So It Turns Out I Might B Grey Aro As Well As Being Grey Ace? So I Guess That Makes Me Grey Aroace?

so it turns out i might b grey aro as well as being grey ace? so i guess that makes me grey aroace?

ableds will b shitty abt disabled ppl needing carers but then hire a plumber when they can't fix their plumbing themselves, what happened 2 all that "do it urself" "stop being lazy and take some responsibility" bs "don't go 2 the doctor if u just power thru it and do ur best every day 1 day u'll recover from that bullet wound all on ur own, if u go 2 the doctor u'll just become dependent and u'll b being a leech on society but if u just act like u don't hav a bullet wound and hold urself 2 the same expectations as if u didn't 2 the point where u hate urself 4 even wanting help in the 1st place then 1 day u'll develop deadpool lvl regeneration" like damn bitch at least buy me dinner 1st b4 u fuk me over that much

fuck this im having a bad day bc of ppl being weird abt me being mixed w/ black and mixed w/ white so im just making this a masterpost of all the kinda bs i deal w/ bc so many ppl don't seem 2 believe me when i say me and others like me go thru this shit, gonna reblog this w/ any new shit i find

apparently they r comparing us 2 coffee now

weird race fetish bs

weird eugenics bs

in case u thought it was only 4 coffee cups

mayb society can just fuk off and cry abt it if me being happy as a disabled person upsets them so fkin much

this comic sums up my feelings as a white passing mixed person

like sure ppl look at me and think im white but i think ppl don't realise that that doesn't mean im treated as a white person, i get treated differently as soon as they find out im mixed and not white and i still get comments abt my hair and my body proportions which r different bc im mixed not 2 mention deit culture,

[warning disordered eating, ppl being shitty abt bodies race fetish and mixed baby fetish talk and gatekeeping mention]

i had a problem w/ eating where i wouldn't eat any more than 2 small meals a day and sometimes only 1 small meal a day and sometimes not even that and yet bc of how my fat distribution naturally is i still had my big thighs and ppl called me fat bc of it, not 2 mention the fact that most of the "positivity posts" abt my body type [im kinda a pear shape] is white ppl fetishising it and acting like that somehow makes them better

not 2 mention finding out that 1 of the reasons i exist is bc my dad had a race fetish but whenever monoracial ppl talk abt stuff like that most of the 1s ive seen on youtube still do a 180 2 then talk abt how "mixed ppl aren't our allies" and say we're the same as white ppl, it rly does feel that as soon as we hit puberty they demonise us especially when we start talking abt our own experiences

then there's the fact that the "mixed look" is defined atm by white ppl trying 2 look like us but then that gets labelled as oppression that's only against monoracial ppl

tbh this is y after years of putting up w/ this shit im starting think that the term white passing should b retired bc it's just the same as the term straight passing being used against bisexual ppl, dealing w/ bigotry and then on top of that dealing w/ erasure from ur own community and being told u don't belong there only 4 them 2 then turn around and call u stuck up 4 not interacting w/ them is not a privilege

Credit: @pet_foolery

is there a word for the intersection of ableism and queerphobia?/gen

cus given my own experiences and also how some ppl who r fine w/ other queer ppl will b rly vocal abt hating any labels that nd and mentally ill ppl come up w/ 2 describe their experiences w/ their queerness that is impacted by that e.g. cloudgender [a label 4 ppl who find it difficult 2 pin down specifics of their gender bc of dpdr]

not 2 mention ppl using us being nd or mentally ill as a way of saying that we can't possibly know our own identity a prime example of this being jk rowling attempting 2 use autistic afab trans ppl like myself against the rest of the trans community by saying that we're "being lead astray" and using the fact that we're autistic 2 try 2 make it seem like we don't know who we r