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MOON IN 8TH HOUSE/VENUS IN 8TH HOUSE HEALING šš
1. If you have either of these placements, you would know how intense your feelings are. I have both of these placements and I have BPD. 8th house represents (in my understanding): mysteries, unpredictability, psychological destruction and rebirth, everything hidden, shocking, life transforming, challenging, losing everything and beginning again. This is a very challenging house.
2. After healing, the first thing I noticed was that I became gravitated towards 9th house subjects like philosophy, religion, spirituality, learning, higher education, studying, meaning of life, higher wisdom, divine power.
3. I also let go of all my bad habits easily: no more porn, no more binge eating, no more toxic behaviours, no more mindless entertainment.
4. I have become a very private person and spend most of my time in loneliness. Majority of my planets are connected to the 8th house or aspected by 8th house; once I internalized that my life is going to have the themes of 8th house, I surrendered to the higher forces and stopped resisting.
5. I am very spiritual and religious. I read about all religions. I was atheist/agnostic for a long time but then I switched to religion on my own. I dont have a guru. I research and figure out everything on my own.
6. My intuition is my friend. I am very intuitive and the calmer I am the clearer my intuition is. I do feel lack of friends and loneliness but I will not trade my natural gifts with any number of friends.
7. One major thing you should remember about 8th house is: LOSS. Loss of everything you have built. Loss of your life. Loss of your possessions. Loss of your body. Loss of everything that you hold dear. loss of everything. Death is the biggest loss. 8th house represents death. It is a very scary and painful house.
This is all for now.
I HAVE DOCUMENTED MY JOURNEY OF HEALING FROM MOON+VENUS IN 8TH HOUSE.
CHECK OUT MY PAGE TO SEE WHAT HEALING MEANS. I HAVE WRITTEN MANY POSTS ON THIS.
Hope it helps someone. It is very important to deal with this placement and trauma it brings.
Falling in love as a water dominant native
Inner planets (moon/sun/venus/mercury/mars) in a water house or water sign - love is different to you. You want to be with someone with whom you can be yourself and just yourself. Truly yourself. With all your feelings and vulnerabilities laid on the table, you are that safe and secure with your lover.
Water house or water sign placements make the native sensitive. Sensitive is to feel the feelings to their extreme. It is like holding a bubble in your palm, worried someone might pinch it, alert someone might blow it. You do not open yourself up to someone unless you trust their character.
Loyalty and honesty means a lot to you. You want someone as transparent as the water. You want to see through them. While other people look with their eyes, you look with your soul. Your eyes are turned inwards and constantly see the ups and downs of your emotions. Being sensitive and emotional, you are drawn to spirituality and choose your own path in life. You strive for a purpose in life. You want to know why you were born here on earth. You need a sense of mission and direction. You are a giver in love, the more you share your love, the more love there is in the world. You strive for higher principles, morals, meaning and values. You are the ones to turn the pages of philosophy books because the exterior life just does not suit your taste.
You fall in love with your soul. You meet someone and they are just the right person. Your intuition (water) tells you, this is it, you cannot reason why or how this person becomes the most prioritized person in your life. You are naturally obsessive. You are thinking of all the things you want to tell them, share with them, listen to them. Their mind, emotions and soul are your adventure place. You want to explore the depths of their mind. You want to merge your soul and identity with this person in your life.
Love is not just a word to you, it is life itself. Men with water dominant energy appear so ordinary from the outside, but oh-the right person will see the glaciers and ocean behind that mask. This ocean contains the secrets of the world. You want to self actualize with your lover. Someone who assists you in this journey. It is not just a material love to you, it is rather spiritual. You value their soul, their spirit, their essence. Love is a sacrifice to you, a noble cause, a martyr.
Perhaps, love is the language of water dominant natives. It is their religion and their philosophy. You will realize that this love trascends personality and unites with God, the eternal and the source. Nobody loves like a water dominant native, especially an evolved and mature one. They make life heaven, understand your emotional needs with their intuition, love you just the right way, be the best version of themselves, do everything to make your life better. Perhaps, nobody talks about water natives' love because very few experience it and those who experience the mature water love are too busy in self actualizing and transformation. They are too detached from self promotion and fakery.
