, since you seem like you trust them. That’s really magnetic and can make others attracted to you.
5. Don’t Bring Others Down!! Jia was never the type to talk bad about other girls on Singles Inferno. She’d stay out of drama and knew certain stuff wasn’t her business. She also knew that her only competition was herself. Jia always was respectful towards everyone she’d meet. She constantly tries to support others. This is because Jia knows, that bringing down others won’t benefit anyone. There is no purpose in bringing others down. What there is purpose in, is uplifting other people! Therefore, try to uplift others because you will get that positive energy back.
Love you sm dolls!! Remember to keep your standards high and stay pretty 💋🎀
“I’ve done well till now, I can do better in the future!” - Song Jia
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I love being a girl. I love getting up in the morning and drinking my favourite tea in my favourite mug, while I play music in the background and scroll through pinterest. I love sitting on my balcony and breathing the fresh air, while the wind gently hits my face. That's the right moment when my mind is inspired to create new poems, so I grab my notepad and start writing, letting the breeze carry me.
That's why I love being a girl, doing little things that I like and I know they are good for me inspire me to continue with my day to day life.
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