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I'm assuming that you are a really good person and that sometimes life gets hard and still you get through it, I'm assuming you are a very strong person and it makes me want to try hard even when life sucks, sorry if it didn't make sense
I really try to be a good person and life definitely gets hard, but I’m not that strong. Lol I’m emotionally unstable 98.7% of the time. Thank you though!
Send me assumptions!
you seem real petty, and you hide how insecure you are behind poetry to try and make you seem deeper than you really are
Oh, I’m uber petty, beyond insecure, and fairly profound. 😊
Thanks babe.
Send me assumptions!
I assume you are a kind, caring, fun person. The kind of person worth hanging out with ❤️
Aww! Thank you so much! I try to be nice to everyone (unless anyone comes at me first, haha). You’re so sweet! 😘
Send me assumptions!
The problem of the uncomfortable!
The problem of the uncomfortable, is not the goal, it is the journey. Even in project management, there is a lot of energy put towards identifying risks and mitigating them. Another metaphor for this same journey is a Dungeons and Dragons quest.
The Man Kind Project looks at the uncomfortable through many processes, but one identified in the article is "Stretches". Stretches, or SMART Goals, are the steps in the project plan to walking the journey and achieve the goal.
Specific Measurable Attainable Realistic Time Bound
While these steps, ask you to look at the best case scenario outcome, we often forget to examine the worst case scenario outcomes, that most project managers look at on a daily basis.
Dependencies Risks Issues Assumptions Unknowns
For many people, the only worst case scenario they consider is, "Being hit by a train!" They never consider that they might be hit by a body part of someone else's worst case scenario. Or even worse, someone's best case scenario being to push someone into their worst case scenario. (- Sorry, it's a little gruesome for role playing effect! -)
"No strategy survives contact with the enemy.", Helmuth von Moltke the Elder. It is only in recognizing patterns that we find the path of least resistance to the goal. Many Jujitsu students study how to navigate their partners counters to eventually submit them. Chess students also study chess patterns to build strategies.
Like Jujitsu students, members of the Man Kind Project, study processes that help men explore their worst case scenarios. Processes for looking at risks. Holding men accountable to agreements. Ways to cleanly express upset and wants, while acknowledging why those things are important. Seeing judgement and beliefs for what they are .. walls. Understanding that sometimes we have to give up something to get something. and more ...
A process I use and can share from Directed Dreaming, is this: What is the issue? What is causing the issue? What are solutions for this issue? How do I feel about this issue? What do I do when this issue comes up? Can I live with this issue? What am I getting now with things unchanged? What would I get if things changed? What would I have to give up if things changed? What do I want?
The Journey. Not the goal is where the uncomfortable lies. Crossing the mountain through mud and snow. Over treacherous bridges and glide lines. Climbing sheer faces with 1000 foot drops, or being chased by a bear. These are all possibilities on a journey through a mountain pass. Until you meet a troll under a bridge. Or come a cross a home that smells of candied cakes. Or maybe a something else from the Grimm Fairy Tales.
Face your fears and you will conquer the world.
Contrary to his boyfriend’s shallow assumptions, life was not a game for Chris. Obviously, he took his coconuts very seriously and failed to find humor in anything Brad said as to the situation.
Chris then raised the straw to his lips for a swig. “Mmmmm. Mmmmm. Mmmmm. Straight up. This is some good coconut milk.”
Chris finished savoring the first sip. “Seriously Brad, you’ve got to try this. I’ve see your eyes grow on the coconuts bro!”
Brad froze not knowing how to respond.
Please play, I’m really curious! 😄 I’ll start by saying if you assume I’m too scary to talk to, the answer is “Nope”! 😊
Send Me Your Assumptions About Me And I’ll Respond With “Correct,” “Nope” or “Kinda”
my assumption is that u r a virgin
wow, do I give off virgin vibes? I am, in fact, now wait for it-
not a virgin!
do you think moving to a major city would make you feel like a main character? because it really hasn’t for me, and now i’ve been in a really bad depressive slump for the past week and a half. once again, assuming shit only makes an ass out of yourself. anyways thank you and good bye for now ✌🏼
Helluva Boss Characters I Didn't Think I'd Like But Are Now My Children:
- Stolas: At first, I thought he was going to just be risque comic relief but, as he's developed, I'm really rooting for him and Blitz to end up together. He's an amazing dad and clearly genuinely cares about Blitz. Overall, my favorite character so far.
- Fizzarolli: I'll be honest, I was extremely against his character at first because I'm not a fan of clowns or robots but now I love his humor, backstory, and relationship with the other characters. One of the few clowns I would give head pats to.
- Asmodeus: I owe the BIGGEST apology to Ozzie because I lumped him in with Valentino at first. Just gave me the same vibes at first, unfortunately. Now, I would commit murder for the giant cuddly man. 10/10. Good boyfriend who didn't deserve me being a dick about his existence.
- Queen Bee: I don't know what about her made me think she would be a bitch but I thought she was gonna bully Loona. I love her now and would love some hellhound cuddles from this sweet lady.