But Ppl Still Think It's "white Passing Privilege" And Not "white Passing Erasure" Huh*im So Sick Of

but ppl still think it's "white passing privilege" and not "white passing erasure" huh* im so sick of seeing this shit constantly every time ppl like me r brought up i don't consider myself white passing bc i hate the term 4 a bunch of reasons but a big 1 is that it seems 2 just b used against light skin mixed ppl [especially those of us mixed w/ white] 2 try 2 shove us out of the poc community ppl don't want 2 acknowledge that we exist or experience racism but we do, ur problem is that u only c colourism and not other forms of racism like featurism not 2 mention how being mixed w/ white especially can mean dealing w/ racism from within ur own family and then u try 2 go 2 the poc community, ur community that white ppl hav told u countless times 2 stay away from and after finally realising that u do belong and working up the courage 2 go 2 that community u get told that "no, ur 2 white 4 us" and then on top of that when u finally get some form of rep in media it's all "this doesn't add diversity" and "this isn't real poc rep" and once again pitting us against our own community, so sick of this bs *it's not a privilege 2 hav 2 deal w/ a lifetime of being poc enough 2 experience racism but 2 white 2 hav those experiences acknowledged and it's not a privilege 2 b looked down upon by ur own community in the same way and having every1 tell u ur "basically white" while also getting shit 4 having different hair or a different body type which u hav bc ur mixed or getting called mixed specific racial slurs, lowkey "white passing privilege" imo is just the same as "straight passing privilege" it's just used 2 b shitty 2 ppl within our own communities and it's not as much of a privilege as ppl like 2 make it out 2 b

as some1 who's mixed [british and african] i hav my own opinions on this, i don't think the ppl who do this r trying 2 look black is the thing i think they r trying 2 look mixed, or rather what *they* think a mixed person looks like, they r trying 2 look "ambiguous" they r trying 2 get this "mixed look" that they will partake in eugenics and go hav sex w/ a black man in hopes their kid will hav 2, idk tbh i feel like a lot of ppl 4get that mixed specific racism is a thing and so try 2 act like racism that's more directed against ppl who r mixed w/ black is racism only against monoracial black ppl and don't mention mixed ppl at all, even in the poc community sometimes this is a problem, like if i hav 2 c 1 more youtube vid of a monoracial person in america talking abt how "mixed ppl aren't allies" and "mixed ppl r just the same as white ppl" 1] not even acknowledging that not every person is mixed w/ white and 2] demonising those of us who r like we're watered down and not "rly poc" im gonna lose my shit, [not abt the vid linked in the thread, haven't watched bc i already know what blackfishing is just talking abt how every1 is treating this so far like its only racist against monoracial black ppl] idk u guys just seem 2 only acknowledge that mixed ppl can experience racism when it's ppl talking abt the mixed baby fetish and even then most ppl only talk abt it thru the lense of it being bad 4 monoracial black ppl and not 4 yk the mixed baby, u guys just seem 2 stop caring we exist and go from almost acknowledging what we go thru 2 demonising us as soon as we hit puberty, bc that's when u start saying "we're just as bad as white ppl" when we hav 2 deal w/ the fetishisation of our very existence and girls doing fukin mixed face 2 try 2 look like a cut and paste version of us that was fed 2 them by media and then don't believe us when we say we're mixed bc we don't hav that mythical "mixed look" that never exists outside of a white woman trying 2 look like us and then any of us who r 2 "white passing" get called racist by the same white ppl who do this shit just bc we're saying that we're mixed bc we fuking r if u wanna talk abt the racism against monoracial black ppl, great, amazing, pls do that but don't fucking come on here and act like the racism that we as mixed ppl face is only against monoracial ppl, not only is it pushing us 2 the side it just boosts this idea that we don't experience any form of racism when we do and it makes things legit harder 4 us, also i c u guys dragging Arianna [which don't get me wrong i agree] but its also worth mentioning the Kardashians who imo r even worse when it comes 2 this and popularising and normalising this shit, not 2 mention all the ppl on tiktok glueing their eyelids 2 look asian or mixed w/ asian

people wanna be black so bad..

so it turns out i might b grey aro as well as being grey ace? so i guess that makes me grey aroace?

hey so i figured since i hav 46 followers currently and after seeing the strange aeons vid i don't remember but i think i may hav made a post making fun of the rabies pride thing not knowing it's real history, usually i love their vids but idk, kinda sad that that 1 missed the mark, anyway point being i figured i should 1] let my followers know that my thinking on this has obviously evolved now that i know this and 2] hopefully get the word out abt what the real history of rabies pride was, i hope i didn't do 2 much damage w/ my original post abt the situation if i did in fact make such a post [i hav memory loss 4 days so i legit don't know if i did or didn't] mainly im disappointed in myself 4 potentially having done harm to my own community unknowingly, while i don't personally identify w/ rabies i am both autistic and trans and know what it can b like and can understand how a label like rabies could be useful to those who are trying to reclaim how they are treated bc of it

hey could you info of the rabiosexual term on your blog because i couldn't find it and would love to know more about it

here’s some info on the original meaning by the coiner! (quick warning, if you’re on desktop, his theme is eyestrain-y)

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pitting mixed w/ white ppl against their own community

and here we hav a special case of acting like some1 being mixed w/ white and mixed w/ black is "black erasure"

[watched the video and it's not as bad as i was afraid of from the title btw just that the comments r trash and tbh the title is trash] then there's this vid once again video not bad, haven't watched this 1 but it looks like it's trying 2 do good title in here 4 context

the comments on the other hand

think this 1 is trying 2 say that us mixed ppl r racist just 4 saying we experience racism which unfortunately is not uncommon

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fuck this im having a bad day bc of ppl being weird abt me being mixed w/ black and mixed w/ white so im just making this a masterpost of all the kinda bs i deal w/ bc so many ppl don't seem 2 believe me when i say me and others like me go thru this shit, gonna reblog this w/ any new shit i find

apparently they r comparing us 2 coffee now

weird race fetish bs

weird eugenics bs

in case u thought it was only 4 coffee cups

ableds will b shitty abt disabled ppl needing carers but then hire a plumber when they can't fix their plumbing themselves, what happened 2 all that "do it urself" "stop being lazy and take some responsibility" bs "don't go 2 the doctor if u just power thru it and do ur best every day 1 day u'll recover from that bullet wound all on ur own, if u go 2 the doctor u'll just become dependent and u'll b being a leech on society but if u just act like u don't hav a bullet wound and hold urself 2 the same expectations as if u didn't 2 the point where u hate urself 4 even wanting help in the 1st place then 1 day u'll develop deadpool lvl regeneration" like damn bitch at least buy me dinner 1st b4 u fuk me over that much