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Light At The End Of My Tunnel
After years of feeling constrained by the expectations of others, I finally found someone who embraced me for who I truly am. With him, I felt liberated, free to express myself without fear of judgment. His presence was like a warm embrace, enveloping me in a sense of security and acceptance.
In his eyes, I found relief, a calming reassurance that everything would be alright. His voice, like a soothing melody, eased my anxieties and quieted the doubts that had plagued me for so long. And when he held me in his arms, it felt like all my worries melted away, replaced by a profound sense of peace.
With him, I no longer felt the need to hide behind a facade or censor my thoughts. I could speak my mind freely, knowing that he would listen without judgment. He became my confidante, my rock in times of uncertainty.
His presence in my life was like a beacon of light, guiding me through the darkness of my doubts and insecurities. He was the light at the end of my seemingly never-ending tunnel, leading me towards a brighter, more authentic future.
If I Could Turn Back Time…
Driving down the highway, my thoughts were as scattered as the passing scenery. The radio was a comforting background noise until a familiar tune began to play—"If I Could Turn Back Time." I’ve heard this song hundreds, if not thousands, of times, but today it hit differently. The lyrics seeped into my mind, tugging at buried thoughts and regrets.
"If I could turn back time, if I could find a way," Cher sang, and I began to wonder. What if I could turn back time? What if I could rewrite my past, erasing the relationships that left me hurt and disillusioned? I imagined a life untouched by those difficult chapters. Would I be happier, more successful, further along in my journey if I had put myself first?
The thought consumed me. How much better would my life be if I had left those relationships sooner, or better yet, never entered them at all? Each failed relationship felt like a chain that had held me back, preventing me from reaching my full potential. I envisioned a life where I made decisions solely for my own benefit, unburdened by the emotional baggage of my past.
But as the song continued, a new realization began to form. If I hadn't gone through all those experiences, I might never have met you. The thought was both sobering and enlightening. Each painful step of my journey had led me to this moment, to you.
As much as I sometimes wish I could erase you from my past, as much as I wish our paths had never crossed, I can't deny the impact you've had on my understanding of love. Because of you, I now grasp what it means when people say love is something you cannot control. It's a force that defies logic, a feeling that persists despite the pain.
The song faded, and I found myself smiling, a sense of peace settling over me. My journey, with all its twists and turns, had brought me to an invaluable lesson. I may wish I could turn back time, but I wouldn’t trade the wisdom I've gained. And for that, I am grateful.
today, my gratitude is measured by:
i texted a good handful of people in my life a link to the tortilla challenge video saying “let’s do this” and they all replied “yes, absolutely”
may my life always be full of laughs and people who enjoy them.
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In a weird place lately, but a good one. It just feels uncomfortable - kind of like getting a new pair of shoes and waiting for them to fully break in. Or wearing a t-shirt that doesn’t quite fit.
I’m doing really well lately. Ok, honestly I feel like “doing well” has a lot of room for interpretation. But as far as my mind and heart go - I’m doing just fine.
Because I don’t hate myself anymore. And this is everything.
So I’m not exactly where I want to be yet. So what? I am enjoying where I am at.
So people (in my life or not even in my life) don’t exactly approve or understand my life choices. All good - it’s my life, not theirs
I took 5+ grams of shrooms and found myself. Okay that sounds absolutely bonkers when I re-read that but it’s true.
I’ve had some alcohol since that time and I feel completely different drinking. Like I didn’t want to create chaos or hurt the people I love - HELLO WIN! Also, I don’t actually like the way alcohol makes me feel anymore but I acknowledge and recognize when I drink, I am indulging the old me.
Beyond that, I’ve just felt so settled. Whatever happens, I trust in my ability to find a way through. I am the woman in the arena, I am a survivor and I am resilient.
Some of the thought patterns that used to plague me, don’t as much anymore. It’s strange.
I turned 30 and decided now or never.
I think it also goes without saying - but living a life that you enjoy, that brings you peace and security…..wow it changes the game. I try so hard to have sympathy/empathy for those who feel stuck or unhappy.
But if you’re not going to do anything about it, I can’t fucking help you. Because even when shit has been as bad as it has, maybe I wallow sure - BUT I FIND A WAY THROUGH.
What’s crazy to me is this overwhelming sense of gratitude I feel. I feel present in my body.
Okay so still struggling with weed (because like who isn’t, when alcohol is so 1990) but lately I’ll put the damn bong down and eat a meal or take a nap/rest.
A year ago…..I would have died with the bong in my hand.
I haven’t felt as called to write. My thoughts have felt really jumbled and I’ve been really content to just “be” without needing to overanalyze it all.
Ok I always say that I need to get over this concept of “one day everything is going to magically be better”.
But………….everything has become magically better.
