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I created this piece for the first ever International Asexuality Day last year. I still believe in it, and I'm proud that asexuality (and aromanticism) is gradually becoming more recognized.

Society tells us that we need love to be happy. But that is not, and never will be, true. We are not broken.

My asexual sex demon

Thinking about how Kazimier falls under the Asexual spectrum, which is surprising to some since the character has a lot of sex in my story/is a sex demon.

For most of the book, he's not getting intimate because he wants to, necessarily. It's not exactly noncon, either. It's just.. food. Incubi in my world aren't able to consume regular food once they come into their powers, they survive on lust. He's gone through periods of his life cursing his heritage, angry at that persistent hunger, ignoring it in ways that only a neurodivergant can understand (here's your reminder to drink or eat something, dear reader). He'd rather be untouched, untangled, left to his thoughts. But instead of pain in his stomach it's the strain in his pants that tears him away. When he finally feeds he does so ravenously, with indulgence and intensity that would make anyone believe that he revels in being a sexual demon. Once it's over, so is his interest in it, sexual relief bringing a mental relief that he's got several days until he has to entangle himself in someone else's pleasure once more.

I guess I'm saying that sexuality is multifaceted, and there's a lot of nuance to it. Hypersexuality and asexuality can be found in the same person without cheapening the experiences of those who only identify with one or the other or neither. And like, it's as ok to have ace characters have sex and be gritty self-proclaimed sluts (like Kazimier) as it is to write ace characters who never have sex or sexual urges (which I also have in my story).

Eeeeverything is a 3d spectrum, yall.

People who are amazing and valid:

Asexuals

sex repulsed asexuals

sex indifferent asexuals

sex favorable asexuals

cake asexuals

garlic bread asexuals

space asexuals

dragon asexuals

people who wear black rings on their right middle fingers

people whose flags are the colors black, gray, white, and purple

demisexuals

graysexuals

fraysexuals

lithosexuals

aflux people

cupiosexuals

aegosexuals

people on the asexuality spectrum

young aces

old aces

closeted asexuals

open asexuals

alloromantic asexuals

aromantic asexuals

agender asexuals

trans asexuals

cis asexuals

non-binary asexuals

genderfluid asexuals

genderflux asexuals

demigender asexuals

paragender asexuals

ALL ASEXUALS

YOUR SEXUALITY IS REAL AND COMPLETELY VALID!!

Not feeling sexual attraction at all or feeling it less than or experiencing it differently than the societal norm does not make you any less human 🖤🩶🤍💜

Soulmates aren’t inherently romantic.

Soulmates are we’re best friends and being around you feels so right and natural.

Soulmates are you’re my sibling who annoys the heck out of me but I would die and kill for you.

Soulmates are you were meant to be my cat/dog and I was meant to be your human.

Soulmates are I can’t stand to be without you in my life but I know we’ll be ok even if we don’t see each other for a while.

Soulmates are we were made for each other, the pieces of our souls fitting together like Lego pieces, whether it was easy at first or maybe we had to work at it.

We were always meant to find each other, we were made to be in each other’s lives. That could be romantic, platonic, familial, human-pet, or any other relationship.

Blitzø from Helluva Boss is Lithosexual

Astro from Dandy’s World (Roblox) is demisexual cupioromantic and omni-gay

I make sex jokes because sex is a joke to me.

‘Why do you make sex jokes if your asexual? Doenst that mean you want sex’

Bestie I can make jokes about being impaled on a spike medieval torture style, doesn’t mean I want to

Happy ace day y'all

aspecs are A PART of the LGBTQIA+ community. try to argue cunts.

"how to tell if you have a crush"

"what do crushes feel like"

"how to tell if you like someone"

"am i in love"

"do i want to date them"

"do i have a crush"

"am i gay" quiz results: "you're pan! you're attracted to personality rather than body! you feel the same about every gender!"

"is this arousal"

"how to tell if you're aroused"

"am i horny"

"how to tell if you're attracted to someone"

"what does sexual attraction feel like"

"how to tell if someone is attracted to you"

"how to tell if you feel romantic feelings"

"how to tell if you feel sexual feelings"

"do i feel romantic feelings"

"do i feel sexual feelings"

....."define asexual"

....."define aromantic"

To all my Aro/Ace out there you are loved!!!

CIS MALE AROMANTICS/ASEXUALS, YOUR VALID AND KEEP REMEMBERING THAT!!

Would tho Ros be okay with an MC who’s ace/ on the ace spectrum?

Hello, darling, Thank you for ask! To answer your question...

Of course! What you will learn about the ROs is that they have lived a very long life, and romantic connection is all they need. However, there are ROs that have certain wants, sexually, and they will be able to solve those themselves through self-pleasure.

just a dog with complex feelings regarding romanticism and little to no feelings regarding sexuality

Din Djarin is demisexual. And maaaaaaaaaybe biromantic. That Jedi was cute…

My contribution to this year’s Pride Month, showing some extra love to the ace community! Featuring my first and favorite ace character: Travis!

🖤🩶🤍💜

This silly goose is part of my SCP AU! (Which I may introduce one day, we’ll see.) 💚

And before anyone asks, yes this goober is FOOKIN tklish as well and I will make a whole tk headcanon post and all that jazz for him soon✨ ( •̀ω•́ )

Happy Pride, everyone! ╰(*´︶`*)╯♡

May I request some wonderful art from you? Your OC Blanche making some chocolate cake? Asking as an ace myself 🤍

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HWAAAA— OMGOMGOMG FOOKIN YES!!! OC ART LETS GOOOOOO!!! (੭ु˶˭̵̴⃙⃚⃘᷄ᗢ˭̴̵⃙⃚⃘᷅˶)੭ु⁾⁾~💜

Eat up, my fellow aces! ♤

Free Art Requests: CLOSED

If u are aphobe pls get away from me plz and stop following me plz 😇

I don’t have a version for aromantics rn, but anyways LOVE LOSES LETS TAKE #1 TRENDING

My bingo! I even have four rows (⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

I made an acespec bingo!

*Mentioned in the bingo is the term “m-spec” - it stands for “multiple attraction spectrum” and is a spectrum of orientations defined by attraction to multiple genders.

A common aspec (asexual and aromantic spectrum) experience is thinking you’re m-spec before figuring out you are actually aspec.

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Is there a way I can beat the shit out of someone on the internet? I just came across an aphobe-

As a fellow ace I completely agree, like, asexuality is a spectrum. There's sooo many goddamn ways to be ace besides just the far end of the spectrum, and I love seeing other people's interpretations of Jon's asexuality (and in my experience, a lott of the other interpretations are written *by other ace people*, like let us have this character that we can project our varying aceness on to lol)

confession that could probably get me executed by the tma fandom:

as someone on the asexual spectrum (please keep this part in mind), i enjoy seeing all the different interpretations of jon's asexuality, instead of acting like he can only be asexual in one specific way like a lot of this fandom does.

[hiding behind a giant rock trembling in fear]