Venus in scorpio/8th house/conjuct pluto/scorpio rising/pluto in 1st house: Malena
Envy, lust, provokes insecurities in others, provokes sexual desires, provokes fear and shame in others. Manipulative, controlling, abusive lovers. Men who are immature, infantile and puer aeternus are attracted to her, obsessed with her, want to use her, take advantage of her. Why do spiritually powerful women attract perverts and parasites? What is the pattern here? What is written in fates?
Charming, magnetic, sensual, feminine. Her silence captivates and threatens. Why doesn't she speak? What does she hide? Why is she so private? Why doesn't she smile? Why is she so powerful? Her life is transformed after marriage, after the news of death of her husband, after death of her father, after court trial where she was accused of adultery, after social beating and outcast. Her looks transform with seasons of life. Self destruction and reconstruction. Renewal of identity. Renewal of spirit.
Attention puller. Men of all ages are obsessed with her. She is so powerful that the whole town hates her. Witch hunting. Subject of sexual fantasies. Character assassination. Stalker, abuse, voyeurism, sex, sex and sex. Life is sex, life is libido. She corrupts everyone, a home wrecker? Nah, all she does is provoke the darkness and shame in men, just with her existence. Slut shaming and abuse. Insecure women are her enemy - if only they could see their ugliness. Death and rebirth, tragedy of life, dark days - darker than the darkest.
When I watched this movie, I found nothing funny about it. Not the silliest of jokes, not the desires of the kid boy. If anything, this movie was scary to watch because I know that women are actually treated this way, especially women with dark astrological placements. What is the life lesson here? Justice - we cannot trust the courts of law. What is the punishment for somebody's envy and insecurity? Darkness is treated with darkness. The strongest poisons make the best medicines.
Venus in 8th house/scorpio/conjunct pluto starter packs
*excuse my editing skills
**pics taken from internet, not mine
Ladies with Venus 8h
Make sure you date someone who's not already secretly dating someone else
By the time you find out, you are neck deep in emotions
It may drive you crazy to the point of psychosis to wipe the memory clean and begin afresh
Because when you give yourself to someone, you give without thinking
Also, for you ladies the rules are reversed. While other women may love the man equally or do a lot of things for the man or as we see in media that women sing and flirt with man playfully
You ladies, on the other hand, attract equally intense and "complex" man. He may either be evolved or unevolved. If unevolved, he will lose interest the moment you show him that you love him too (so frustrating)
Unevolved Scorpionic man are chasers, hunters, driven by power and do not have understanding of their emotional turmoils. They simply suppress them or project their emotions on you
So when dealing with man, if you can afford to do some emotional control and realize that your life theme runs in OPPOSITE direction of general dating rules, you will not feel confused and overwhelmed
As for your man, I think he needs to ride out his insecurities. When he is evolved, he will feel safe in his worth and not walk on eggshells around you but only when he evolves and finds connection with something larger than life
Venus in Scorpio
Scorpio's energy will make the native a rather possessive owner of what he loves, receiving tremendous pleasure through control of the desired object or person. Scorpio is the eighth sign of the zodiac and the planet Pluto is its dominant planet. The old ruler of the sign, before the discovery of Pluto, was the planet Mars. Even today, astrologers consider Mars as the co-governor of the sign. Scorpio is also the natural ruler of the eighth house, which regulates the sex, death, transformation and money of others. This will make Venus in Scorpio reach its maximum sexuality, even breaking boundaries and transforming through this act. In addition, the secret traits of Scorpio will make the love life of the native rather clandestine, and the individual will focus on breaking the taboos of him and his lovers. They will prefer not to talk about their business, keeping all the details to themselves. These details are usually quite spicy, including fetishes, mind games, and control struggles. When it comes to relationships, they will never rush to get into one and it is always considered a subject separate from the sex itself. A person from Venus in Scorpio is very, very suspicious and paranoid, and therefore needs a lot of time to trust someone. They need loyalty from their partners, and it will not enter into a stable relationship unless they are sure it is provided. Even then, jealousy will continue to exist, and in case of difficult aspects of the native Venus it will appear even for no apparent reason. Such individuals can become so obsessed with a certain lover, that they can transform their lives just to be with him.
