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LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.
hey just wanna come on here to make a quick announcement, because i’ve been seeing a lot of bullshit recently this pride month.
I SUPPORT MSPEC AND GOODFAITH IDENTITIES.
I will not, and do not, care to hear any more drama about it. Half these identities have existed for longer than many of us on tumblr have been alive.
Being queer is not about gatekeeping people, telling people they are “wrong” about their identity, or forcing people out of identities that express themselves.
If you’re an anti just stay off my blog- Especially if you’re an asshole about it.
I want to branch off of this to talk; about how many of these are or were rooted or used primarily by intersex people. I adore the vocal support i’ve been seeing for intersex people this month and it needs to continue. I want to say I will love and continue to support my intersex siblings in our community - even while i might be perisex, i’ve known a plethora of people from this spectrum (which i can still learn more about) and you are crucial to our community just as much as transwomen, kinky people, ‘contradictory’ titles, and transsexuals and transvestites.
Legit being an Inclusionist is actually really fun and easy to do. Not giving a fuck about what someone labels themself as or why is fun and easy to do. Letting people express themselves and not harassing them into fitting perfectly cut boxes is fun and easy to do.
Being an Inclusionist is great. It's legit like. I'm here. I'm sitting here. We are both sitting here. We are all just vibing. We are having a good time because none of us give a shit. That's it. That is literally it. Maybe come and quietly sit with us in a metaphorical field and you'll feel better and less full of toxic gatekeepy bigotry.
Here's a mspec lesbian/gay supporter/ally flag made by @IdioticMikeland on twitter/IdioticMikeland#4417 on Discord. We used the het flag for the triangle because we had pretty much no other options.. I say "we" as we brainstormed ideas together, but he was the one to make the actual flag.
In celebration of my first hate reblog(/j), I'll be making another positivity post for the people who don't fit into boxes<3
Y'all are so cool for using the labels that feel right for you. You aren't harming ANYONE by being yourself, so don't force yourself into categories that don't feel right. You aren't being 'homophobic' by identifying as a bi lesbian. You're not invading lesbian spaces, you belong in them. Also, friendly reminder that mspec lesbians have existed long before a lot of us were born! :3
Requirements for being a lesbian:
-Identify as one
That's it.
:33 < realised there isnt any flag for mspec gaybians so i made one !1!!1!
:33 < youcan call it mspec gay and lesbian, mspec gaybian, ectect :3
:33 < designed by me !! ^_^ :33
:33 < happy mspec lesbian visibility week take this silly :3