Autism Spectrum Disorder - Tumblr Posts
Exactly. Thank you. πβ€οΈ.
Remember, just because you're autistic, doesn't mean you're dumb!
If I can get Valedictorian in high school, so can you! ππ€

Fake It 'til You Break It π

Diagrams are helpful to me
Today I had a dentist cleaning/checkup and I didnβt cry.
Not that anyone cares, but today I completely emptied out and organized all of my dresser drawers (I have 2 dressers) and my whole closet after procrastinating for years. I found socks in my sock drawer that were from when I was about 5. Iβm kinda proud of myself.
When you finally get the courage to tell someone you have autism and mfs be like βno ur notβ like oh shit mb????
When your tism makes you forget what you're "supposed" to sound like after mimicking an accent and then you become existential about what even is "you".
My boyfriend just woke up, mostly still asleep and told me βdonβt worry, itβs getting betterβ in a heavy, American accent, which is unusual for an Australian man.
βWhy are you American?β I asked, to which I got:
βSorry, itβs getting betterβ in a stereotypical posh English accent.
βWhy are you English?β I asked, amused.
βWhat is he normally?β He managed to ask.
βHe? Youβre not anyone else, youβre you.β
βUgh, meβ was the last thing he said, in a right proper Aussie accent before he fell back into proper sleep.
Hi Atsuha! For the ask game: 1, 21, and 31!
Hm... let's see... comfort as in a kin or that makes me feel all happy and cozy to see?
Or maybe inspirations? Because I have a bunch...
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Okay, second one, I kept a bunch of things from childhood, including mythology books, plushies, LOTS of artistic material, and sketchbook after sketchbook filled with drawings...
Now, music to keep me grounded is harder... I tend to jump up and down and walk/run around a lot while listening anything. Even classical music. I just get too invested on the scenarios popping inside my head.
The autistic experience of being touched by faculty at schools is so horrifying to me because WHY have we normalized being rough with ANY students whatsoever?
I hope my brother and I are alone in this, but the amount of times I had a teacher who would grab my face and force me to "look them in the eye" when they were speaking is abominable.
The amount of times I was having a meltdown and begging not to be touched, hiding under desks and crying, just to have a teacher or noon-aid rip me away from where I was seated by my fragile elementary schooler arms to drag me to the principals office.
The way I lost privileges like school field trips and recess (the ladder of which was desperately needed time to regulate myself). I lost them for having meltdowns and nobody could see how much I was struggling even at six years old.
This doesn't even account for the things that happened at home.
And everybody wonders why so many of us are such timid adults, who are afraid to stick up for ourselves or show emotions. Who are afraid to unmask to any degree and burn ourselves out in attempts to be palatable.
I love you, autistic adults. I love you, autistic kids. You deserve and deserved better.

This is an Autism spectrum Pride Flag. Iβll keep it simple - Iβm high functioning autistic. Acknowledging and learning about it has given me a lot of comfort, so I looked for a symbol that would represent it and connect me to others on the spectrum. I couldnβt find one that satisfied me, so I created my own! Symbolism: Purple is community; Blue is serenity and self-acceptance; White is potential; The white shape is not quite a square, not quite a circle - like us, it doesnβt entirely fit the neurotypical standards, but is just as valid. The flag is symmetrical, so no matter which way you fly it, it will be the right way. Use and share it if you feel it represents you, or you know somene who might feel like that!Β This is my gift to the community. Remember, each one of you is wonderful and unique; and youβre never aloneπ
the autism thing of having to learn to preface every question you ask with Holy Shit I'm Just Curious Please Dont Yell At Me because it turns out a lot of questions seem to Mean Something and people will get mad if you ask them

