Selfcare - Tumblr Posts - Page 2
Never ever trust people's words. Trust their actions, vibes and energy. You're not what you say, you're what you do. Your words mean nothing if it is not backed up by actions. You don't tell this world who you are by words, you tell them with your actions. Period.
I don't care what anybody says if you are the type of person who is socially deemed to be pretty or attracts a lot of attention without even trying, you guys need to be very careful with what you share with people because people like you are easily prone to envy and jealously. Most people out there will be hating on you for the way you shine. Mostly they would be looking for ways to sabotage you or hinder your growth. Never ever tell your personal stuffs or your weakness to people even though they're nice to you. Some toxic people just come to you and speak nicely just to gather some tea about your life so that they can later gossip about it or even worse they may use it against you. So starve these nosy people by not giving out any information.
I love pretty women. When I say pretty I mean pretty both in and out. Those women whose heart and character are as pretty as their face. Those women who are loyal, kind and loving and genuinely wish good for others and doesn't see other women as competition. Those women who moves with God and pure intentions no matter what the situation is. If these lines describe you girl I just want to say that you are amazing and you're one of those rare ones.
If you are feeling low or demotivated, just remember that you had people envying you when you're at your rock bottom. Do you even have an idea about how much powerful you should be to trigger such response in people..?
One thing I learnt in my life is not all people will have genuine heart and pure intentions like you. Being kind and nice makes people to take you for granted or make them to walk all over you. Not everybody will reciprocate your kindness and not everybody deserves it. Some times you need to learn how to treat people with rudeness even though it feels like going out of your character because some people really deserve it.
I would rather sit all alone by myself than to sit with those stupid people who literally brings nothing to the table except bullshit and drama. I value my time and energy more than people's company and I can't afford to waste it on some random morons.
The smell of hot coffee and the smell of rain are some of my favourite smells in the world. Individually, they were amazing, but combined ? Utter perfection.
If putting myself first makes me a selfish person, then I will be the most selfish person in the world. I got my priorities straight, you either accept my mindset or get the hell out of my way. I am not here to entertain anybody, I am here to build the life of my dreams. Period.
If you know people's nature you'll definitely know how precious privacy is. It's completely fine to keep some things to yourself. Just because they're your friends or family that doesn't mean you're obligated to tell everything about your life to them. Privacy is the ultimate shield against evil eye and negative energies. Period.
It doens't matter how much of a good person you're from your heart, some people still gonna hate you because you are the reflection of what they wish they could be. You trigger their insecurities by the way you do things in a certain way or the way you outshine people. These people project their insecurities onto you by hating on you, because you do things which they thought they're incapable of and when you do it in a bold way, their ego and self-esteem will get threatened and they hate the way how it made them feel. So people hating on you had nothing to do with you but it has everything to do with their self esteem and self perception they have for themselves.
My toxic trait is I don't mind cutting off people out of my life when they did me wrong. Some people say just forgive and get over it, but definitely I am not the type to do that kind of shit. Once you lost my trust, you lost me forever. Once you did me wrong there is no way you're coming back into my life. For me, my inner peace matters more than your entire existence. Period.
Please, respect yourself!
(Originally I made this for Instagram with the audio of a channel I can't remember, I'm sorry! Video is from https://www.pexels.com/de-de/)
I needed this drag. Let’s change guys and not look back
Self care for a werewolf (anon)
Fuzzy Plushie: $11.66 This is so adorable and would make a great cuddle-buddy.
Moon Journal: $7.00 This is really cool. You get to choose between lined paper, blank paper or blank card stock.
Lotion Bar: $14.99 It’s pricey but it’s really good quality.
Soy Candle: $9.00 It’s by Bubble & Geek, which is pretty popular on Etsy. It “smells like the woods, with patchouli, florals and citrus.”
Body Lotion: $10.70 It’s called Werewolf and it’s a duplicate of an Abercrombie and Fitch scent.
Paperwolf Soap: $8.00 It’s a masculine scent with black pepper, oregano, and of course the woods.
Glitter Slime: $2.97 Black slime with silver glitter! How amazing!
Coloring Book: $6.99 This is really pretty and looks like fun!
Moon Stickers: $5.99 This is awesome! I love stickers so so much and you could use these in a journal.
Create that Thing™ You Want to Make
Hey you. Be kind to yourself. Honestly, that thing you've been wanting to make is worth existing for. Heck, that thing you're making is definitely worth existing. Take that as you will.
There are people creating garbage right now, and they don't care about it. Because either they will polish that garbage to make art that they are proud of later, or they have no self-respect to make something for more than monetary gain or fame.
You care about that thing you are making a whole lot right? That means it will be close to impossible to have it end up shitty. Your creative work is a dog. You care about this little guy. There's no way he's going hungry under your watch. Show dogs might catch your eye and look pretty. But there's show in every dog. And some dog's owners pretend that everything is perfect when they're struggling to take care of the little things, it's just our nature.
I mean all this to say: Hey. If you needed permission to write, draw, script, or create, here it is. As a wise mentor once told me, raise your right hand and swear that you are about to create the biggest piece of shit possible.
Then create it worry free. Then polish it. Then take it apart and replace some bits. Start over. Do better.
I believe the act of creation is a type of self-care. Allow yourself to care for your being, then shit on an open google doc to fix it later.
All you, and your art has to do, is exist.