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Definitely recommend watching thewizardliz channel gives she keeps it real and honestly is an icon
Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat
It's about you; you are the main character of your life.
Sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.
People who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last
You are allowed to say, "Nah, that's not good enough."
Stop wasting energy that you can use to become your best version.
Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did.
I can make myself fulfilled, and whatever he gives me is just an extra.
Start now with what you have.
Enough crying, enough being sad, enough saying "tomorrow".
Sometimes you lose people that are not meant to be with the highest version of yourself, and you have to let those people go.
You vs. you, honey.
Some people just don't deserve you. Not mentally, physically or spiritually.
I don't argue with people because most of them are stupid.
People don't really care what happened to you or what you went through. They really care about what you can do for them.
Only here to impress myself.
When a Queen does not like her situation, she plans her exit.
Manifesting is a lifestyle.
The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself.
I started prioritising my own needs and wants; whatever I want goes first. That's it; I do not care anymore.
I could honestly go on forever since Liz has so many great things to say, so let me know in the comments if I should make a part 2! <3
✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩
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Working out is hard. But NOT having your desired body is also hard.
Choose your hard
Studying is hard. But having BAD grades is also hard.
Choose your hard
Do it and do NOT WASTE YOUR POTENTIAL (btw this advice I saw from a girl on instagram, I can't remember who it was but it's really good advice and helped me a lot.) Love ya!🤍
a reminder that it doesn’t have to be a new year to make changes.
this is to starting today, right now, when you see this post.
get up and clean your room, don’t live in a dirty space and expect a clean life.
start a book, nobody wants to talk to someone who is illiterate. (and if you already read, next time you go to the book store before buying that one book you really want to read. add a classic and a nonfiction as well so you can become more knowledgeable)
EXERCISE. no more excuses. no more being lazy. you need to move your body. you can complain about wanting your dream body all you want but you need to put in that work to obtain it, you don’t just wake up with abs babe. get in the gym, you need to be moving your body MINIMUM of 30 minutes to an hour daily. I personally love pilates, dancing, running, and when i’m in the gym i do light weight lifting for my lower half 🎀
You are what you eat. I know that this is the hardest part for a lot of us, i have had a lot of issues overcoming this one the most but it is a must. Even if you’re working out consistently you will not reach your goals without a good diet as well. You need veggies & fruits!!! I am going to try to work on a specialized diet and post about it which will include fasting as well. So, if anyone wants to go on that journey with me go ahead and give me a follow to keep up <3
STUDY. this goes along with the reading but if you’re a college girl like me or even if you’re still in high school what are you doing if you’re just letting those assignments pile up. Get ahead, work harder than your peers. You gain nothing by doing nothing and degrees don’t come easy girl.
God is always first priority. None of the above matter if your mental is wack! Find peace with yourself and become close friends with God. After all, He is the one person we can be sure won’t talk about you behind your back. Read a verse a day at least and make sure you understand what you’re reading, reflect on it after.
excuse me while i manifest & attract this energy/lifestyle 🎀
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wishing a long year of abundance to everyone. may all of our dreams come true and goals be reached.
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♡Intro
🎀Hello dolls! Welcome to my makeover boutique.
♡ In my makeover boutique, I will be helping you turn into the best version of yourself! This boutique will have you walking out as a new fabulous doll!
♡ Here are some facts about me!
🤍I am christian
🤍 I’m a minor
🤍 I am a girlblogger (both Tumblr and on Pinterest)
🤍 I love baking, listening to music, reading, praying, journaling, having self care days, watching 2000s movies/shows, doing my skincare, dancing alone in my room, doing pilates, listening to Jadyn Hailey’s Busy, yet pretty podcast, and The Spill with Vivian Rose, etc.
♡ I hope I can help you transform into the best version of yourself.
Here’s some lip gloss 👛
How to Become an It Girl
“Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.” - Audrey Hepburn
Manners and Body Language! Legs are together, arms close to body, head high. Of course, I can’t forget good posture. No matter your body language, always make sure your posture is good. Manners are just as equally important. A simple, excuse me, please, thank you, pardon me, makes such a big difference!
Signature everything! Signature jewelry, perfume, color, bag, hairstyle, EVERYTHING you can think of. Make your own iconic look. When people see you, they know that you own that look. Everything, about it says ME!
Take care of your health and focus on you! Health is wealth!! Take care of your body, mind, soul, heart, skin, hair, nails, teeth, etc. Focusing on yourself will change your life, I PROMISE. I recommend you watch self development videos/youtubers. Just like, TheWizardLiz, Tam Kaur, Simonesquared, Persephonesmind, etc.