A letter to my unrequited love - I
{Confessions of a scorpio moon}
I thought I loved you. It was dangerous. I was intimidated how severely you controlled my mind. I was willing to do anything to please you. To give up my freedom, my studies, my family, my friends, my foundation just to spend time with you. I'd stare at my phone with anxiety crawling up my skin, wondering if you were ignoring me on purpose. You always did it intently. It would drive me mad. I'd be so hurt and pissed knowing you'd read my messages but would never care to reply. I would never understand why I would reply to you in milliseconds when you'd make me wait for hours. Why I'd hurt after hurting you as a form of reactive abuse. I always wanted to soothe your pain, to ease your suffering, to make you feel loved because I saw past your facade. I knew how you'd be the cool guy, the life of the party, the social butterfly who could charm anyone. But I wanted to be the special one who'd lock eyes with you and make you mine. I never felt like I deserved you. I put you on a pedestal and worshipped you like God. I always felt like you were everything that was considered "cool" by the society. People would admire you. They would give in. I did too. You could draw in anyone you liked. You had the game. You could lay eyes on anyone and have them by sweet talking them into your trap. I knew you were playing me. My intuition tried to warn me several times. The red flags seemed dangerous every now and then but being the reckless lover that I am, I thought you'd be the right person to break my heart. Maybe, I expected too much from you. I wanted you to fill the voids I had. I wanted to be consumed by your love. I needed your attention constantly. I wanted to talk to you 24*7 although I never really had much to talk about. I was boring as hell but you, there would always be messages lined up for you. I felt privileged and honoured to receive a reply from you. It validated me. I felt seen. And heard. And appreciated. It was the best feeling ever. I had only been abandoned, discarded and used all my life. Being validated felt magical for a change. It made me want to surrender my life to you. I started living as per your terms. I'd do little things you'd mention in conversations to become your ideal lover in hopes of being noticed by you. But time and again, you'd fail to notice me. As if I was never there. But I was. I was always there for you. Through thick and thin. Right before your eyes.
-R
A Letter to my unrequited love - II
{Confessions of a scorpio moon}
You'd dump your trauma on me and I'd take it all happily, thinking it'd help you feel better, lighter. I thought you deserved to feel the happiest. And I'd easily swap your pain with the rare moments of joy I managed to feel. I stayed up at nights listening to you vent about your failed relationships, madly in love with you, shattering silently on the floor of my bedroom, ignoring my pain and paying heed to yours. You always came first, right? You were so dreamy, how could anyone ever hurt you? It felt absolutely cruel. I wanted to nurse your wounds and it was honestly too late when I realized that I was burning myself all throughout to warm you up. I didn't stop though. Why would I? You were someone I'd never want to lose. You made me feel wanted for a short amount of time. Your scraps of love and attention made me feel like a queen. I felt so loved. It touched my heart. No one ever expressed that kind of love to me before. I didn't even love myself half as much as I loved you. I was trained to be a giver, to cater to everyone else's needs and the same pattern unfolded here. You kept depleting me of the little love I had and I didn't mind it. We both would pour our love into you and I'd watch you bloom. You'd give your love to everyone except me. I wanted to claim a piece of your love. Your time. Your attention. I wanted to talk to you. I wanted to go deep into your psyche to understand and explore every bit of you. Everything you did made me fall for you harder and harder. It seemed to me like you enjoyed hurting me. Making me wait. Watching me get jealous. Triggering my childhood wounds. You'd feel cocky and arrogant knowing I was so desperate to talk to you. I'd sacrifice my self-respect and initiate a conversation all the time. You'd play it cool. You were cool. But you were cold. And distant too. You often called me names, insulted me and made me feel like trash. You didn't hesitate to walk all over me or use me like your punchbag. You took your anger out on me and I took the abuse not knowing how to pull myself out of the mess I got into.
I have spent sleepless nights trying to figure out why I wasn't enough. I questioned my worth several times. I never felt like I could match up to you. I could never meet you up there. The more I loved you, the more I began to hate myself. I didn't love myself even half as much as I loved you. It didn't make sense to me. But I didn't care. Until you broke my heart. Brutally. You stabbed my back with a smile on your face. Damn, your smile. It melted my broken heart. I couldn't bring myself to hate you. But I had to. I had to do something about it. I had nothing left. I felt hopeless and powerless. It was the last straw that broke the camel's back. Had it been a little sooner, I wouldn't have to move mountains to heal myself. Maybe it'd come easy.
