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did shane really go on buzzfeed and tell a story about three men who found each other and realised they worked great together so they left their job to build a new life together? yes. yes he did.
Someday I'll document in detail how some sexualities and gender identities (especifically agender, asexuality, aromanticity, non-binary, demisexuality and things I'd like to also relate like open relationships and polygamy) are directly related to trauma and how exactly the idea of using a colored flag with a different name to identify how the person identifies instead of recommending treatment is something absurdly toxic and insensitive coming from the LGBT community
I'd include trans here too but honestly I feel it's a deeper and different hole
Better being an incel than a cuck, tho. I still desire having a girlfriend but having to gaslight myself into thinking my relationship with her is unique while she has another partner (s)? My ass
I was thinking for a while and I thought that there are more polygamous women than polygamous men since from my pov it's way more common to see a woman with 2-3 guys than a guy with 2-3 women assuming they're the average cuck who doesn't have that much options besides practically having to pay someone aka betabuxxing unless he wants to be the simp from his "relationship" until I thought maybe that's not the full story
Assuming women have incomparably more options than men, I can't really conclude whether women or men are more polygamous
polygamy wins fr
FR!!!
hello! I was just wondering if I could request some poly headcanons with engie and spy?
Yay! Another request! It’s been a while tbh, and I’m starving for something to write
Poly Head cannons w/ Engie and Spy (Romantic)
Note: Reader is Gender Neutral
Engies love language is acts of service and words of affirmation, and Spy’s is gift giving and quality time
They’re actually really sweet to be around
Engie is such a good cook tho ngl, and I like to think that he makes your favourite food when your down
Spy on the other hand will comfort you by inviting you to his smoking room and just letting you rant about whatever you’re upset about
I also think they’d really like to hold your hands, Engie on one side of you and Spy on the other as you walk
In terms of physical affection, besides the hand holding, I think Engie would like giving you kisses on the cheek a lot. It’s cute to him to see you get all shy and smiley about it when he does it
Spy, however, is a full on romantic. I’m talking every kind of affection imaginable; from holding hands to full on make out sessions
When you go on dates, it’s normally somewhere secluded, like a park or a beach
You all like to cuddle together, you often getting sandwiched between them
They’re pretty calm if you ever have to go away for something. Engie will make you a nice dinner for when you get back, and Spy will help as best he can
Hoo boy, this was a great one, and really enjoyed writing it. Getting a lot of TF2 requests tho, wouldn’t mind a Bad Batch one. Just saying
hiya! If your reqs are currently open, would you be willing to do Medic & Spy x ftm reader hcs? Poly would be interesting but separate is sick too!!
Wow, second request in one day! Thanks Anon.
💉🗡️Medic and Spy with a FTM reader poly hcs 🗡️💉
This is a very interesting relationship, tbh
I know this is centred around the reader’s gender, but I’m throwing in some general head cannons in too
Spy’s main love language is gift giving and quality time, and Medics is quality time and physical affection
Pretty supportive of your gender identity, and Medic might offer you top surgery if you’re willing
Spy might have a binder lying around from his disguises if you don’t want the surgery or aren’t ready for it, and he’ll show you how to properly use it
Lots of words of affirmation, always telling you how good you look and reminding you that no one can tell you what your gender is or what it’s supposed to be
Lots of snuggles when body dismorphia is being a bitch, and Spy might offer a massage if its being particularly nasty
This is a very interesting relationship, tbh
I know this is centred around the reader’s gender, but I’m throwing in some general head cannons in too
Spy’s main love language is gift giving and quality time, and Medics is quality time and physical affection
Pretty supportive of your gender identity, and Medic might offer you top surgery if you’re willing
Spy might have a binder lying around from his disguises if you don’t want the surgery or aren’t ready for it, and he’ll show you how to properly use it
Lots of words of affirmation, always telling you how good you look and reminding you that no one can tell you what your gender is or what it’s supposed to be
Lots of snuggles when gender dysphoria is being a bitch, and Spy might offer a massage if its being particularly nasty
”Don’t worry, liebling, we will always love you”
Woo, this one was really fun to write, probably my new favourite. - Axe
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Absolutely random request but
Polly Engi x Heavy x GN reader headcannons?
ohh, these two aren’t very common
Poly Heavy Engie hcs
Omg these two ❤️❤️
Heavy’s love language is physical affection and quality time, and Engies is quality time and acts of service
Their cuddles are something else fr. They literally crush you with their weight, not that you mind
SO much affection you’ll be drowning in it
Yk how I said in my EngieSpy hcs about the hand holding? Yeah, basically the same thing except your hands disappear inside theirs
Engie cooks for you when you’re sad, and Heavy will give you a big bear hug and let you rant about whatever you’re upset about
Whenever you sleep with them you normally end up being suffocated by them, but you’re okay with it (tbh I would too)
FOREHEAD. KISSES.
They’re honestly so sweet. Congrats, you have the perfect relationship
Uuuughh, this was so much fun to write.
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Reblogs are appreciated!
Helloo!! I absolutely adore the poly Engie and Heavy x reader hcs! Would it be possible to request a poly Medic and Heavy x reader hcs post? Thank you so much 💞💕
Eeee, that’s probably my favourite ship
💉🐻Medic and Heavy poly hcs🐻💉
Oh, these two 💜
Heavy’s main love language is quality time and physical affection, and Medics is pretty much the same
Medic loves kissing both of you, and his kisses are normally very sweet and soft
Heavy likes to cuddle with you, keeping you warm while Medic rambles about his experiments
Heavy often kisses you both before going to bed, and Medic often gets shy from it. He likes it but won’t admit it
Lots of snuggles, often sandwiching you or Medic between you, more often than not Medic.