4. Look presentable/make a strong first impression! I will never forget when Song Jia first walked in on the island in Singles Inferno. Her hair was done, nails, outfit looked fresh, makeup was done. Not to mention, she walked in with confidence, a smile, good posture and stayed to herself. She carried herself so well. She greeted everyone with a beautiful smile and graceful bow.
“Happy girls are the prettiest” - Audrey Hepburn
5. Stay true to yourself! Treat yourself with love. If you’re looking for someone to feel your void, fill it yourself. Learn to love everything about you, even your imperfections. Appreciate the little things in life, like dancing in your room alone, your grwms, picking out your outfit, the trees, sky, laying in your bed, living life. Celebrate your life everyday.
Should I do a “How to be an It Girl” pt2 🤭
Let me know!
edit: ITS POSTED DOLLS!!
How to be an It Girl (pt 2)
“I don’t care much about what others think. My life revolves around me and only me.” - Song Jia
Learn the importance of having a private life. One of my favorite pieces of advice I can give is to be private. Never share too much, share little by little. Some of our most popular it girls we still don’t know much about. (Ex: Wonyoung, Marilyn Monroe, Song Jia, etc)
2. Dress nicely and have your own personal style. Dressing nicely 24/7 will change your whole appearance. Make sure your clothes are ironed, clean and colors match. Overall try to make your clothes look neat. Nevertheless, having your own personal style includes your own accessory. That is….your confidence! Therefore find a style that makes you feel confident and good!
3. Expanding your vocabulary! Expanding your vocabulary will not only make sound more efficient but also may help you in the future. Simple words like, wanton, vitriol, pernicious will make a big difference.
4. Proper hygiene care! I swear that proper hygiene care is SOOOO important. I’m gonna be brutally honest, who wants to be next to someone with bad hygiene? I’m genuinely not trying to be rude, just honest. The importance of hygiene is HUGE. Simply brushing your teeth three times a day, showering, exfoliating your skin, oil pulling, putting deodorant on DAILY, changing your underwear DAILY, flossing, etc. Whatever you can do for your hygiene DO IT!
5. Be nice to everyone! This is another HUGE tip, being nice to people. Yes, even your haters/enemies. Do you see your favorite it girls being rude to people, no. Exactly, so always be nice to everyone around you.
Remember, “Never pass a mirror without looking at yourself.” - Paris Hilton! Love you, dolls! 💋
xoxo, Arielleslipgloss🎀
Tips for improving vocabulary and being a good conversationalist?
I dislike that I'm so shy and find it difficult to speak with others, especially if it's about topics I'm not to familiar with.
Thank you 😊
Becoming A Better Conversationalist!
Why do I get this way? Are you shy because you're scared of being judged? Is it because you may be insecure? What is the main problem(s) for being shy when speaking with others? Journal and take time to fully understand your thoughts and feelings. I know journaling sounds cliche, but it truly will help. Once you discover the problem(s) then try to work on it.
2. Everyone is to focused on THEMSELVES! You being afraid of being judged is probably happening to another person in the room too. Nobody cares about that small little mistake you made. Sure, they may think about it for 5 or 10 seconds. After that it’s back to themselves.
3. Understand life is about LEARNING! You had to learn your first steps, first words, your personal style, etc. It is perfectly fine if you don’t know anything about a certain topic. Instead of feeling embarrassed or shy take it as an opportunity to learn about it. Ask the person about it, I’m sure they would love to explain it.
4. Asking questions that the person is passionate about! If you like a certain topic a lot ask them about it. People who are passionate about a topic LOVE to talk about it. I have never met one person who is passionate about a topic and doesn’t start ranting away. This is one of the easiest way to have a conversation.
5. Matching other’s energy! I’m not saying to completely change yourself. On the other hand, matching a little of someone’s energy is helpful to know. Read and observe whoever and then match their energy. Humans LOVE others like them. It also helps the person become a lot more comfortable around you. Leading, to you and the person becoming closer.
I honestly could give more tips and advice so let me know if you guys want a part two 🤭
As for improving and expanding vocabulary, I will post a separate blog for that!
“Their opinions don’t pay your bills” - TheWizardLiz
Pinterest: @arielleslipgloss
Love you dolls!! Also, thank you to whoever asked this I hope I helped 😘🫶
How to Genuinely Enjoy Being Alone!