Thank you for being the braver one among the two of us. One of us had to do it. One of us had to break my heart. Thankyou for leaving me broken. I've built it stronger this time. Don't bother knocking on the door. You're not welcome.
-R
I have 7 Scorpio placements in my Natal Chart and I can sense lies from a mile away. I also have a Taurus stellium which implies that not only do I have zero tolerance for lies, but I also thrive at finding them out. You lie, you die bitch. I don't give second chances to people. Come clean is all I say. Don't try to outsmart me because I know what's up with your lying ass. If I find you lying (which btw, I will) for futile, petty shit, you lose all my respect. And as a consequence, I will cut you off because I don't like an unequal give and take. Don't mess with me because I always know what's up. I see through a web of lies. Kind of a blessing as well as a curse, I'm not complaining though.
Confessions of Scorpio moon š
I am ashamed of myself for doing everything I possibly could do to make you stay. To make you love me. To fight for your attention. Even in those weak moments when I knew that I deserved so much better than a lost soul who didnāt acknowledge how many hearts they were breaking. I knew exactly how cruel and selfish you were. And yet, I decided to stay. I donāt know why. Cause I never believed I could have you. The closest I could get to being a part of your life was by being your punching bag, or a friend youād text whenever you were bored. I became the entertainment you needed in your life, but to me, you always were a star shining so bright in the sky, I wouldnāt mind freezing to death if it meant I could gaze at you all night. Little did I know, there were many more eyeing you. I probably was the last person in your priority list. Or maybe not that either. I donāt want to know the answer, I think itāll break my heart. I try to sound rational, but I really let you break my heart a hundred times, did I not? Well, atleast thereās nothing left that can be broken anymore. I think about you so much, itās crazy how I canāt get a grip on my fucking self. I wonder if you miss me. I know itās so strange to think about you. I have so many questions to ask, but Iām not sure if my heart wants to know the answers anymore. I tear up whenever I think about you, rather about the love I had for you. I wish I could be a part of your life and didnāt just fade away. I was barely in the background anyway. I know Iāve acted in ugly ways and I hate how low I had stooped to get you to notice me, to pay attention to me and to give me some of your affection. I never understood what I lacked. Did I lack something? I remember you calling me mean and irritating. I have tried my best to overcome those in the last two years. I donāt know why I cared so much about your opinion of me. I remember you calling me problematic. Was I really problematic? Did you know how insecure I felt everytime you spoke about a new fling, or a new crush? I wouldnāt share you even with a fictional character. Thatās probably my insecurity speaking but yeah. I donāt get to read your poems anymore. I wish I did. You have the gift of gab. Do you still write poetry? How have you been lately? I donāt want to make any small talk. I miss our deep conversations. I hope youāve been able to heal. The idea of letting you go still scares me. But Iāve understood through therapy that letting me go is scarier. I wish we didnāt drift apart. I guess, we werenāt meant to be anyway. I cherish everything we had. I am trying to master detachment. Are you holding onto me tightly too? Cause thereās a reason Iām unable to let you go. I will though. Cause youāre gone. I donāt know if weāll ever meet again. I donāt know if I want to. I donāt know anything. Why has loving you been such a painful experience even though you are so lovable? I hope no oneās hurt you when I was not around. Please protect your heart. You are precious. You deserve to heal. I wish healing onto you. I hope your inner child feels safe with you. If you have landed a job in these past few years, I want to congratulate you. I knew you were built for great things. And oh hey, belated happy birthday to you. I hope you had a blast. I am happy for you. I hope you continue to do amazing things in the future. Lastly, I hope you find the courage to be yourself. Know that you are loved. And ummmā¦.. missed. Yeah, thatās it. Bye.
Venus Signs and their romantic ways
Made this thread on Twitter @starseedtwenty (follow for all my updates) and thought Iād share it here.
