Truer Words Have Never Been Spoken. This One Right Here Is The Best!

Truer words have never been spoken. This one right here is the best! 💯

“Why should I get my hands dirty to destroy you? When all I had to do is sit down and watch you destroy yourself.”

— “Layers of Me” from Repressed Feelings by anastasiasyah

MESSAGE!!!!🔊🔊💯

Why You Should Always Use Your Best Now Instead of Saving it for Later

🌹 Because you deserve to feel your best every day, not just on occasions.

🌹 Because "later" rarely comes.

🌹 Because you're just wasting your own money if you buy some high-quality makeup or skincare products just for them to expire barely used because you wanted to save them for an occasion.

🌹 Because life is unpredictable. What if a guest drops by unexpectedly and you're eating from a chipped plate or a tupperware container? What if you see your ex, or your crush, or meet the love of your life, or see your boss, or see someone who was mean to you in school, and you're wearing a worn-out hoodie and sweatpants with a hole? Many of us would feel self-conscious if something like that happened, but it can be avoided if you wear nice clothes and use your good china instead of keeping it hidden away for some possible future special event.

🌹 Because what's the point in having beautiful floral china, just for it to gather dust while you eat off of chipped plates and mismatched mugs? What's the point in owning silk blouses and cashmere jumpers, just for them to stay in your closet for months or years while you wear ratty t-shirts and sweatpants? What's the point in buying high quality makeup, just for it to spoil while you wear cheap stuff that's hard to put on and makes your face look cakey? Why own beautiful belongings just for them to never see the light of day?

🌹 Because using your best every day will show that you genuinely live well, instead of coming across as a phony when you meet the Joneses.

🌹 Because it's sad, after someone passes away, to see their fancy china, beautiful clothes, and other treasures in storage, rarely or never used, always waiting for an occasion that never came. If you won't use your best, who will? Life is short.

🌹 Because using your best everyday doesn't have to mean that special occasions will feel less special. Instead of only bringing out the good dinnerware for guests, use it everyday, but make occasions feel different with a spectacular floral arrangement, or with classical music on in the background instead of the TV. Wear your good foundation and mascara everyday, but wear a bolder makeup look for an event.

🌹 Because people's tastes change throughout the years. What if you buy something, keep it for later, and by the time later comes, you don't like it at all anymore?

🌹 Because special occasions still feel special even when you don’t use your best for them.

🌹 Because using beautiful items instead of settling for mediocrity elevates a normal day from feeling mundane to feeling decadent and luxurious.

Wear your good makeup. Wear your chic clothes. Put on your good skincare products. Doodle in your pretty notebooks. Burn your fancy candles. Spray your expensive perfume. Drink the expensive gifted wine. Eat the gourmet chocolates. Live in the now, not the uncertain future. Honour yourself by allowing yourself to use these special treasures.

So on Monday when I took myself to universal studios right after work, I ran into this lady. ISN'T SHE JUST THE PRETTIEST? LOOK AT THAT "ANGELIC PRETTY" DRESS SHE HAS! I low-key wish I was her friend so we could chat ALL things fashion. I don't know if she is a local or was just visiting the park on a vacation. I didn't want to get all in her business. But I LOVE ALL the lolita clothing brands there is. I have 1 Lolita Gothic dress I bought from this girl I follow on Instagram and YouTube. She's from Sweden and her name is "Victoria Lovelace". I need a seamstress to fix it for me. Because I bought it from her before I got pregnant and didn't have the other pieces to wear with it. (Like a blouse,or headband) so I wanted to search online for it. Anyways after I had my son I decided to just go for it. My mom gave me her PERFECT Black blouse with a long layered tail (I obviously would tuck into the dress) and I had found my black fingerless lace gloves with silk lace on the back of the gloves to tie into a bow(think like how shoelaces look in sneakers) and I have all kinds of thigh high stockings already. So I tried it all on just to find out I CANT ZIP UP THE BACK OF THE DRESS! I CANT EVEN WEAR IT! I WAS SO SAD! ITS A GORGEOUS DRESS. ILL HAVE TO POST IT. But seeing this cool ass chick at the theme park Monday is motivating me to find a seamstress to fix my dress faster so I CAN WEAR WHAT I BOUGHT. GEEZ I WISH I could find more like-minded people here in Orlando to hang out with who are not scared to wear Lolita dresses, and we can have tea time and eat sweets, and be superior to everyone else.😁 (Because we conduct ourselves as well dressed respectable women/princesses and not cliche typical average plain Janes, with their behinds out). 😁💯

That's what I like most and respect most about women who dress this way..... They are the women who understand that they don't have to wear tight ass pants, or mini skirts, shirts that are centimeter's away from popping a boob. Women who dress this way are comfortable with who they are, comfortable being in their skin, brave, has courage and plus they look super cool and pretty in these designer dresses. If I had a daughter, I would SOOOOOOOO be okay and onboard with her dressing in Lolita dresses. I don't care which subgenre it is. I'd be ecstatic to see her look like a princess and not a slut. You only receive bad negative males when you show your body off. (and I speak from personal experience with that statement.) Yes I know Lolita brands are expensive, but I don't even care. I would have found a way to get it for my daughter if I had one. But alas I was gifted a son. So in my case I have no problem with dressing him up like a prince/better yet a KING! Men have the best clothes I've seen, ESPECIALLY in the gothic scene. The dressy button up shirts, the coats, the shoes, awww man sometimes I wish I was born a male so I could show off all that cool fashion. 😭💯 But being a woman is fun too, I have fun dressing up. AND BEST PART TOO IS I WORK AT A PLACE WHERE I COULD WEAR LOLITA DRESSES IF I WANTED TOO. I CAN WEAR MY GOTHIC ATTIRE. and I appreciate that so much. If there are any alternatives in Orlando who need a hang out partner to play dress up with. Don't be shy, hit me up and let's be friends. Okay? Okay! (man this post was somewhat long)😁😊🤷🏾‍♀️

ALONE! THATS WHERE.

I seriously seriously miss these days man

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So I went on my 1st REAL date today after 4 years of being a hermit crab and only taking my baby out places. Aaaand I'm not going to lie this dude is shocking me and coming at me at ALL angles with impressivness. However im internally scared and nervous. Like the old saying goes, "if its to good to be true....then it most likely is." And that means to RUN! Then there is the last thing my old neighbor said to me before she died, "it doesn't matter how long you've been together with someone, YOU WILL NEVER REALLY KNOW THAT PERSON." And it hit home with me because this society has gotten so self absorbed/selfish/ and greedy and narcissistic that the person you spend your life with could be withholding old ass skeletons in their closet they will take to their graves and you will have been played and manipulated a d never really loved all that time. Yet they smiled in your face all those years and had no trouble with sexing you though right? So its all those deep around the clock thoughts that made me keep to myself and made me terrified of opening back up to humans. But this new prospect has me deep thinking about actually wanting to be open to a "relationship" plus he's uber attractive. He has dimples even!😣😤😩 lord knows im a sucker for dimples! Whats worse for me is I dont know if he is God sent and actually someone im supposed to open up to and let in, OR if he's demon sent and just another narcissist trying to charm his way into my life to take advantage of me. 🤔😫😖 and not knowing the end result, not being a psychic to see that far into the future drives me crazy.😭😓 all I know is he's THE 1ST MAN that actually made me nervous, he called me out on my sped up heart rate when he asked to hold my hand, AND again when he noticed me trembling. no man Has EVER made me do that before! I'm stunned! What does that even mean? What if he's the one? What if im supposed to open up to him? Oh geez there goes that big fat floating "WHAT IF".