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I reposted this quote for you 🫶
Just breathe, everything will be okay, just trust me and trust yourself. I luv u <3
There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
(via purplebuddhaquotes)
You should build your own goals and dreams. I think it’s really sad that some people don’t get a chance to build their own dreams because of outside pressure.
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I got a nail appointment first thing tmr... all of the sudden my moodboard is ACTUALLY achievable.
Something I posted on my Instagram yesterday:
— how my life has changed in 2019
So I promised to make a caption about this, and while I’m here right now listening to the Dear Evan Hansen Soundtrack and crying about it, I decided to finally write it all down. I have always been rather open about my private life on this account, because I like to be honest and true and I’d like people to know me as I truly am. One thing I mentioned a few times but never went into detail about is my mental condition. I have social anxiety and I’ve probably had it all my life (according to my parents) but it got worse during my early teenage years, due to a toxic friend (according to my therapist). I’ve only come to admit this condition to myself about two years prior. I got a therapist and I’ve been in therapy ever since with sessions every once in a while and it did help me a lot. What helped me even more though was a fresh start, which is what leads me to this year.
At the beginning of this year my ex boyfriend of two years broke up with me. I haven’t realized how much I attached myself to him and relied on him until I was truly on my own again, and god did it help me to get more independent and myself again. A few months later I graduated, so once again one chapter of my life that was behind me. I had to get into university. But before that I had months to find myself, and god did this summer make me happy and confident. I went to see my therapist more often again and he encouraged me to take more risks (risks as in talking to people more often, forcing myself out of my shell, take the anxiety with me and push through it) and I did. I also spend a lot of time reading and painting/drawing which helped me, too, because it calms my nerves and helps me escape my life for a bit.
University started and I knew no one. Awful conditions for someone with social anxiety, great for someone who’s fighting it. I’m still struggling with making friends to this day, but I am learning and I can see and appreciate the progress I’m making. I try to go out more often and take risks and text people even though I’m terrified. I try to go to people I know from class and talk to them, even if it’s just “hi” and honestly it makes me feel powerful, because finally I’m not just letting the fear push me down but instead I’m pushing back, fighting with all my might, even if that might is just a shy “hello, how are you today?”. I try to go out more often, to parties or even on dates or trips from my university. I show up to my classes and lectures as much as I can. I even go to the loo in the middle of class and raise my hand to participate even though I have only known my classmates for a few months instead of years. It’s baby steps, but it’s something. I’ve still got a long way to go but I’m working on it and I know eventually I will get there. This year is solid proof for that, and I’m so incredibly thankful for everything and everyone that helped me get where I am today.
Another thing that changed besides my anxiety is how I view myself. I used to dislike me and my looks like any broody teenager. I’ve grown up. I appreciate my body and everything it does for me. I try to keep it healthy and changed to a mainly plant based diet and go for a lot of long walks. I’ve lost a lot of weight through that, which is good if you keep in mind that I was on the cusp of being overweight for quite some time. I’m now a healthy average weight for my height. I feel so much better and more beautiful and healthy.
So as you see, a lot of things changed this year for the better for me and even though there was a lot of stress and anxiety and heartbreak, it was absolutely and completely worth it and I couldn’t be more grateful.
You will be found, hopefully, and most importantly, by yourself.
Dear stranger,
have you ever cried so hard that you couldn't recognize your voice afterwards? Have you ever cried so hard that you couldn't breathe and was afraid you'd die?
If you have, remember that you have made it another day, week, month and year. You're still here. You're here for a reason. Don't give up. Keep going.
When it's hard, you feel like you want to give up, but what if instead when you want to hide from the world all that could save you would be a hug, a cup of tea and a sweet word?
As I'm writing this, I can't help but wonder what the future holds. We may have a lot of dark days ahead, but the sun always comes up after the storm.
Have you ever noticed how quickly and peacefully the sky pulls herself together after it rains? How the next day the sun comes up and it shines even more beautiful than before?
Each one of us cry, some harder, some much more often than others. Crying is good. I know you think to yourself, that you're weak when you cry, but you're strong. You're strong because after you stop crying, you get up and have to go on with your daily life. Even washing your face and drinking some water afterwards can be a big effort, but it means that you take care of yourself, as you should. It means you're on the right way.
So next time you cry, cry long and hard. After you finish, listen to some healing music, get up from your bed and go to work, to school, take a walk...etc. Tell yourself it'll get better. Because it always will.
If you feel like nothing makes sense anymore, believe me it does. Everything is for a reason, and everything that's broken, has got a cure, a healing. Speak to someone, there are so many people that feel exactly like you do.
You will get through it. I believe in you.
- from a stranger, that feels just like you
RUN.
When life gets tough, remember: Somewhere, someone is cheering for you. ALWAYS.
I’ve wanted to quit living it so many times, but then moments like these remind me that happiness isn’t some permanent thing we’re all trying to achieve in life, it’s merely a thing that shows up every now and then, sometimes in tiny doses that are just substantial enough to keep us going.
Guy walking to his bus stop:
Forever a POWER RANGER you ARE!!
Thanks guy. I needed that today.
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✨🥀ℙ𝕚𝕔𝕜 𝕦𝕡 𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕥🥀✨
Whatever you do in life, theres one thing you should definately not do...
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And its to listen to people that dont support you, now these catergory of individuals would be considered toxic. Personally I think the best way to get rid of toxic people is to shut them out as much as you can and dont get 'protecting you for your own safety' confused with 'toxicity'.
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🌹: Protectivity is when one or more people try to defend you agaisn something you think you want to do but they know it wont end well for you, and most times those people are right, and they're trying to protect you.
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🥀: Toxicity is when one or more people try to get you to not do the stuff you want to do, but their reasoning is only selfish to make you sad or upset about your life this is when in any sort of relationship becomes toxic.
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But its okay aslong as we can tell the difference between them It'll be better, because we dont want to push away loved ones who genuinley care about us, and not know whether or not someones acting toxic towards us. Personally I think if we can tell the difference we would have better lives, doing this and not overthinking would be very helpful skills to master. Because in society today we have people we know personally or not know at all, telling what to do or not what to do, we have a lot of toxicity in our society today. This brings me to another part...
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TOXIC PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN PROBLEMS! Just like everyone else, there would obviously have to be a reason to act toxic and even some people dont realise they're being toxic towards others. Its imprtant to remember, if we find out someones being toxic towards you they're probably going through something, and if we can try to keep that person away from us for as long as we can until they've sorted out their problems, cos everyone has them right?
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Anyway thanks for reading hopefully this is actually helpful to people or else i wrote that all for nothing lol. Hope y'all have a great day/night wherever you are in the world <3
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