š¹Ā Aries Venus š¹
- They love in a way: That is loud, proud and full of passion. They donāt think twice or get indecisive or play cat & mouse when they are interested in you. They give what they can from the jump, and try to make you theirs in whatever way they can, BUT if you play weird as time goes they *shake their head* and just move on from you w/o you even knowing it.
- What they seek: A love that is sure, steady and wholesome. They want to know and feel that you are their person and are not scared to show that. They want a love that is active (in bed, in life, in any situation) and not something thatās boring. A love where you guys can be direct and open with each other.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt play games or play hard to get for too long (just enough to lure them in, after you get them, be softer). Donāt contemplate too much or wonder too much if you should do, be, have, say, etc, anything with them (just let yourself be, because with them you can be comfortable). And donāt love them more than you love yourself (they are loveable beings, but if you give too much, it slightly shows a lack of self-respect which turns them off very quickly).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn.
š¹Ā Taurus VenusĀ š¹
- They love in a way: That is honest, dependable and very supportive. Their love is a perfect mix of poetic and traditional (making them husband/wifey material, even if they donāt wanna admit it). They know how to stick by your side through thick and thin, unless you truly, truly hurt them, then they have no choice but to leave. But on the down low, they really donāt mind spending forever with you when they love you.
- What they seek: A love that is genuine, stable and long-term, a love that they can write a story about and tell to their grandchildren while they both sit in the nursery home holding hands, a love that contains devotion, support, and pleasure. Their partner must also be able to please all five sense and give all five love languages [because they know how to please & give them all as well].
- Things not to do with them: Donāt be flaky or hard to ground (they can sense that easily and it will turn them off) because their love is patient and grounded. Do not rush them, do not rush what you want with them (let them be and theyāll come around if they really like you, but do make sure to show your love). And do not be aggressive, no matter what.
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces.
š¹Ā Gemini VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is fun, open-minded and stimulating. Their love is pretty much something out of the movies, an experience for books. You canāt say youāre bored with them cause they make you laugh, think, and feel like you can be weird with them. They love in a way that just makes you feel like āas long as Iāve got you, lifeās a breezeā because rough situations become lighter, and happy times become a more enjoyable experience.
- What they seek: A love thatās full of memories, laughter, joy and great experiences. They want you to be their best friend as well as their partner in one. They want to feel like they can share their dumbest thoughts as well as their deepest secrets with you. They want someone who they can laugh out loud with and be open to their ideas of things to do, as well as someone who can hug them and cry with when theyāre sad and wonāt make them feel weird, just always be there with them.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt dumb them down and make them feel incompetent, feel bad or feel weird or as if theyāre a bore (like them for who they are or move along). Do not be too serious or boring, because they will get bored rather quick (be fun and comfortable to be around, if they have an idea, be open to it). And donāt pressure them to make decisions or plans or anything like that (they like it when itās a joint decision thatās cool for both of you guys).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Sagittarius.
š¹Ā Cancer VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way that: That is caring, gentle and sensitive to your needs. They are pretty sweet and tender when they love you a lot and hope that you are to. They are also rather shy and coy though, so they arenāt very assertive with their love, but hope that you can sense them and that they can sense you as well and give you the love that you need. Either way, their love is just one that is soft and feels like a warm hug in a cold day.
- What they seek: A love that is pure, consistent and feels like home. Sometimes their emotions (with Cancer being ruled by the moon) can fluctuate and they can run to their shell when theyāre feeling sad or just not feeling up to much, so they seek someone whoās able to stick with their moods sometimes, and love them wholly for who they are. They want a love that overall kind, nurturing and emotionally supportive.
- Things not to do with them: Do not be cold or insensitive to them (they donāt take it lightly, and will cut you off). Donāt be superficial or aloof (have depth and authenticity, thatās a huge tick for them). Donāt be laidback and relaxed in your efforts to get them, they are already pretty shy so if youāre also shy or laidback it does nothing (show them that you want them and be serious, but donāt be aggressive, do it in a gentle manner).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces.
š¹Ā Leo VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is warm, youthful, and confident. [Since Leo is ruled by the Sun] They let their love shine to you and hit the rays to everyone, enough to make people envious of how much they love their partner. They donāt mind grand gestures and also like the little gestures of love (in giving and in receiving). Their love is basically 'power coupleā mixed with 'two little kids who like each other and end up being sweethearts til old ageā.
