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sometimes parents can be assholes and it is important that we acknowledge when they're being one or else we'll be gullible and gullible = weakness and I am not weak

you know what rly annoys the cr@p out of me?

when your parent/s are the reason you have an attitude and/or that you have been crying your eyes out for half an hour straight AND THEN THEY FUCKING HAVE THE AUDACITY TO COME INTO YOUR ROOM AND BE LIKE NOTHING FUCKING HAPPENED AND TRY TO TELL A JOKE OR SOME SHIT AND YOUR SIBLING IS NOT FUCKING HELPING AND THEN THEY SAY SOME SHIT LIKE " I HavEn't BeEn vERy haPpy wiTH yOuR BEhAViOr ToDay/ThIs eVening" LIKE WTF AND YOU CANT EVEN SAY ANYTHING BC YOU WILL JS GET IN EVEN DEEPER SH!T!!!!!!!!

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU(K I rly hate my parent's sometime like idgaf if u fucking made and birthed me and gave me a FUCKING ROOF OVER MY HEAD Like it wasn't YOUR fucking choice to have me and doing all the things a GOOD PARENT IS SUPPOST TO DO!?!?!??!?!

fu(k!ing h3ll please someone help me or give me advice to do smth cause i'm fu(k!ng sick of js sitting here and taking it!!!

Okay I wanna make something clear right here and now kiddo:

✨You are not responsible for your parents.✨

If they fight, have problems, can't get along, disagree, play mind games, manipulate each other, or are even just passive aggressive or don't communicate well, whatever it is is not your fault. Don't feel like you have to help or fix them, especially not at the cost of your own mental health and well-being. Don't feel like you have to be there for them to vent at or dump their problems on, especially if they're complaints about each other. You are NOT to blame for their complications.

This goes for anybody in your life of course, but dealing with the need to support the people who are meant to be your support system is something I see all too often.

You were NOT brought into this world to be miserable on other people's behalf. You cannot fix people, they have to work on themselves.

Especially if those people are your parents.

I'd like to take a moment to give a little love to kids who grew up with Passive Aggressive Parents/Guardians

A little love to the kids whose parents dumped their problems they had with each other on you instead of confronting each other.

A little love to the kids who felt they had to be the messenger, mediator, and couple's therapist for their parents because they couldn't communicate with each other.

A little love to kids who had to play guessing games to try and figure out what their parents wanted from them.

A little love to the kids who felt very lucky to be in a household where their parents rarely yelled and fought until they realized that there was always tension hanging in the air of unspoken arguments.

A little love to the kids who felt the weight of the tension on their shoulders and were anxious and stressed and sad because of it.

A little love to the kids who winced every time their parents would smile and laugh while talking about their frustrations instead of being straightforward about their feelings.

A little love to the kids who realized they internalized all these traits and saw how it hurt themselves and the people they had relationships with.

A little love to the kids who are slowly trying to work the passivity out of their system, better their confrontation skills, and communicate better because they've seen what it does to people.

You are strong and I send you my love and support.

Dude my dad laughed when i told him i gyatt a dio cd yesterday💀💀💀

"You and metal"

Wtf is that even supposed to mean even, he literally had a whole ass conversation about metal w me in our car and then deadass said

"I shouldnt be encouraging this"

Im not setting churches on fire calm down homie🙏

hello ! I hope you're have a great day wherever you are in the world :) this is a rough demo of my song "you don't have to lie anymore." it's about feeling like your parents don't want you and that you'll never be enough for them. this is a feeling i've been struggling with over the past few years, particularly being queer and wanting to pursue arts, i often feel like my parents don't support who i am. just wanted to encourage anyone with similar struggles that you ARE loved and you DO have a place in this world. even if you feel like your family doesn't accept you, they probably do and if they really don't, there ARE people out there who will embrace you and become your family :)