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So... recently I had to put my dog down... he bit 4 other people, mostly friends and family, not enough to draw blood, but even still. This was all after he had been returned to me from the board and trainer Paw Paws Dog Training facility. They beat him until his left eye was completely overshadowed by blood, he was blind in that same eye, he was emaciated, losing fur, was head shy then but wasn't when we gave him to that facility for training we spent 2k on. Well, he was no longer the same dog, he was not trained... he already knew the subject material he was tested on before he was surrendered for training purposes. His barking issue worsened and he became a codependent separation anxious dog. I fostered him lovingly for 3 more years, keeping him away from people so he couldn't bite. On 07/02/24... during my morning feeding for him, and after all of the old beatings he'd received had caught up to him, he was likely in pain and fearful again because he displaysed fear aggression in several ways for several reasons, and when I reached to put the food down, he attacked me and bit my hand severely enough that I needed medical attention. He has since been euthanized due to that and several other reasons... but I bottle fed him, treated him for parasites, fixed his baby puppy body when I rescued him from that puppy mill... I loved him so much. He was my baby. My little bug. My pupper... and I had to euthanize him because the trainers literally broke my dog to pieces and I was not strong enough to put them back together or wise or versed or intelligent enough to help him... now I'm left with memento of his presence in my life and it is killing me... I miss my pup.

Sensitive people should be treasured. They love deeply and think deeply about life. They are loyal, honest and true. The simple things often mean the most to them. They don’t need to change or harden. Their purity makes them who they are.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

Love yourself enough to take the actions required for your happiness … enough to cut yourself loose from the drama-filled past … enough to set a high standard for relationships …enough to feed your mind and body in a healthy manner … enough to forgive yourself … enough to move on.

Steve Maraboli (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

I am glad that they have decided to go to couples counseling. Also, I love how the main character is extremely emotionally intelligent and responsible considering her chat with Jungkook. I mean this as the highest compliment, she is such an adult.

Better Man.

~~~~~~~~~~~~`Just to see you smile, I’d do anything. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Taehyung x Oc

Rated 18 +

Post Divorce, Getting Back Together, Second chances, Angst.

Chapter 1    Chapter 2   Chapter 3   Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Do you ever truly know what someone is feeling?

You could spend decades , breathing the same air, hands held , your fingers brushing ….connected physically and even mentally but a person’s emotions, they’re hidden away. 

You only ever know what they’re willing to show .

Keep reading

Everybody has a secret world inside of them. I mean everybody. All of the people in the whole world, I mean everybody — no matter how dull and boring they are on the outside. Inside them they’ve all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds.

Neil Gaiman

Just had 5 French men tell me there is no way that I am as old as I am. I shouldn’t be allowed to be more than 24 with my energy, beauty, and kindness. 💜💜💜💜

Yay congratulations!!

Well today I got approved to begin a fully funded course, studying Counselling Skills, and a friend of mine has already said that once I've qualified she'd happily interview me for a remote-working position at her charity that works with struggling LGBTQ+ teens and young adults who've been estranged from their families.

And I never would've done any of this without all of you.

Life sometimes unfolds in strange and unexpected directions, and not long ago I thought my life was as good as over. I was too physically unwell to continue being an early years teacher (it's a much more physical job than people realise), my career of 15 years was at a sudden and bitter end, and my life seemed to have no meaning, just an endless stretch of medical rubbish interspersed with pain, and waiting.

Then I started handing out mama hugs on Tumblr during Pride Month. Then, the occasional ask from an anxious teen turned into several a week... then Neil left the fandom and I started getting half a dozen asks a day. And it's been as wonderful as it has been terrifying, hoping I'm helping but worrying I'm not doing enough, knowing I'm not remotely qualified to help but just here to hand out empathy and support when needed.

Now it looks like I'll be turning this random chain of events into a career, and once again I have this wonderful fandom to thank.

It feels exciting to be starting over at the grand old age of 39, chasing a new dream, one I feel passionate about, one I feel I could really be good at with the right support and structure. Because it's never too late to choose a different path, to find a new dream, to feel a new spark ignite.

Thank you to every person who fell into my inbox, you have shone the light for me in my times of darkness, and now I can see the way forward.

I love you all so much 🥹💙🫂🥲

❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🩷

as someone who's becoming a therapist, i can tell you decisively that the "tell me about your mother" trope is utter bullshit.

about me

Bisexual

Sexpert

Counselor

From

Connecticut

My mission

To make a page for people's insecurities,stories,kinks, questions,etc and I'll give advice and comfort.

This is a place for openness and rawness (in more ways than one

Want to talk about sexuality? I'm here! A marginalized person angry at the world? I'm here! Want somewhere to anonymously dump stories and have a human journal? I'm here!

Please be respectful and kind when approaching this account and what it is about.

Please ask for anything before sending.

So welcome I'm happy to have you!

tell me your favorite accounts on here for 💦after hours💦

(in other words send me p0rn)

fun fact,you don't get to decide how old someone should feel/is to dictate whether they should start performing as a woman or man in society to benefit you!

there is a difference between your perceived wrong and actual wrongs.

Thinking that actions you do and have been done onto are wrong and shouldn't be talked about is a perceived wrong because you're letting your shame dictate your ability to express yourself.

An actual wrong is thinking because I'm very open and nonjudgmental to your perceived wrong is and should be paralleled with dumbing your worse onto me. Ie; being uncooperative, arguing with my every answer and or because rude because you think I'm a faceless entity you get to abuse as a form of therapy for yourself.

This isn't just an exchange for you it is for me as well so when you are asking for help remember that even if you see yourself as lowly as you do,you still have an obligation as a human being to approach situations with gentleness and co-operative behavior to me.

Counseling is not about being a being a victim. It is about breaking the victim mindset.

Tips for Getting more out of Life

1. Stop resisting change and see it as a constant in life.

2. Learn to enjoy, and value, solitude.

3. Never forget that friendship is a gift, not a possession.

4. Things are rarely as bad as they seem at first.

5. Do your most important tasks first thing in the morning.

6. Smiling seems to help with most things!

7. Schedule margin into your life – as something unexpected will often change your plans.

8. QTIP: quit taking it personally.

9. Define what’s necessary; say no to the rest.

10. Take a deep breath and wait before responding. Don’t react, and say something you’ll regret.