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Just breathe, everything will be okay, just trust me and trust yourself. I luv u <3

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a/n: HEYOOOOO WHO IS READY FOR 3TAN11 if you want it to drop this month lemme hear you say yoongiiiiiii🥺 (but rly though drop a comment or a reblog i do wanna get a headcount lol)

Letting go isn’t easy, but it’s necessary.

(via purplebuddhaquotes)

Some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to be.

(via purplebuddhaquotes)

Ok kids, repeat after me:

"My invasive thoughts are not my fault"

"The trauma I've faced is not my fault"

"The absue I've endured is not my fault"

"Even if my past haunts me, it can't hurt me anymore"

"I have survived every single bad day I've ever had,"

"And you bet your ass I'm gonna survive any more that life throws at me."

(𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧) 𝐑𝐘𝐀𝐍 𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐑 ;  the secrets she keeps.  by clicking the source link below, you will find #217 gifs of ryan corr in the secrets she keeps series 2 (2022). do not edit or repost them. like / reblog if using.

content warnings: hospitals, shirtless scenes, violence.

information about my commissions.

I am happy that’s treasure I love it <3 

aww I can't believe young pavie and rose are really beautiful a friend. I think rose wanted to learn how to sign language for her?

Yes, she is a fan of her as rosie was awesome. but she got her poster on his bedroom wall.

 she communication with a friend can ASL.  

not my oc rosie 

that is @feetinspace‘s oc rosie 

Gwensy is the person I reblogged from.

this website is horrible and everyone is mean as fuck. with that being said reblog and compliment the previous person in the tags ✨

I have such guilt on this subject

All the characters I play so far!

in order: Luna Lovegood, Moaning Myrtle, Nymphadora Tonks, Merope Gaunt, Holly, Celeste, and Rowena Ravenclaw.

I plan in the next week to try out :

Alice Longbottom

THAT SO BOMB

continue to not look at me + heckin pissed djinn

AHH UR EDITS/ARTWORK ARE SO COOL!! IM KINDA JEALOUS NGL UR MY NEW IDOL NOW YIPEEE💖💖✨

omg theres like a million of asks I never answered due to leaving here 😭😭

THIS IS SO SWEET TYSM <33333

You are all beautiful, wonderful people and I hope you all find the bright side. Best of luck, @the-biggest-lol

I'm sick of internet negativity, so let's combat it: reblog this and saying something nice/pay a compliment to the prev in the tags.

I know this totally isn't my place but I worked with a domestic violence group for a while and felt I had to jump in.

I agree with drmaurisles that he is not a nice guy and that you do NOT deserve to be beaten.  I can also see that you are very afraid and this fear plays a part in you choosing to stay with him.  You are right to fear what he will do when you leave him.  Do not dismiss this fear.  Use it.  Become informed about what community supports you have.  Form a safe plan before leaving.  Who will be with you when you tell him?  Will you tell him in person or is it safer for you to tell him long distance?  Are you living with him and will you need a place he does not know about to move to?  Do you have any dependents (for example kids) and how do you maximize their safety?  Is there a shelter available to you?  Is there a psychologist or counsellor whom you trust that you can talk to about this? They may have a better idea about social supports and safe plans.

You are in a very difficult situation with only an option of the lesser of evils.  A person who will beat you in public already has no concern about stopping.  He will not wake up one morning and decided to stop beating you, to him there is no reason to.  You staying with him will not stop the beatings.  If nothing changes today then yesterday will be your life.  This change will be difficult and dangerous.  It will also be the only guaranteed way to change your life.  You can minimize the risk to yourself through pre-planning. 

This will be difficult because, like all abusers, he uses psychological abuse to make you think that it is your fault, you are responsible (i.e. you deserve it and if you were better he wouldn't do it), that leaving him will be worse than staying with him, that you will always fail, that you are all alone, and that you deserve to be alone.  These are LIES.  Lies that he tells you to keep you where he wants you, as his punching bag.  It does not matter what you do, he will always try to convince you that you did wrong.  Do not believe him.

You are not responsible for his actions.  You do notdeserve to be abused in any way.  Staying with him will be worse than leaving because it will continue until you are dead or you chose to leave him.  He will not change if you stay with him.

You are not alone. There is a whole community out there who have been in shoes very similar to yours.  There are friends, maybe you haven't met them yet, that will understand the blame and the shame of what has been done to you is his.  You are strong.  You will succeed more than you fail, especially if you not stop trying.  You are scared because you are smart.  This is the situation to be scared of.  Keep being smart, trust yourself.  You know the dangers of your situation better than me.  