(none of these photos are mine)
“You can’t be afraid of what people are gonna say, because you’re never going to make everyone happy.” - Selena Gomez
Be nice to yourself! Nobody likes being around someone rude. Therefore, you should be kind to yourself, treat yourself well, compliment yourself, etc. Plus, you can’t enjoy hanging out with yourself if you’re talking badly about yourself!
2. Romanticizing being with yourself! Buy yourself flowers, have a picnic, make a fort, watch a movie, etc. Think of yourself as a main character spending alone time. Maybe your character journals/draws in their bed. Maybe they read outside and enjoy nature! Whatever it is, romanticize your WHOLE life.
3. Stop planning, start acting! You’re gonna have to get out of your comfort zone for this one. Start to do little solo dates WHENEVER! If you have free time, spend it with yourself. A lot of people plan and never do it. So, just start hanging out with yourself at random times without planning. Like right now you could make yourself a little drink and watch a movie. That is if you have time, of course!
4. Go on solo dates!! Solo dates are one of the best things to do for enjoying alone time. You don’t even need to go out anywhere if you don’t want to. Which makes them also super easy to do. All you need to do is pick a fun activity you love and enjoy. Then, make a little setup wherever and lastly enjoy! As for solo dates being AMAZING they really help with lonelinesses. It does take time, but doing something you love with yourself is so beautiful. The whole concept of a solo date is mind blowing and breathtaking. I will always recommend to go on solo dates. They’re life changing, and I say this from experience.
5. Trust, never lie, and take care of yourself! Trusting yourself, never lying to yourself, and taking care of yourself. You see how these three things all include you? Well, you need to commit to these things….for yourself. It’s all for you and your well-being!! Now think about it this way, should you trust, tell the truth, and take care of someone you love? Yes, you should! So, be there for yourself and you will find peace in being alone.
“I’m smart, I’m capable, I’m a fast learner, and resourceful.” - Georgia Miller
I love you sm dolls! Remember to take care of yourself and stay pretty 🎀
xoxo, Arielle 💋
tam kaur quotes ౨ৎ
🌷 it is your responsibility to make sure that your future self isn't regretting how you spend today
🌷 are you really going to let your mood control what your life ends up looking like?? no. so start prioritizing logic over emotion
🌷 you have to stop making decisions based on your current life and instead start pursuing the goals and routines of your ideal self
🌷 if someone is being disrespectful, you don't have to be angry in that situation. and guess what? you don't need to be hurt either. that is a conscious choice
🌷 next time everything gets hard remember it's life preparing you for the life you prayed for
🌷 just because you are going through a bad time right now, doesn't mean you're not gonna get a great ending
🌷 beauty is subjective. no one is better looking than me, they just look different
🌷 your past has no business here, it didn't get you to where you wanted to be so why are you still focusing on it??
🌷 you can decide who you want to be any day. as soon as you wake up you can completely reinvent yourself
🌷 the reason that you are so socially anxious is because of the story that you decide to tell yourself based on the feelings that you are experiencing
🌷 being hated on is a privilege. that person is taking time out of their day to think about you rather than themselves
🌷 the harder your journey is, the stronger you will become
ily, xo🧸
“What I've learned from women who are totally killing it”
Part 1
🐚 The whole ‘be kind cause it's free’ is a lie. To become kind requires compassion for the world. Humans who are kind are the bravest humans to exist. So be kind and let your kindness have no motive.
🐚 Let go of all the past situations and people who aren't serving you anymore. It all happened for a reason, trust the higher power.
🐚 The moment you let go, magic begins. Try it yourself!
🐚 Take your studies seriously and do it with discipline. Knowledge is power.
🐚 Self love is not selfish instead it's the most selfless thing to do.
🐚 Develop a strong relationship with God/Universe.
🐚 Leave the victim mindset right now. It won't lead you anywhere & you'll end up questioning why all the bad things happened to you.
🐚 The moment you actually leave the victim mindset you'll immediately enter your lucky girl era.
🐚 Don't feel shy, guilty, bad, scared to ask for help. Remember help will be given to those who'll ask for it.
🐚 Use silk pillowcase. It is going to be so benefitting for your skin and hair. They'll thank you!
🐚 Read newspaper/news headlines. Be aware about what's happening in the world.
🐚 Being financially independent is a necessity. You don't want to feel guilty for every purchase, do you?
I didn't know that healing journey could be this hard and painful
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I wanna help girlies get confident and happy with themselves, give them motivation and inspiration ♡
I mostly post about study tips and academic motivation, and sometimes about ♡ b s d ♡
I'm also a major Ryuunosuke enthusiast so... yeah~ ♡
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