- What they seek: A love thatās wholesome, fun and cool. A love thatās childlike enough where you guys can run/race on the sand at the beach on a sunny day and play outdoor games, as well as mature enough where you guys can handle adulthood together and talk about deep stuff in a way where itās not weird. A love where people are jealous of what you guys have.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt hide your feelings or act weird with them if you like them (be honest, open, confident and warm). Donāt pick at their faults or insecurities (look at the good sides, not the bad sides). And donāt humiliate them ever. EVER (be respectful and honorable).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius.
š¹Ā Virgo VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is kind, attentive and a little unpredictable. They have versatility, so some moments they will show their love, and other moments they will become shy or just fall back. Itās just something they do, doesnāt mean they love you less, (ac if you still love them through their weird moments, they love you more). They also love in a way where they sense you and feel like they should know what to do or say, making them pretty intuitive.
- What they seek: A love that is compassionate, steady, and a love that seems perfect. It doesnāt even have to be, but if it feels like it then itās fine. They want something where they feel loved and understood. Because they love in a way that is steady (like in a way, theyāre always ready to give you love and be compassionate in their actions) they want something thatās reciprocated like that as well.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt be dramatic or wild or extreme with things you do (that turns them off pretty quickly, because āwhy are you embarrassing me/yourself?ā is their question). Donāt look like a mess who canāt take care of themselves (a clean, independent, well-spoken person is a big turn on for them). Donāt look for things deeply when itās all simple (be logical and smart and realistic).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn.
š¹Ā Libra VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is assertive, sensual, and giving. They love as if they are writing a romantic novel and they are the main character. They love in a way where they are very much able to share and see you as a companion, and give what they can to the relationship. They are able to prioritize you as their partner, as well as prioritize themselves and see themselves as the coolest beings, which is how they are able to be assertive. But they get butthurt if you donāt appreciate them.
- What they seek: A love that is balanced, aesthetical and romantic. The keyword here is balanced. They want a fusion of everything. Something deep and also lighthearted. Something fiery and also relaxed. Something adventurous and also homey. Something traditional and also modern/futuristic. Something routine-like and also unpredictable. They want it all, and they want to experience it with someone who wants it like this just as much as they do.
- Things not to do with them: Do not be extreme or go overboard in the way you do things [with them] (have a balance and give just enough). Do not be to shy or laidback/lame either (that turns them off as well because they donāt want to give too much either, they want to be met halfway). And donāt rush them or pressure them in a way (they will get turned off so quick).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius.
š¹Ā Scorpio VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is Ā deep, intense, and fulfilling. They love so deep that sometimes it hurts them, they just have this ocean of love inside of them and they want to pour it out so bad, yet they get scared or overthink and end up just holding back or giving little drops. If they were to give the love they have, it would be overwhelming to some, which is why they hold back sometimes. For some though, who love something deep and sensual, then a Scorpio venus is perfect for them.
- What they seek: A love that is genuine, and emotional, and transformational. One that makes them feel that there is a lot going on. A load of emotions, a load of thoughts, a load of memories, a load of experiences, and all of it is authentic and true, something that cannot be faked or found anywhere else. Something like a thrill but deeper and more long-term, and they feel comfortable enough to let out all that they feel for you, and you will still stick by them forever.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt be fake or superficial (they donāt care about the 'outerā things, they love the inner things). Donāt hide or keep stuff from them ('honesty is the best policyā is the biggest note to keep if youāre dealing them. Even if it hurts them, they want whatās real). And donāt be seasonal (stick with them through the dark and the light, not just when you feel like it).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces.
š¹Ā Sagittarius VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is enticing, philosophical, and very enthusiastic. They love in a way thatās enthusiastic/dramatic because they are living for the moment and they like to give their all (being ruled by Jupiter) when they can. In some ways they are also pretty philosophical, so their love can be one where you give and gain knowledge with them or just generally expand your mind through their thoughts and actions. Which is why travelling is something they love.