Please remember that everything he says is designed to keep you with him.  You are more beautiful, more brave, more intelligent, more competent, more capable, and stronger than he wants you to believe.  Because if you believed that you were as beautiful, brave, intelligent, competent, capable, and as strong as you really were?  You would leave his abusive ass in a heartbeat.

what would you do if you we're in an abusive relationship? like i'm terrified because i don't want him to hurt me more and sometimes he's a nice guy but he does it in front of his friends and they laugh and he comes to me all drunk and shit and my friend has seen it and says the safest thing to do would be to stay with him and try not to piss him off again and i can't break up with him because i'm afraid he'll beat me if i do and i don't know if this will be awkward to answer but i'm scared

In my head, this is just unacceptable. Hurt you more? Baby, stop it right there! HE IS NOT A NICE GUY, HE BEATS YOU, how’s that okay? It’s not! Denounce him! Do you have family, sweetie? Ask for their support. You CAN’T keep this relationship, it’s gonna destroy you and you DON’T deserve it. This is inhuman, go fight for your rights as a woman. Justice is out there to help you. Please do it, please don’t stay with that monster. :/

Fact: Ghost Fanarts and artists are amazing.

What could ever be wrong with a reason to smile?

If there were no rules

No need for the society to accept you

No one judging your true self

Just a free world where we could all live peacefully together

How would you live?

Of what do you dream?

Take a Minute to think...

What do you truly wish for?

Who do you truly want to be?

What do you really want to do once you put away a mask you were wearing for too long

Of course you'll never truly fit in

But that is the point

There is no one like you

There is just you and I think this is amazing

This world is full of beautiful people and I wish everyone to see.

So pretty please stop trying to be someone else

Show the world who you really are

Cause you are amazing ~Lidaris

me{whilst writing a comment on youtube to sleep music}some time last year.(guess i went all out)(0~0;)

I just want to tell the people who really need to hear encouragement for all their hardships.

This comment section is filled with absolutely broken ,vulnerable and kind souls,who have had their faith tested and trialed.

maybe not religiously ,

but there are so many of us,people like you and me,

who have almost given up on life after losing everything,

those of us who long for pure love and affection,

the dreamers who yearn for the untouchable ethereal stars,

the writers who have lost days on end,

feeling hopelessly empty on the inside.

desolate and pessimistic and at times cynical as well.. to all of you.

NO, TO ALL OF US..

I am not going to tell you that everything will be better,

if i did that then i would be giving you false confidence,

life doesn't always give us times of hope and rewards for our hard work ,i know that it isn't fair

but it teaches us so many things that we never could have understood

nor believed take place in our cruel world.

I know that there are those times

where we just want to disappear,

to question your existence in the mirror,

to feel so much pain that you can't express in words ,

to be able to look up at the beautiful night sky ,

to just lay on the grass and not be bothered about anything else,

to not be able to tell those people whom you normally converse with ,

about our problems and guilt and responsibilities ,

to get the countless things that you have to get done today. . .

GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST.

Some times we all just need to breathe.

just keep breathing !

because i hope and wish and pray that all of you ,

whoever you may be ,if you needed that reason to keep hangin on ..

I hope that this message reaches you !

to tell you the truth, to tell you that you are not alone ,

I feel you.

I know how it feels but still after all that I have gone through here I am..

Still fighting my battle, an absolutely imperfect and an extremely broken person

but still I smile when I feel happy because

I am who I am

and you are who you are

and we are perfect and brave and beautiful and handsome and amazing and strong.

that's why i want you to keep holding on!

because one day someone in this world will see you as i do,

they will see you as an amazing and strong and brave person

for fighting all that you have been through.

They will embrace and accept and kiss your scars and will love you for you ,for the real you.

So keep fighting!

because you deserve to be loved and adored and all you have to do now is breathe.

don't take up other's bullshit.

don't get bullied,

don't feel devastated over a breakup,

PLEASE,

PLEASE DON'T TRY TO TAKE YOUR LIFE BECAUSE OF WHAT SOMEONE DID TO YOU!

YOU ARE SOO BRILLIANT AND SO AMAZING AND SO UNIQUE AND SO YOU !

I WANT YOU TO FIGHT WITH ALL THAT IS LEFT IN YOU ,

WITH THAT TINY AMOUNT OF COURAGE,FIGHT

AND SHOW THOSE WHO DARED TO TOUCH YOU , MAIM YOU OR SCAR YOU ,PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY,

THAT YOU ARE STRONGER THAN THEIR MAL INTENTIONS AND THEIR INHUMANITY.

PLEASE, SHINE BRIGHT AND KNOW THAT

STARS SHINE BRIGHTER THAN EVER IN THE PITCH BLACK SKY

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

AND LOVE YOURSELF

YOU ARE DOING AMAZING SWEETIE,

JUST KEEP GOING ,

ONLY A LITTLE WHILE LONGER!

for those who have read this message until the end , I know you needed that ,I hope it helps you!