Take Care Of Your Mental Health - Tumblr Posts
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Fellow Farmers Checkpoint !!
You've come quite a way, haven't you ? Reminder to take a break, slow down, stop and smell the roses, tulips, summer spangles, fairy roses, blue jazzes. Drink some water, sleep if your energy is low. And Una has cookies, plus ninety energy !! ;w;
The people you consider "family" may not be the people you're related to and that's okay. Being related to someone should never be a thing used against you or held over your head like a threat.
Your real family are the people who look out for you and care about you.
Never associate with someone who is toxic, manipulative, or mean to you, no matter what their DNA is. You are your first priority always. Your mental health is important.
Sometimes the best family we could ever have aren't related to us. And sometimes the most toxic people to our own health are the people who are related to us.
You owe nothing to anybody. Spend your time with people who treat you well.
Aggressive reminder that just because you’re related to someone biologically, does NOT mean that you are obligated to love them
Okay I wanna make something clear right here and now kiddo:
✨You are not responsible for your parents.✨
If they fight, have problems, can't get along, disagree, play mind games, manipulate each other, or are even just passive aggressive or don't communicate well, whatever it is is not your fault. Don't feel like you have to help or fix them, especially not at the cost of your own mental health and well-being. Don't feel like you have to be there for them to vent at or dump their problems on, especially if they're complaints about each other. You are NOT to blame for their complications.
This goes for anybody in your life of course, but dealing with the need to support the people who are meant to be your support system is something I see all too often.
You were NOT brought into this world to be miserable on other people's behalf. You cannot fix people, they have to work on themselves.
Especially if those people are your parents.
Friendly reminder to take advantage of Tumblr Filters!!
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Tw and Cw for phobias and triggers
#tw politics #political
Topics that make you uncomfortable
#MAP friendly, #MAP, #TERF friendly #terf, #radfem
Artists / series you don't wanna hear about
#sui mention, Any Self h*rm or s**cidal ideation
#gore #body horror #eye injury
#tw ed, #pro ana, #thinspo,
#Long post (makes it easier to scroll past)
Depression and negativity
#gifset #gifs (if your device has trouble loading gifs / to save your data)
Seizure warnings, #eyestrain #eye sore
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fanfic writers, here’s a friendly reminder that you are not less of a writer if you haven’t posted anything in years, you are not less of a writer if your works aren’t as popular as other writers’, you are not less of a writer if some trolls left you rude comments (they either just want your attention or are simply intimidated/threatened by your talent), you are not less of a writer if you write short one-shots instead of a 100k novel-length fanfic, you are not less of a writer if you’re not satisfied with your writing (I promise you it’s so much better than you think, you should be proud of yourself), you are not less of a writer if you’re not comfortable posting any of your works at all.
you are always as valid as any other fellow writers out there.
another reminder: fanfic writing is not a competition, and it’s not a job. don’t put so much pressure on yourself. always remember, the point of writing fanfictions is that we get to have fun, escape reality into the world we create in which we can write anything we want.
it stops being a getaway and a safe place the second we treat writing fanfic as a job or a competition. no, you’re not writing for anybody. you’re writing for you. this world you create is just you and your blorbos. have fun. it’s your getaway.