I scrolled back to my original posts first out of the hospital and I don’t recognize that woman. I want to hug her and tell her I’m proud of her. That so many people don’t have the courage to look their truth in the face and accept it, but she did. And she continues to.
I want her to know that I believe in her with all my heart. She can do this. She will do this. She will break the cycle and she will achieve the recurring dream of sitting on her deck in the backyard she owns, recounting how she made it through.
She will. And I will. I am!
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Today, I am grateful. I had plans with some new friends and I’ll be honest - I get nervous.
Especially doing it sober? I’ve always counted on alcohol or something to reduce the insecurity. To relax my social barometer.
These days, I usually hide out on the weekends trying to muster myself up to survive the week.
Kind of sad to live life this way but I’ve got a lot going on so this is how it is right now.
So I hung out with these two friends and made myself not drink. And it was not bad. I was nervous and felt a little uncomfortable in my own skin, but I did it.
And what was really special, is I was able to vocalize this feeling ^ and share it safely without fear.
I feel like a baby deer learning how to walk, all awkward and gangly - but kind of cute, right?
Baby steps.
The Art of Feeling Good Within Yourself: Embracing Self-Acceptance and Positive Energy
Shaina Tranquilino
August 18, 2023
We often find ourselves seeking validation from external sources, constantly comparing our lives to others, and striving for an unattainable standard of perfection. However, true happiness lies within ourselves – in learning to feel good about who we are, embracing self-acceptance, and nurturing positive energy.
1. Embrace your uniqueness:
Every individual is unique with their set of strengths, weaknesses, quirks, and talents. Instead of trying to fit into societal molds or conforming to other people's expectations, embrace what makes you different. Celebrate your individuality and recognize that your uniqueness contributes to the rich tapestry of humanity.
2. Practice self-love and acceptance:
To feel good within yourself, it is crucial to cultivate a sense of self-love and acceptance. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion by acknowledging your achievements, forgiving your mistakes, and embracing self-care practices that nourish both your mind and body. Remember that you are deserving of love and respect – including from yourself.
3. Focus on inner growth:
Growth is an essential part of feeling good within oneself. Invest time in personal development through activities such as reading inspiring books, attending workshops or classes related to your interests, or engaging in introspective practices like journaling or meditation. By focusing on inner growth, you expand your knowledge, tap into hidden potentials, and foster a deeper connection with yourself.
4. Surround yourself with positivity:
The company we keep greatly influences our thoughts and emotions. Surrounding yourself with positive-minded individuals who uplift and inspire you can significantly impact how you feel about yourself. Cultivate relationships based on trust, support, and encouragement while distancing yourself from toxic influences that drain your energy or promote negativity.
5. Practice gratitude:
Gratitude is a powerful tool for shifting our mindset and magnifying feelings of contentment within ourselves. Take a moment each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for – both big and small. By appreciating what you have, rather than dwelling on what you lack, you foster a sense of abundance and fulfillment within yourself.
6. Set realistic goals:
Setting realistic goals that align with your values and aspirations can boost your self-confidence and sense of accomplishment. Break down larger objectives into smaller, achievable steps, allowing yourself to track progress along the way. Celebrate every milestone reached, reinforcing your belief in your abilities and fostering positive feelings about yourself.
7. Practice self-care:
Nurturing your physical, emotional, and mental well-being through self-care practices is crucial for feeling good within yourself. Engage in activities that bring you joy, whether it's going for a walk in nature, practicing yoga or meditation, indulging in hobbies or creative outlets, or simply taking time to relax and recharge. Prioritizing self-care sends a message to yourself that your needs matter.
Feeling good within oneself is not an overnight achievement but rather an ongoing journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Embrace who you are, practice self-love, surround yourself with positivity, cultivate gratitude, set achievable goals, and prioritize self-care to nourish your mind, body, and soul. Remember that by investing in your own happiness and well-being, you become better equipped to make positive contributions to the world around you.
Celebrating Canadian Thanksgiving: A Feast of Gratitude
Shaina Tranquilino
October 10, 2023
As autumn paints the landscape with vibrant hues and the air turns crisp, Canadians gather around tables adorned with bountiful spreads, ready to partake in a cherished tradition known as Canadian Thanksgiving. Unlike its American counterpart, this festive occasion is celebrated on the second Monday in October, serving as an opportunity for Canadians to express gratitude and reflect upon their blessings. In this blog post, we delve into the origins and significance of Canadian Thanksgiving.
Historical Background:
The roots of Canadian Thanksgiving can be traced back to European explorers who arrived on North American shores several centuries ago. The first recorded celebration was held by English explorer Martin Frobisher in 1578 when he gave thanks for his safe arrival after a treacherous voyage. However, it wasn't until much later that this event became an annual observance.
