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Healing is the New Hustling: Prioritizing Wellness in a Culture of Constant Motion Shaina Tranquilino May 17, 2024

In a world that glorifies hustle culture and champions productivity above all else, the concept of healing often takes a backseat. We're bombarded with messages urging us to grind harder, hustle faster, and strive for more. But amidst the relentless pursuit of success, we often neglect an essential aspect of our well-being: the need to heal.

Healing is not just about recovering from physical ailments; it encompasses mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being as well. It's about addressing the wounds that go beyond the surface level and nurturing ourselves back to wholeness. In a society where burnout and stress-related illnesses are rampant, prioritizing healing is more crucial than ever before.

The traditional notion of "hustling" implies pushing ourselves to the limit, often at the expense of our health and happiness. It's a mindset rooted in the belief that success requires constant motion and relentless effort. However, this mindset can lead to exhaustion, anxiety, and a sense of emptiness, ultimately undermining our long-term well-being.

But what if we shifted our focus from hustling to healing? What if, instead of glorifying busyness, we celebrated self-care and introspection? This shift in perspective is not about being lazy or complacent; it's about recognizing that true success and fulfillment stem from a place of wholeness and balance.

Healing is not a passive process; it requires conscious effort and commitment. It involves setting boundaries, practicing self-compassion, and prioritizing activities that nourish our mind, body, and soul. Whether it's through meditation, therapy, journaling, or spending time in nature, healing looks different for everyone. What matters is that we make space for it in our lives and honour its importance.

In a culture that often equates worth with productivity, embracing healing can feel countercultural. It requires us to challenge the narrative that our value is contingent upon how much we accomplish. Instead, it invites us to redefine success on our own terms—one that encompasses not just external achievements, but also inner peace and contentment.

Moreover, prioritizing healing isn't just beneficial on an individual level; it also has broader societal implications. When we take the time to heal and prioritize our well-being, we become more resilient, compassionate, and empathetic individuals. We're better equipped to show up for ourselves and others, fostering stronger relationships and communities in the process.

So, how can we integrate healing into our lives in a meaningful way? It starts by acknowledging that it's okay to slow down and prioritize self-care. It means listening to our bodies and minds, and honouring their needs without judgment or guilt. It involves creating space for rest, reflection, and rejuvenation amidst life's demands.

In essence, healing is the new hustling because it recognizes that our worth isn't determined by how much we do, but by how well we take care of ourselves and others. It's about embracing our humanity in a world that often demands superhuman feats. By prioritizing healing, we not only reclaim our well-being but also pave the way for a more compassionate and sustainable future.

The Big Sky Mind Shaina Tranquilino May 31, 2024

It's easy to feel overwhelmed by the constant stream of information, responsibilities, and distractions. Our minds, much like wild animals, can become unruly and difficult to control, leading to stress, anxiety, and a sense of being lost. However, within this chaos lies the potential for incredible clarity and peace—what some call the "Big Sky Mind."

What is the Big Sky Mind?

The concept of the Big Sky Mind draws from Buddhist teachings and mindfulness practices. It suggests that our minds are like the vast, open sky: expansive, boundless, and inherently calm. Just as the sky remains unchanged regardless of the weather patterns that pass through it, our true nature remains pure and serene despite the turbulence of our thoughts and emotions.

Understanding this concept can be transformative. It reminds us that no matter how chaotic our minds may seem, there is always a deeper, unchanging state of calm and clarity within us.

The Wild Mind

Before we can fully embrace the Big Sky Mind, we must first acknowledge the wild nature of our everyday consciousness. Our minds are constantly bombarded with thoughts, emotions, and sensory inputs, which can lead to a state of perpetual distraction and unrest. This "wild mind" is characterized by:

Restlessness: A continual feeling of needing to do something, leading to a lack of focus.

Overthinking: An endless loop of thoughts that can cause anxiety and stress.

Emotional Reactivity: Quick, intense reactions to situations, often without reflection.

Disconnection: Feeling detached from the present moment, ourselves, and others.

Taming the Wild Mind

Taming the wild mind is not about suppressing or eliminating thoughts and emotions but learning to observe and understand them without becoming entangled. Here are some practices that can help:

1. Mindfulness Meditation

Mindfulness meditation is a powerful tool for cultivating awareness and presence. By focusing on your breath, bodily sensations, or a specific object, you can train your mind to return to the present moment whenever it starts to wander. This practice helps you become more aware of your thought patterns and reduces the impact of distractions.

2. Acceptance

Accepting your thoughts and emotions as they are, without judgment, is crucial. Recognize that it's natural for the mind to wander and for emotions to fluctuate. By accepting these experiences without resistance, you create space for them to arise and pass without getting caught up in them.

3. Letting Go

Learning to let go is essential for taming the wild mind. This doesn't mean ignoring your thoughts and emotions but rather not clinging to them. Visualize your thoughts as clouds passing through the sky. They come and go, but the sky remains unchanged. Practice letting go of your need to control or analyze every thought.

4. Grounding Techniques

Grounding techniques can help anchor you in the present moment. Activities like walking in nature, practicing yoga, or simply focusing on your breath can bring your awareness back to the here and now. These practices help you connect with your body and the physical world, reducing mental clutter.

Embracing the Big Sky Mind

Once you begin to tame your wild mind, you can start to experience the vastness and tranquility of the Big Sky Mind. Here are some ways to deepen this connection:

1. Reflect on the Nature of Mind

Spend time contemplating the nature of your mind. Notice how your thoughts and emotions are transient, like weather patterns in the sky. Reflect on the expansiveness of your consciousness and the boundless nature of your being.

