Bpd Culture Is Always Being The "it's Okay I Understand Your Feelings And Why You Acted This Way" Person

bpd culture is always being the "it's okay i understand your feelings and why you acted this way" person but never the one being understood

you ever read a fanfic and just sit back and think…someone wrote something THIS good… and then just….published it on the internet….for free…..

They will never understand the sadness that you can physically feel in your chest

The ugliest thing you can do is bring up someone's past when they’ve changed.

sh looks like ..

cutting

burning

hitting yourself

but it also looks like ..

unsafe sex

drug abuse

alcohol abuse

unsafe driving

starting arguments

accepting abuse

purposely isolating

self deprecation

and more.

I am the biggest gatekeeper. I never tell my favorite bands, artists, or youtubers to people in real life. Like, that's MY escape. That youtuber is MINE. It makes my blood boil to see someone in real life enjoy the same stuff as I do, yet I want friends with the same interests.