Influenced by the traditions brought by French settlers and subsequent waves of immigrants from various backgrounds, Canadian Thanksgiving developed unique characteristics over time. Ultimately, it merged elements from both European harvest festivals and Indigenous customs of giving thanks.
Significance and Celebration:
Canadian Thanksgiving is primarily a time to express gratitude for the abundance offered by the land, nature's bounty, and the company of loved ones. It serves as a reminder of our interconnectedness and appreciation for all that sustains us.
1. Harvest Festivals:
Canadian Thanksgiving aligns with the season's agricultural significance – a time when farmers reap what they have sown throughout spring and summer. It symbolizes gratitude for successful harvests while recognizing the hard work involved in cultivating food that nourishes communities across Canada.
2. Family Gatherings:
Similar to other cultural celebrations worldwide, Canadian Thanksgiving brings families together in shared appreciation. Loved ones travel near or far to reunite around tables laden with traditional dishes like turkey, cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and more. The warmth of these gatherings fosters a sense of belonging and strengthens family ties.
3. Charitable Acts:
Beyond personal gratitude, Canadian Thanksgiving also emphasizes the importance of giving back to those in need. Many communities organize food drives, fundraisers, or volunteer at local shelters during this time. This collective effort showcases the spirit of compassion and reinforces the understanding that we are all responsible for supporting others.
4. Celebration of Cultural Diversity:
Canada's multicultural fabric is reflected in its diverse celebrations of Thanksgiving. Communities across the country infuse their unique cultural traditions into this holiday, introducing various culinary delights and customs from around the world. This fusion enriches Canadian society while promoting inclusivity and intercultural exchange.
Canadian Thanksgiving stands as a testament to Canada's rich history, cultural diversity, and gratefulness for nature's abundant blessings. It serves as an occasion to pause our bustling lives, come together with loved ones, and reflect on everything we have been fortunate to receive throughout the year.
Whether through shared meals, acts of kindness towards others, or appreciating Canada's beautiful landscapes, this cherished holiday reminds us to express gratitude not only on Thanksgiving but every day. Let us continue celebrating Canadian Thanksgiving with open hearts and minds, fostering unity and appreciation for one another in our great northern nation.
Hiya, who are your favorite Danganronpa guys and gals to write for? Have a good day!
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Ok ok, so I'm only up to the anime Hope Arc, but I'm sure there will be many more once I'm all done.~ But so far my favorite guys are Kiyotaka, Mondo, Ghundam, Fuyuhiko, and TeruTeru, while my fav girls are Sakura, Toko, Kyoko, Peko, and Ibuki!~
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...I thought about this post so much I managed to manifest it into my life. Just got a message from them detailing exactly how much they want to order throughout this year and in the exact order and quantity for every month.
I wish rich people went back to keeping artists as pets. Like when you’re wealthy enough you pick a cool weirdo to do regular commissions for you, and if you really want to flex on your peers, you’ve got several.
And you visit them every once in a while like “hello, I’ve paid for your rent and your tools, have you worked on that commission giant oil painting of me getting sucked off by my political opponent, who is unfortunately still the mayor of this town, like I requested?”
And your favourite feral art person looks up - mouth full of gravel and completely surrounded by art-related trash like “no, but I designed a helicopter.”
And you’re like “that’s fucking lit, the mayor doesn’t have a helicopter. Please carry on as you have.”
Although my son wasn’t with me for Christmas Day, it was still a great one. My partner gave me this gorgeous bracelet, this impressive charcuterie spread was just one of several amazing meals with their family, and we even snuck in a super fun slushy snowskate session in the afternoon. It was proven to me once again how good I’ve got it when, laying in front of the fire after to warm up, they slid their hand between my bony knees to keep me comfortable. Thank you love!!! ❤️ 💜 ❤️
why wait for something bad to happen to appreciate the good that you have ? Appreciate it now. Be grateful now.
This isn't a drabble post for once. This is just an appreciation post.
There are shows I've never seen or shows I've never wanted to see. Or comics/books/songs/whatever.
And then I see posts on here with gifs from the shows or whatever... that make me FEEL even though I don't know the whole story or really any of it at all.
But someone else's love for the thing has opened my eyes to what is or could be there. Made me curious for more. Made me want to explore things I never wanted to before, or wrote off without giving a chance, or might have missed knowing even existed forever if it weren't for this place and these posts.
And I am so grateful to the Tumblr community for that.
Scientists say, that writing down three things every evening that your are grateful for, increases your general happiness.
So let's give it a try:
Dear universe, I am grateful for...
...the endless amount of Supercorp fanfiction.
...the kissing scene between Katie McGrath and Victoria Smurfit.
...my bed.
Thank you.
1000 followers!!! I’m grateful to be able to show what I love to do. 🙏🏻