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Hey Yall-

I have been thinking about my asexual identity recently. I've never really identified with the word, or even any microlabels within it. I've always just said ace due to the complexity of my emotions. I've always just said,

"I'm ace until I'm not (but only for my bf, otherwise I'm just ace)".

I have not found a single term completely describing how I feel. I've found multiple different ones that describe bits and pieces, but never the whole story. I recently found 2 to add on to my 3rd label to completely describe how I feel, and they are the terms Cupiosexual and Reciprosexual- along with the term Demisexual that I've already sort of identified with.

Since I couldn't find a label, I've decided to make one for myself.

If anyone relates or likes the label/ flag, please let me know. I'd love to share. Also let me know if you come up with any ideas for it, like a better name or flag addition. But I made this for my own peace. Anyways, I introduce a new ace umbrella microlabel-

ROMISEXUAL

([row- mee- sexual] prefix- romi; mix of romance, reciprocate, demi)

-When one only feels sexual attraction when it is reciprocated or initiated by someone they have a deep connection with. A sexual relationship may occur as a result, but is not required.

Color meanings:

Black- Asexuality

Royal Blue- Deep connection or relations

Lavender- reciprocated affection or attraction

White- Sexuality

There's also a version with the cupiosexual symbol, indicating want for a sexual relationship with asexuality or no sexual attraction otherwise:

I am very proud of the colors and meanings and I'm so happy to have something to finally describe me. I hope this can make some others happy too!

🌕

-Michael

☆『 Monomi Cupiosexual ! 』☆

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૮꒰ྀི  ´ ᵕ `꒱აつ━☆‧₊˚ A cupiosexual Monomi-themed flag ! Can be related to the enjoyment of the character, their relatability, aesthetic and more.

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⋆.˚✮ Cupiorose pride kandi 🎧✮˚.⋆

Cupioromantic + Cupiosexual

If you are on the Aro-specturm and the Ace-spectrum, then yes, you can call yourself aroace.

Your sexual orientation does not always need to be your romantic orientation, so Asexual and Demiromantic or Cupiosexual and Aromantic, is just as valid as someone who is Cupiosexual and Cupioromantic or Aegosexual or Aegoromantic.

I HAVE A QUESTION

So, can people who are on both the Aro Spectrum and Ace Spectrum call themselves AroAce?

For example, could someone be Demisexual and Aromantic and still call themselves AroAce?

Or someone who's Asexual and Demiromantic?

Or someone who's Cupiosexual and Cupioromantic?

What about people who are Cupiosexual and Aromantic?

These are only a few examples, but I think you get my point.

I'm Demiromantic and Asexual and I call myself AroAce because 1- It's easier to say and 2- I feel like I can say I'm AroAce.

Let me know because I'm not sure!

Thanks!

-Felix

EDIT: Thank you to everyone who replied! This has been a really big help.

I didn't come out as Aegosexual/romantic for two reasons.

(the bigger part) I didn't know about aegosexuality/romanticism when I came out and

I don't think they fully understand asexuality/aromanticism, and I didn't want to confuse them more with what (in my opinion) is one of the more confusing microlabels

I'm thankful that they did accept me, but still, I don't want to try to explain that I do feel sexual/romantic attraction, but I can't be a part of the relationship in a sexual/romantic way.

Pride baby!!

Shoutout to all the milfs and milf lovers on the asexual spectrum!

~Your favorite aegosexual milf connoisseur

; I haven't seen an explanation quite so good omfg !?? /gen ( I'm a Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks kinda guy, maybe Fruity Pebbles. What about y'all ? /genq /nf

Asexual labels explained using cereal

You are in a kitchen, opening a pantry door. It contains every brand of cereal in existence.

Libido- How hungry you are

Sexual Attraction- How appealing each cereal is to you

Sex-Repulsed- The mere act of eating cereal disturbs you. You flee the kitchen to watch Netflix instead.

Sex-Indifferent- Someone brings you a bowl of cereal. Even though you don’t crave cereal, you decide to eat some anyway. Maybe because you want the person to feel happy you’re eating something they provided you. Maybe you’re just that hungry. Regardless, you’re fine with eating it since it’s already there. If it wasn’t, you wouldn’t care either.

Sex-favorable- Though you don’t particularly crave cereal, the act of eating cereal is enjoyable. So enjoyable, you go through the trouble of picking a brand to eat.

Asexual with low/no libido- You are rarely hungry, and none of the cereal appeals to you.

Asexual with average/high libido- You are often hungry, but none of the cereal appeals to you.

Aegosexual-  Eating cereal sounds fun in theory but not in practice. You certainly have no interest in eating cereal yourself. You’d rather fantasize about other people eating cereal, thankyouverymuch. 

