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Hi can i ask for your help? I'm in a sad and crying place. If you cannot give it, i understand and will keep looking. By the way is "Deredere" said like the lady's name Deidre?

Yes ofc I'll do my best to help anyway I can! First of all try taking some nice deep breaths. Try doing something to distract you from whatever it is that is making you upset. This can be something such as listening to music, talking to someone, playing an instrument, going for a walk, watching a TV show or movie that you find comforting, etc. Also, I just want to tell you that what you are feeling and experiencing is completely valid. Also even if it seems like it now you are not alone. Things won't always be like this, it will eventually get better. I strongly suggest reaching out to someone who is trustworthy to talk about how you are feeling, or if you can someone who specializes with mental health. Such as a therapist, as they will be able to be a better long-term assistant to bettering your overall emotional state. Remember it is perfectly okay to get help, we all need help sometimes. I also suggest practicing self-care, trying out a couple of new positive coping mechanisms, figuring out what your triggers are and how to better cope with them, maintaining a good sleep schedule, etc.

And to answer your question, deredere is pronounced like "dairy dare"

Sending you so much love!💛

You’re strong and you’ll get through whatever you’re struggling with right now!

And if you EVER need someone to talk, my inbox is always open!

(That goes for everyone who’s having a hard time, if you need to talk, I’m here!)

Hey uh so

This is my official one-note-one-day post.

I just- I don’t know what I’m hoping will happen just that I won’t almost die or want to die everyday.

I’ve just been not okay.

Just because you feel like you’re a mess doesn’t mean you’re trash.

You can have a mess that’s made up of good things, just in the wrong places. When you finally are able to clean it up you could find amazing things. You could be amazing.

There’s no need to rush in the clean up either, take your time. Enjoy yourself and make a habbit of remembering the good things, people and events. Place everything in the places you want them to be in.

You will be okay…you may be a mess now but you’re worth so much, there’s no need to throw it all away. Always keep fighting.

What's up, peeps?

So, I was once again playing Legend of Mushroom. After about a week of building up the courage to try and make conversation in the server chat (give or take a day or two), I finally did it! My heart was beating so hard that it actually moved my whole body with every beat, but I did it :]

I really thought everything was going well, I managed to kind of hold a conversation and even earned myself a friend request in the process, but then I made the mistake of mentioning that I'm queer.

Cue the transphobic jokes, slurs, people ganging up on me whenever I try to contribute to the conversation, telling me that I'm either a man or a woman, and telling me to "stop making everything about gender" when I had in fact only mentioned it a handful of times because people were asking me questions about it.

I quickly gave up on trying to make friends.

One very strong panic attack later, and I'm stuck wondering why people are so mean

I didn't say anything bad or mean, I was just trying to contribute to the conversation :[

One kind person sent me a private message asking if I was okay, this person is also the one who sent me the friend request :]

It really made me feel a lot better, I'm extremely grateful ^-^

I'm still shaking, and I will be for a while, but I would be crying right now if it weren't for them.

Moral of the story:

1. don't ever mention anything about being queer in an online game server chat, it is never a safe space, and it will discourage you from ever typing another chat message again.

2. Reach out to people when you think they might need it. It never, ever hurts to check in on someone just in case. Worst case scenario, they'll just brush it off and continue with their day. Best case scenario, you just saved someone's life. I really can't stress this enough, don't be afraid to spread kindness in a world where it's so incredibly needed.

PSA aside, I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day 🧡 this blog is a safe space for anyone who might need a friend, or just someone willing to lend an ear. My messages are open, don't hesitate to pay them a visit for whatever reason. I care about you, and you're not alone

Yours truly, Stickbug 🪲

Reblogging my siblings post, my messages may not be open, but theirs are <3

What's up, peeps?

So, I was once again playing Legend of Mushroom. After about a week of building up the courage to try and make conversation in the server chat (give or take a day or two), I finally did it! My heart was beating so hard that it actually moved my whole body with every beat, but I did it :]

I really thought everything was going well, I managed to kind of hold a conversation and even earned myself a friend request in the process, but then I made the mistake of mentioning that I'm queer.

Cue the transphobic jokes, slurs, people ganging up on me whenever I try to contribute to the conversation, telling me that I'm either a man or a woman, and telling me to "stop making everything about gender" when I had in fact only mentioned it a handful of times because people were asking me questions about it.

I quickly gave up on trying to make friends.

One very strong panic attack later, and I'm stuck wondering why people are so mean

I didn't say anything bad or mean, I was just trying to contribute to the conversation :[

One kind person sent me a private message asking if I was okay, this person is also the one who sent me the friend request :]

It really made me feel a lot better, I'm extremely grateful ^-^

I'm still shaking, and I will be for a while, but I would be crying right now if it weren't for them.

Moral of the story:

1. don't ever mention anything about being queer in an online game server chat, it is never a safe space, and it will discourage you from ever typing another chat message again.

2. Reach out to people when you think they might need it. It never, ever hurts to check in on someone just in case. Worst case scenario, they'll just brush it off and continue with their day. Best case scenario, you just saved someone's life. I really can't stress this enough, don't be afraid to spread kindness in a world where it's so incredibly needed.

PSA aside, I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day 🧡 this blog is a safe space for anyone who might need a friend, or just someone willing to lend an ear. My messages are open, don't hesitate to pay them a visit for whatever reason. I care about you, and you're not alone

Yours truly, Stickbug 🪲

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

20) One Piece.

21) One Piece isn’t finished yet

22) The Hashira Training arc hasn’t been fully released yet

23) There’s lots of yummy food to eat

24) You won’t be able to lay in your comfy bed

25) You might find some random money around your house

26) Because life in itself is a blessing. Being born is one of the greatest gifts

27) Just live for the hell of it

28) So you can look up at the moon

29) Mt. Dew

30) If you have pets, they will miss you!

REASONS NOT TO END IT ALL:

1) all the unreleased songs from your favourite artist

2) all the dogs and cats waiting to be loved by you

3) GOTTA OUTLIVE THE HATERS

4) THE HATERS GONNA BE HAPPY IF YOU DIE

5) potatoes. boil them, mash them, fry them up till golden and crispy

6) we got 2 more fnaf movies to go

7) dr. pepper

8) you have so many hugs left to give and get

9) you might eat your favourite meal tomorrow

10) keep telling yourself “not today.” one day you won’t have to.

please, REBLOG + ADD MORE REASONS!

What if, and hear me out, people DO love you

Your coworker who loves when they get to work a shift with you, even if you don’t talk

Your cousin who’s relieved when they see you at family gatherings, who thinks you’re “the cool cousin” but hasn’t said anything out loud

Your classmate who thinks you have great taste, even if they’re too shy to speak up about it in class

Your childhood friends who remember you fondly

The waiter you tipped during a busy night

That person you complimented on the street

The little kid you waved to

The old woman you made small talk with

People love you, because you’re lovable. And you’re worthy of love. Even if it doesn’t feel like it sometimes

(Self depreciating comments will be removed at best, bluntly and remorselessly told to shut the fuck up at worst. Fuck around. I dare you.)

To any suicidal followers I may have: This is a sign to not kill yourself. You are loved and the world is special because you are in it. Keep holding on.

Reblog this when it’s on your dash. You will save someone’s life.