- What they seek: A love that is liberating, fiery, and about the bigger things. A love that is a breathe of fresh air where they feel understood and they can learn a lot from you and you from them. A love where you make them think, make them laugh, and make them feel free & cool. Just a love where you can go on adventures for a lifetime with them.
- Things not to do with them: Donāt ever be a nag or someone whoās highly opinionated or likes to criticize all the time (major turn off for them). Do not try to pin them down or force them to commit to something (they probably might if they like you, but secretly check out if they feel like youāre caging their freedom). Donāt be repetitive, especially with something thatās boring.Ā
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius.
š¹Ā Capricorn VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That has self-control and is respectful and mature. They love with a lot of maturity, my goodness. They know how to be serious about what they have with you when they truly love you, and with them, theyād hate to loose you (especially after establishing a solid foundation) which makes breaking up a far-fetched idea if they love you. But well, if you hurt them or act immature or become unfaithful to them, they can and will leave you, after much consideration.
- What they seek: A love that is serious, secure and long-term. A patient love that doesnāt stress them or make them feel shaky, as if itās something for fun or short-term. They obvs want something fun, but something *for fun* is not that interesting to them, they wonāt see you as 'a keeperā if thereās that vibe. They want a serious and more committed love has faith and dedication to the connection, this comforts them a lot.
- Things not to do with them: Do not be aggressive or dramatic or whine too much (maturity turns them on more than anything). Donāt act immature and be too flaky or playful or indecisive (it gives them an 'unseriousā vibe which they donāt like). Donāt be overly sensitive or emotional (cause they wonāt know what to do or say, since theyāre chilled/mature with their emotions).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn.
š¹Ā Aquarius VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way:Ā That is quirky, transparent and very cool. Aquarius are masters of making things seem cool (or at least try to), and so with Venus being there, so is their love. A cool, vibrant, funny, quirky love, that is quite transparent. They have not much to hide, if they love you, theyāll show you, if they donāt, then thereās nothing to show. They are also chilled and generous with their love, so they show it to everyone, and may show you that same side they show to another person/stranger.
- What they seek: A love that is interesting, communicative, and down to earth. An interesting love to them is one that keeps them feeling refreshed and free to be their weird selves (as well as see your cool, weird side) and not conjoined or 'cagedā in something boring. They want to think and communicate funny and cool stuff with you, and for you to be the same. They want something worth giving their shy feelings to, something warm and comfortable, but not overwhelming or possessive.
- Things not to do with them: Do not be possessive or clingy or overwhelming with your emotions to them (it rubs them off lol). Donāt be fake or pretentious (keep it real with them, in a chilled way. they appreciate honesty a lot). Donāt be arrogant and loud, especially in a negative way (be humble, but love yourself and show it).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius.
š¹Ā Pisces VenusĀ š¹
- Love in a way: That is dreamy, devoted and never-ending. When they love, they loooove. They donāt give just the hand or half an arm, they give their entire body, and they love with their whole heart, unlike any other sign. Itās amazing. They are also very forgiving. But with all of this, they are also very sensitive, so they get hurt easily and the more you hurt them, the more closed-off they become, without you even noticing. Other than that, their love is also almost movie-like because of how dreamy and unrealistic they want it to be.
- What they seek: A love that is comfortable, faithful and kind. What they want it someone who is compassionate, someone who is also spiritual or believes in fateful/universal energies, and someone who makes them feel understood with their crazy little mind that can overthink. Their hearts can also overlove, so they want someone who can be the cup for them to pour their love into, and not someone who will run away or play games with their love. They are also ready to receive and be a cup to your love if itās as caring and dedicated as theirs, though their love can sometimes seem hidden or unspoken, but they feel it.
- Things not to do with them: Do not be rough or cold (be gentle in a stern way). Donāt take them for granted (idk how many times Iāve seen Pisceans not being loved enough when theyāre there, but cried for when theyāre gone. you will regret it if you donāt appreciate what they have to give). And donāt be too honest/blunt or boring (things must be funnier and sweeter than they are. they like the dream/movie/fantasy state of things, you stating the reality bores them).
- Most Compatible with: Venus in Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.
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P.S - Itās all just from the vibes, not down to the specifics. you as a person are unique.
Venus in Signs as movies