2. Cultivate Compassion

A key aspect of the Big Sky Mind is compassion—both for yourself and others. Recognize that everyone experiences the wildness of the mind and that this shared experience can foster empathy and connection. Practicing loving-kindness meditation can help you develop a compassionate heart.

3. Engage in Creative Expression

Creative activities like painting, writing, or playing music can help you tap into the expansive quality of the Big Sky Mind. These activities encourage you to explore and express your inner world without judgment, allowing your true nature to shine through.

4. Practice Presence

Finally, strive to live in the present moment as much as possible. Engage fully with whatever you are doing, whether it's eating, working, or spending time with loved ones. The more you practice presence, the more you will experience the serenity and clarity of the Big Sky Mind.

Taming the wild mind and embracing the Big Sky Mind is a journey that requires patience, practice, and compassion. By cultivating mindfulness, acceptance, and presence, we can begin to experience the vast, boundless nature of our true selves. Remember, just as the sky remains calm and expansive despite the storms that pass through, you too have an inner sanctuary of peace and clarity waiting to be discovered. Embrace the journey, and let the Big Sky Mind guide you to a life of greater harmony and fulfillment.

Embracing the Art of Slowing Down: Rediscovering Life's Simple Beauty Shaina Tranquilino June 7, 2024

It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life. We rush from one task to another, constantly checking off items on our to-do lists without pausing to appreciate the beauty that surrounds us. In our quest for productivity and success, we often overlook the simple joys of living.

Learning to slow down is not only essential for our mental and physical well-being but also for reconnecting with the world around us. When we rush through our days, we fail to notice the small moments of beauty that make life truly meaningful.

Imagine walking through a park on a sunny afternoon, feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin and listening to the gentle rustle of leaves in the breeze. In our busy lives, we might pass through the park without giving it a second thought, too preoccupied with our own thoughts and worries to appreciate the natural beauty around us.

But when we slow down and take the time to be present in the moment, we open ourselves up to a world of wonder and possibility. We notice the intricate patterns of a flower petal, the playful chirping of birds in the trees, and the laughter of children playing nearby. These simple moments become precious treasures that enrich our lives and remind us of the beauty of the world.

Slowing down doesn't mean abandoning our responsibilities or goals; rather, it's about finding balance and prioritizing what truly matters. It's about learning to savor each moment and cultivate a sense of gratitude for the blessings in our lives.

One way to embrace the art of slowing down is through mindfulness practices such as meditation and deep breathing exercises. By quieting the mind and focusing on the present moment, we can let go of stress and anxiety and cultivate a deeper sense of peace and contentment.

Another way to slow down is by disconnecting from technology and spending more time in nature. Whether it's taking a leisurely stroll in the woods or simply sitting outside and watching the sunset, immersing ourselves in the natural world can be incredibly grounding and rejuvenating.

Slowing down also means being more intentional about how we spend our time. Instead of filling our schedules with endless activities and commitments, we can prioritize activities that bring us joy and fulfillment. Whether it's spending quality time with loved ones, pursuing a hobby we're passionate about, or simply enjoying a quiet evening at home, carving out time for the things that nourish our souls is essential for our overall well-being.

In a culture that values productivity and efficiency above all else, learning to slow down can feel like a radical act of self-care. But in reality, it's one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. By embracing the art of slowing down, we can reconnect with the simple beauty of living and find greater meaning and fulfillment in our lives. So let's take a deep breath, pause, and savour the sweetness of this moment.

The power of being a HUMAN

Hello my friends 🙏☺️❤️

Sometimes the world seems deeply unfair. People often focus on punishment, guilt, and justice, not realizing they cause even more misery. In psychology, there's a famous triangle: attacker-victim-and the savior. People who save might become the victim of the victim and the attacker of the attacker.

We all are mobile, shifting between these roles throughout our lives.Between black and white, we have all the colors of the rainbow. We're all complicated beings, having both light and shadows of our own. We move along various scales in life - between being a victim, savior, or aggressor; between shadow and light; between justice and compassion; between self-acceptance and self-hate.The solution is being compassionate, firstly inwards to yourself. You might feel anger, jealousy, fear and disgust - congratulations, YOU ARE A HUMAN.

It's so hard to accept the pain that our reality and world is full of... And the temptation to divide into right and wrong, those who should suffer and those who shouldn't... But the truth is that no one should be punished or suffer.As the beautiful African proverb says: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth". 🔥

No child, no animal, no group, no patient, no member, no friend should be left alone... The healing of the individual is the healing of society. The healing of a nation is the healing of the world.

It's true, this path isn't easy. It's unknown. But from 300,000 years of human existence, if we choose to believe the theory of science - for more than 99% of humankind's life span we lived in harmony with life and nature. Only in the last 1% of time have we developed so much that we forgot our roots... But the roots of harmony and compassion are always there, therefore we can remember them whenever we're ready to look beyond the known.

Let's explore new paths of life, as individuals full of mutual solidarity - and as groups and humankind. We all are one, this life is short, let's make it the best lives possible for as many people as possible.

Thank you for reading ❤️❤️

Please, respect yourself!

(Originally I made this for Instagram with the audio of a channel I can't remember, I'm sorry! Video is from https://www.pexels.com/de-de/)

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I read the article.

It's mainly about being accomadative/understanding of where people are/could be coming from.

With regards to my opinion on whether consensual cannibalism is a path to wellbeing.....probably?