Me after schoolβ οΈ
iβm picky, but in the way you can hand me something you THINK iβd like because i enjoy so many foods like it, but i actually donβt like the food you gave me.
fudge squares? mmmm yeah i like those gimme more
solid chocolate egg? β¦no
*daydreams about infodumping to people instead of actually doing it*
Dear Med Students,
I am an autistic adult. In light of several terrible doctor's appointments in a row, it's become clear that they teach you all absolutely nothing about autism. Here are some things you need to know.
I am not a child. Do not use your baby voice on an adult, regardless of whether or not they have a developmental disability.
I know when someone's dismissing me. We pick up on nonanswers like "we'll cross that bridge when we get there" very easily, because we depend on concrete answers for peace of mind.
I know what my own sexual orientation is.
I understand more than I can express to you. There is a substantial gap between what I am capable of understanding and what I can get back out of my mouth in a way that makes sense to neurotypical people.
Pain scales mean nothing to me. It's like asking me to count backwards in Sumerian. You are asking me to apply an arbitrary scale to an abstract feeling that I may experience atypically because of my whacked-out sensory system. Ask me questions about what the pain prevents me from doing instead.
My sensory system is different than yours. I cannot tell what is "normal" bodily sensation and what is not. My body interprets many inputs, like loud noises, as pain. On the other hand, I may have almost no sense of where my body is in space at a given moment. If you had to differentiate all that from a symptom of another medical condition, you'd be confused and inarticulate too.
things you shouldn't say to (or about) an autistic person:
you don't know any better
stop pretending like you don't know what I'm saying
how don't you understand? it's so simple
r slur. dont say it period.
stop being so dramatic, it's not that big a deal
stop using your autism as an excuse
*explaining things in a condescending tone like we're children*
smol bean, so precious and innocent
well it's not like they can understand anyway
*talking about us like we're not there*
you're faking for attention
but you're not that autistic
but you're really good at talking!
everyone's a little autistic
stop doing those weird motions! you're drawing attention!
you're a buzzkill
it's so hard to talk to you
oh so you're like a robot! a machine!
nevermind. (you basically admit that we're not worth the extra few seconds it would take to include us.)
*laughing or shrugging us off if we say we don't understand*
don't take things so seriously (especially when we talk about ableism. never say this.)
you're reading too much into it
wow so you're like not even human
oh so like sheldon cooper?
I know a lot about autism. I've watched rain man
but you're not screaming or flapping your hands?
but then how are you talking
oh so you must be really good at math
so are you like really good at chess?
I bet you're really good at playing a lot of instruments
ohmygosh, the good doctor is my favorite show! it's sooo good
sometimes when I'm in a bad mood and I'm tired, I can't tell what people's faces mean, I'm probably a little autistic too haha
you're just a little awkward/it's just social anxiety
you're exaggerating
so can you tell what this face means? *makes some random constipated expression*
you're just quirky!
don't be so sensitive
they're not all the way there...
I thought you'd be ranting or info-dumping about your special interest 24/7
I met an autistic person before but you guys are nothing alike
but you're not a boy?
but you're not white?
I read somewhere on [insert obscure, non-factual blogging website] that you could cure it by lighting incense. (stop trying to shove cures at us. they don't work, and we don't want one anyway.)
that's so tragic
your parents are so strong!
but then how are you making eye contact with me?
so you don't feel any empathy?
are you like a psychopath?
autism moms are superheroes
you're emotionless
so you must be really nerdy and into sci-fi huh
I bet you'll cure cancer! (unless they have explicitly stated their interest in medical research or stem, don't assume that that's where their interest lies)
why are you so anti-social?
have you even tried to make friends?
it's not that loud, I'm not gonna turn it down
don't rely on aids! you'll get there through hard work and determination. aids will only slow you down in the long run
you're insane
you're no fun. you're like a cranky old person
this show has really good autism rep!
what do you mean it's not good representation? I think you're being too harsh and judgmental
but you're actually really nice? I thought autistic people had no filter
no you're not, I would know
that must be so hard for your family
so are you low- or high-functioning?
do you read really fast like reid from criminal minds?
I wish I was autistic
you're really akward
you're bad at conversations and social cues. (thanks, I hadn't noticed.)
no, don't call yourself "autistic"! say "person with autism", because you are more than your disability β€
but you don't look autistic
autistic people, feel free to add more :)
allistic people are encouraged to reblog, but don't clown
for autistic (and suspecting) adults
here are some resources on autism that have helped me since my diagnosis at 25(!!) years old. hope these help (:
General
Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Welcome to the Autistic Community
Thinking Personβs Guide to Autism
Autistic Science Person
What is Autism?
Que es el Autismo? (What is Autism? For Spanish speakers)
Aspergerβs vs Autism
Hans Asperger
Functioning Labels
The Problems with Functioning Labels
I am Joeβs Functioning Label
Why ABA is Harmful to Autistic People
But What About the Good ABA Therapists?
Autism Speaks (why NOT to support them)
Autismβs Race Problem
Autism and the Pathology Paradigm
Psycopathy: Racism and Ableism from the Medical-Industrial Complex
Use of the term βDifferently Abledβ
Autism and Gender
Autistic, Non-Speaking and Intelligent
Sensory
Sensory Processing Disorder (4 part series)
Interoception
Proprioception
How to Reduce Sensory Overload
Shutdowns
Shutdowns (2)
Meltdowns
Study on Senses in Autistic People
Audio Processing Disorder
Pain Sensitivity
Sensory Differences
Sensory Pain
Traits & Co-Ocurring Conditions
Inclusive List of Traits
Traits (2)
Revised Traits, by an Autistic Person
Executive Dysfunction (4 part series)
Body Language
Insomnia
Fatigue
Fatigue (2)
Fatigue (3)
Communication Differences
Anxiety
Autistic Strengths
Echolalia
Alexithymia
Alexithymia (2)
Autistic Talents
βRegressionβ
Prospopagnosia
Catastrophizing
Dissociation
Double Standard of Empathy
The Empathy Conundrum
The Benefit of Special Interests
Special Interests
Eye Contact
In Defense of Stimming
More in Defense of Stimming
Scripting
Professional/Self-Diagnosis
Quizzes
More Quizzes
Self-Diagnosis and the Issues with Formal Diagnosis
Issues in Accuracy and Speed of Formal Diagnosis
Difficulties Getting an Adult Diagnosis
Diagnosis in Adults
Adult Diagnosis (Pros and Cons, etc)
Getting a Diagnosis as an Adult
How to Start Pursuing an Diagnosis
The Evaluation Process
Misdiagnosis (pls ignore the unnecessary gendering)
An Article on Late Diagnosis
βActing More Autisticβ After Diagnosis
Adults Need an Easier Path to Diagnosis
Racial Disparities in Diagnosis and Treatment
Structural Racism and Autism