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You can just Be, cyarese
Quick reminder that you don't need a solid sexuality! You can just be in love! Or not be in love! Or have a gender! Labels are a choice, not a requirement. All you need to do is be someone you like being! If labels help with that, great! But they are not required. You don't owe it to anyone, so don't feel pressured to choose labels if they aren't your thing!
come out of the closet its safe
I just got fucking stuck in the janitors closet again
hydra stop being weird challenge (IMPOSSIBLE) (ALMOST DIED) (HE PERFORMED SURGERY????) (NOT CLICKBAIT)
the sense of knowing that you're in a big transitional stage of your life. such a surreal feeling. exciting and terrifying and grief-filled and joyous all at once.
a note to self + a reminder for those who need to hear it 🩵
Btw, if you have not had tragedy dropped on you before, grief does fuck you up in unexpected and physical ways. If you can’t sleep or sleep more than expected or have more or reduced appetite, or energy goes weird— your brain just had a bunch of emotions dropped on it and sometimes it reacts by hitting every button in your brain. It will pass. Just try to not get too frustrated with yourself.
It’s also fine if you feel normal. Grief literally hits everybody differently, and some people are made to be able to to keep the farm going the day after a death, and some of us turn into sleepless gargoyles and get really into trying to help, and some of us are just unspeakably sad. Grief is weird. Be kind to yourself.
I think some of the criticisms of Bridgerton come down to nostalgia as the the series progresses because too many people have forgotten we had an episode of S1 that revolved around Daphne not being able to properly choose a winning pig.
Every season has at least one “pig plot”, it’s inevitable.
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i think it is important to recognize the ways in which your favorite thing sucks. i think it keeps u normal
and very, very often, self care is not plants and ice rollers and fluffy blankets of peace.
it’s standing over your kitchen sink and crying while doing the dishes because you just want to go back to bed but the dishes need done. and you don’t know why you’re crying but you're trusting you need it. and you aren’t listening to the music that pulls you into a spiral; you’re listening to some cheerful shit your friend sent you. it’s getting up and staring at your fridge and closing your eyes and then cooking yourself food even though you hate it and it’s miserable. because you know that you’d cook for your friend, and you are trying to befriend yourself. it’s dragging yourself into the shower because you know you’ll feel better afterwards. it’s doing mundane tasks with patience, cursing under your breath, trying desperately to give yourself grace. grace is the beginning of care. care is the beginning of love.
we think it’s supposed to be peace and yet the most powerful self care moments are when we hate everything but especially ourselves. and life does not feel worth the loving. to look into that pain and yet choose to care for yourself in however many pieces you are — that is care. love. grace. trust. belief. it hurts because it’s love where there was no love before. it heals because it believes there will be love, one day, soon.
; hello hello !! A friendly reminder to be supportive of your siblings and your friends and your strangers when they want to try new " gender non conforming " things.
; because did my little brother want to buy a dress three days ago, and did I have to push my mum to let go off the weird ideas in her head so her son could be happy ?? Just a little yeah, but she eventually let him get it. I haven't seen him smile so big in forever.
; and did just now, he come into my room very quietly asking " what do girls normally wear ? " and after more talking it turned out it was an indirect way to ask to try on my makeup, yes that did happen and I'll be helping him w that tmr. He looked overjoyed when I agreed. I'll also be repainting his nails since only the best for him !!
; does my mother still not like him asking for and / or wearing " girls clothes " ?? Yes, and I'm working on it. And have we argued about it before ?? Yes. But he still smiles so fucking big whenever I persuade her to let him get the things he wants, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
When will Gen Z stop feeling threatened by ftms for identifying with the lesbian community, calling themselves lesbians, calling themselves male lesbians, ftm lesbians, lesboys, etc. Go to a lesbian bar please.
Gender and sexuality is weird. Telling ftm lesbians to "identify as nonbinary" is weird. Some people just aren't nonbinary, they're ftm and lesbians. Who are you to tell someone how they experience their gender and sexuality?
Lots of people make the argument that "identifying as contradictory labels invalidates everyone." Other people's identities are not invalidating your own. Your validation doesn't depend on how other people who don't know you exist. There is no wrong way to identify or express your gender.
CRAZY that i watched Luca and got very sad over this lost friendship and then last night had ad ream about this friend and in it, she was SO lame and annoying. my own subconscious brain was telling me to get a fucking grip and reminded me that she kinda sucked lol
i hate when an old friend and i used to have a movie (luca) where we were exactly like the main characters, and it was one of my favourite movies, but now we don’t talk, and i can’t watch it without thinking about her :(
Okay, hot take? Bisexual and pansexual are functionally synonyms, and the decision to ID as one or the other comes down to personal preference and interpretation, and any attempt to further separate the two is driving a wedge between two communities that should have nothing but love and solidarity for one another.
We have more in common than not, and the words for our respective identities should not be pitted against each other.
fanfiction writers are litterally like “hey guys what i just wrote is very foul and self indulgent and litterally heinous” and litterally list out all the tw’s and tags and the comments will still be like omg this is so disgusting
BABES DID U READ THE TAGS
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