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Design update & ideas call
Calling all our system friends: if you could have a funny or serious DID/OSDD related sticker, what would you have on it?
Symbols, designs, words, phrases etc (curse words are okay, comments on endogen systems are okay) - go ham on it, we need as much inspo as possible <3
We've officially finished designs for The Multiplicity Network's logo, poster, and a lanyard for the conference (VoicesUnited)!
Unfortunately, I can't show the full designs until after the assignment is submitted in November, or we'll get pinned for plagiarism..but here's a blurred version of the final!
Not to make anyone worry, but saying you're a CDD system can make you a target for abusers and bullying.
By stating you're a system
You're disclosing that you went through debilitating trauma at a young age
You're disclosing that you may act like a young child in certain situations, and that child may not know, or understand certain acts
You disassociate to a level where we do not know what was done by/to the collective body
You're telling people that you may have patches of amnesia, disorientation, and where you may split under pressure
Many systems have issues with self harm, suicidal thoughts, substance use disorders and unfortunately, many abusers will take advantage of this
Systems, due to their amnesiac nature, are very easy to gaslight, often by saying that a different part/alter did or didn't do something
But Kyle! What can I do about it?!?
Choose, very carefully, who you tell that you have a system. We try not to tell new people in our life until we're fully trusting that they won't take advantage of the knowledge of the system. Even then, we can count on one hand how many of our in person friends and family are aware of our system.
Avoid linking social media, this includes discord, where you are 'out' about your system to other social media, especially around workplaces. Some workplaces, schools, universities and other places still hold stigma around DID (thank you, Split /s).
Be careful what you tell people about your system: keeping alter counts private, not giving out certain alter's names, using pseudonyms/symbols for alters are some of the ways we've done this. If someone we don't want to know about the system asks about an alter name, the majority of the time, we'll say that they're an OC.
Most people don't know what DID and OSDD are unless they have been in certain circles or happen to have an interest in it, so you are usually safe… but I always air on the side of caution.
Do what you wish with this list, I wanted to put these thoughts out there. Stay safe, feel free to reblog with more ways you keep your system safe.
Drink water, have something to eat, have your meds if you need them, use your mobility aids if you need them, and do something nice for yourself today.
With love,
System Dad (Kyle / 💜)
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Sup, I'm Kris, and last year on this day I meant a man, who was 19 and i was 12, and he made me send inappropriate pictures of myself to him. It went on until November. Now I'm constantly sexalizing myself and it makes me very uncomfortable.
Im bringing candy corn
Who wants to make a trauma dump digital salad?
Go ahead if u want but
Hi im ise. And when i was 13 i came out to my mom. She said i was delulu and i needed to turn to the lord. And i brought nerds gummys!