Gray Asexual- You only like Lucky Charms and Apple Jacks. And maybe Fruity Pebbles but you’re not quite sure.

Demisexual- You see a box of Trix. You are familiar with the rabbit on the box, due to the commercials you’ve seen. You always sympathized with the rabbit for never getting any Trix. There are things in life you’ve wanted but have never gotten. You feel a bond with the rabbit. Suddenly that box of Trix looks tasty.

Fraysexual- You see a box of Cocoa Puffs. You have never heard of Cocoa Puffs in your life. But something about it is oh-so-appealing. You pour yourself a bowl. As you start to eat, you catch a commercial for Cocoa Puffs on TV. You now know what the mascot on the box is like. You lose interest in Cocoa Puffs for reasons you cannot explain.

Lithosexual- You notice a box of Fruit Loops. You feel an urge to eat it. Toucan Sam comes to life and asks you to eat them. This makes you uncomfortable, so you leave to watch Netflix with the sex-repulsed ace.

Reciprosexual- You have no interest in any of the cereal. Not even that box of Frosted Flakes. But Tony the Tiger shows up wanting you to eat the Frosted Flakes. Now that he wants you to eat Frosted Flakes, you want to eat Frosted Flakes. 

Cupiosexual- You want to eat cereal, but none of the cereal looks appealing. Maybe if you grab that box of Corn Flakes, it’ll become appealing to you later? It’s happened to other people. You consider grabbing that box of Corn Flakes, just in case.

Orchidsexual- Some of the cereal looks appealing, but you have no interest in eating cereal.

Aceflux- None of the cereal looks good, so you close the pantry. A few days later, you decide to open the pantry again. Now, some of those brands look appetizing. You check the pantry again the next day. None of the cereal looks good anymore.

Quoisexual- You have no idea if you like a cereal because you want to eat it, or if you just think the box art is pretty. Does liking the box art count as wanting to eat it? Do you just like the mascot? Does liking the mascot count as wanting to eat the cereal? After reading everything I’ve written, you are still confused. You bang your head against the pantry in frustration.

Evenen more

✨🏳️‍🌈✨Flag birbs✨🏳️‍🌈✨

Part 1

Part 2

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Part 4

shout out to all the cupiosexual’s, cupioromantics, and oriented aroace’s out there u folk rock

I’m contributing to something called Ace Alastor Week! First prompt is Cake Day, so I drew him with a lot of pride flag cakes to match aspec headcanons given to him! Featuring a jealous Angel Dust cuz it’s his birthday XD

Here's your reminder that:

Acespec people can call themselves asexual

Arospec people can call themselves aromantic

Aroacespec people can call themselves aroace

The words asexual, aromantic, and aroace, do not belong solely to those on one end of the spectrum. Demi, cupio, grey, lith, quoi, and all other aspecs are just as welcome under these words.

I saw a post that claimed only those without any form of romantic or sexual attraction could call themselves "gay/bi/etc. aroace" and that those on the spectrums somewhere have to use something else. Frankly, it's beyond ridiculous and aphobic to say so. Those on the spectrums are just as allowed to use the words that have always been granted to them within the community.

Do not let anyone tell you that the community you're in doesn't belong to you, or that you're less welcome here.

Pusheen jack o lantern! 🎃

Bisexual | Pansexual

Trans | Nonbinary

Queer | Genderqueer

Grayromantic | Cupio

[if you want a specific flag send me an ask/message!]

In honor of asexual awareness week I have made more jars!! All ace identities are valid and deserve to be seen. I love my ace fam 🖤🤍💜

Asexual

Aroace | Gray Ace | Fraysexual

Lithosexual | Reciprosexual | Cupiosexual

Orchidsexual | Aceflux | Quoisexual

Some of the colors aren’t the best, but I did what I could. If anyone has any requests for other ace spec flags in jars for this week, shoot me an ask! My only limits are complexity - I’m truly sorry to my demi siblings. Triangles are too hard.

Happy pride month to all of my religious queer/trans people out there. We’re just as important, just as special, and have many important experiences that the world needs to hear. Don’t let anybody tell you not to shine too <3

As an asexual, any and all kinds of aces are allowed and safe on my blog!

Aroace? Totally fine!

Greyace? Yep, that's great!

Demiace? Cupioace? Aceflux? Any other ace identities? All perfectly valid!!

Reblog if you think asexuality is a legitimate sexuality.

I'm trying to prove something.

Infected from Regretevator (Roblox) is cupiorose

quick reminder that my own gay ass genuinely supports the hell outta each and every one of you. regardless if i know you or not, im happy to be living in this shithole of a life in the same world with you.

and im proud of you, i know in my heart just how beautiful, amazing, talented, smart, and worthy you are and i hope you can see that too🏳️‍🌈🌈

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 9 ]

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