Again, hand holding, and hand kissing
I think Medics doves would like you, and Archamedies likes sitting in your hair
If you’re shorter than both of them, expect a lot of forehead kisses from them
”Leetle Y/N is so cute.” “Thanks Heavy.” “What about me?” “Yes, doktor, you are also cute.”
Augh, I love them so much.
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can you do poly scout/sniper x reader where all three of them are trans? I need to see trans mercs sm.
also if it's not too much to ask for can you do something for just sniper x scout?
Eee, I love seeing trans mercs too
Poly Sniperscout and reader who are all trans
Oh, these two 💕
Your identities are probably how you all got together in the first place
If you’re insecure about yourself and your body, expect to be bombarded with compliments and affection from them, always reassuring you that you’re amazing and you deserve to be loved (bc you do 🩷)
If you haven’t had your top surgery yet, Sniper might teach you how to bind with bandages, which is what he used to do
They understand gender dysphorisa, having dealt with it quite a few times, so they’ll try and help you with it with what they used to do to cope with it
Overall just really sweet together
Sorry this took so long to do, I was distracted with other things, and I’m sorry it’s kind of short, but I was feeling tired when I finished it, but I hope you enjoy!
Just wondering, would any bitties be in a polygamous relationship or would they become uncomfortable. If it’s okay, what would a Dream and Nightmare do if they end up crushing on the same creature? And what if that creature likes them both, like they like them, would they share? Don’t have to answer it.
*The bitties read the ask and blush as all but Killer can’t really look at one another*
Toriel: Yes, all bitties at the shop have the ability to enter polygamous relationships, though the specific dynamics would probably be different from bitty to bitty.
Nightmare: should a nightmare and a dream both have feelings for the same creature they would work this out between said creature in their dreams to keep everything a rather private affair.
*He keeps turning more and more cyan in the face the more he spoke*
if it was discussed properly between the three of them, they might share, and again the extent on how- ahem- ‘tightly knit’ the three of them would be would determine on the comfort of the pair and their shared courting partner.
Toriel: Still please be considerate of them if the pair does not wish for such an arrangement, no matter their reasoning as to why not they should not be forced, but I’m sure everyone already understands that.
It is so easy to preach polygamy for a unmarried woman. Get into polygamy and you will understand how painful it is.
Yeah. It is. True. Being unmarried and talking about polygamy is very easy tbh. But it also gets easier when you're living for the sake of Allah. I cannot explain this to you anon because I don't know what stage you're at. SubhanAllah., I have seen closest examples of polygamy which were truly a disaster...but those multiple marriages were done for the sake of Worldly reasons. With women having zero to no idea of coexistence. And women with no major goals except for living for their husbands and reproduction. With all due respect. On the other hand, I've seen women look for a co-wife for their own husband, women who strive to please Allah, women who are doing a lot for the sake of serving the Deen of Allah.
And I learnt the difference there. A woman, who's life's first priority is Allah subhanhuwata'ala, who's goal is to please Him and not live for all the worldly possessions and to own a human being rather to understand that there are more women than men and if this one to one is followed...how many sisters would remain unmarried who might need marriage for support?!!
Ponder. There might be some bad experience you have had. But, shaykh ul Islam Imam ibn Taimiyyah rahimahuAllah said, "The perfection of Tawheed is found when there remains nothing in the heart except Allah." When we love people for the sake of Allah, they don't become the central dogma of our lives. As they shouldn't. I hope you understand. BarakAllah feeki 🌸
Should we practice polygamy, or is it wrong? Tune in for tomorrow's video to find out more, 'God's Design For Marriage - Polyamorous vs Monogamous.'
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im poly myself so yeah id hope so
Reblog if you think polyamorous people are valid
im poly myself so yeah id hope so
Reblog if you think polyamorous people are valid
Happy Valentine’s Day to both of my gorgeous, amazing, intelligent, lovely partners 💛🩷
In between all the fun and sex, polygamy can be really challenging in a society that teaches monogamy from birth. But once you draw clear boundaries, make sure everyone feels safe and comfortable, and learn how to prioritize all the intersecting relationships, the rewards are well worth the hard work.
Watching not just the relationship, but also the friendship between my partners blossom has been a real joy for me. They’ve made eachother more confident, comforted each-other when they’re feeling down, and built a bond that makes me feel very lucky and very proud to be their man.
I guess what I’m really trying to say is, I love my girls, and seeing my girls love eachother just makes me want to take even better care of them next Valentine’s Day. Glad to have you both in my life 💛🩷
Hey Everyone!
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A little bit about me:
I’m a bisexual polyamorous 25m in a live-in triad with my two gorgeous partners (25nb, 25f). Their blogs are @bubbly-bxby and @bewitchedbaddi3 ! I’m a switch, but this blog is specifically for my dominant side! I’m into BDSM, tease and denial, orgasm control, degradation, breeding, hypno, somno, cnc, corruption, intox, and probably a whole other laundry list of kinks either not covered here or not discovered yet!
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No minors and definitely no fucking MAPS!
Hard limits include ageplay, raceplay, and scat.
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Everybody always talks about all the sexual perks of having a service sub…but getting texts like this in the middle of a long work day are a big part of what makes it so great too 🩷